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Posted: 20 years ago
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dolly wrote:

Well guys and gals.

We hear this so many times.Mostly I hear this phrase from guys, all the time.I feel the grass is always greener on the other side.

There is an old story from puranas. It goes like this. God created a creature. When he did that, he created him as a hermophrodite. Slowly the creature self procreated, found pleasure whenever it wanted, absolutely no sweat. But then his thoughts wandered and he became powerful. Too powerful fro God's comfort. God then took a knife and cut the creature into two such that the sexual organs seperated into different beings. Since then it is told that every man searches for his other half.

just one of those dumb stories, which one reads and laughs at. I think the man vs. woman debate is tried, tested, old and done to death.

what do you think ?

Dolly;

Interesting, thanks for enriching my knowledge, though i am hearing for the first time, well as long as the men and women exists, no doubt this debate and the forums and posts like this will continue.

The grass is always green; it is the intent which makes it a shade less or more.

But i really do not know whether the shaadi, is indeed a ladoo or otherwise.

I strongly believe in that one twinkle of the eye that can make one flip his heart out..and probably one word of his that can make her melt on her knees...

I believe that the twinkle in the eyes, heart flipping out and the melting emotions/ motions are more to do with glamorous world, for the normal average human being, it is more of survival spree and in the process if can get the companion who can partner, they get the "ladoo" and carry on with their survival, the magic does not happen in real life unless you have values and principles for which you live, a human beings values are magic unto himself and he is not interested creating a magic out so called "ladoo".

Just one of those dumb stories, which one reads and laughs at. what do you think ?

You said it.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Don't marry for money; you can borrow it cheaper 😃 .Scottish Proverb
Daughter - Mum, is it true that in India a woman does not know her husband until she marries him?
Mum - That's happens everywhere dear. 😆
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmyaa

To an extend it is right to say this phrase. Dolly, I disagree when you say "...No one be it guy or a girl gets true happiness by getting someone or something...." That is not true. When you are in love you do get happiness by getting that someone and just being with him/her. It is the sweetest thing. Every age has it's own charm. When you are young you do believe in those magical moments and that's the time when it does happend to you.

About shadi, I think it's moreof a practical version of romance, love, passion, all those magical moments. It's just that life goes on....once you live those magical moments the passion faints over the time and you are dumped with lots of responsibility which you never had when you were young. That does not mean that you regret of eating that "laddo"! If individual understand and accepts phases of their life there is no regrets. Married life has its own struggle and adjustments but at the same time it also has magical moments.

I think people who get in married life and then compain about shadi ka ladoo sometimes does not know where they are going or what they want from life or sometimes what they are not aware that this is best they could get at this stage. 😉

And sometime people's expectations are way higher. Life or Marriage is not "always" about being in magical moments...you have to sometime work for those moments.

i agree with you sowmya, love is not something which makes you melt of fall down on the kneess, i believe it is great to be in love, and is indeed a joy to carry the true emotion, no matter whatever the circusmtances may be,being in love is strength and comparing love with ultimate desire called ladoo is being ungreatful to your love.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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There is one teeny weeny problem in this - what about gay relationships/marriages????
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

There is one teeny weeny problem in this - what about gay relationships/marriages????



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