Why Anandi is People Pleaser ? - Page 6

Yes Anandi is a ppl pleaser and she tries to plz those ppl most who are rude to her.

this poll said anandi people pleaser because she has fear of rejection fear of failure .but did ever anandi said in bv that she please people because she has fear of rejection .why to judge anandi on base of assumption .v do not like gauri sanchi but that does not mean v start crictizing them judging them on base of assumption .

i dnt find anandi unreal or fake...as far as her pleasing attitude is concerned, i think MOST of us, including me, have the unconscious habit of attempting to make people like us..its not bad, it becomes harmful when gets excessive,so is wid anandi (example gauri, jagya and sanchi at times)..anandi loves EVERYONE..she is one of those people who has a kind word and smile for even the random passerbys..its not insecurity, its not being afraid of failing..its just a part of her..and she DOES snap...its rare but she does, and thn we applaud (atleast i do)...and her attempts decrease when there is unconditional love..not coz of insecurity, but coz of the belief in the love..its annoying again, but she is human...u cant judge her on being "mahaan" and then crib when her human nature gets better of her...

Originally posted by: mahi12

fruity dear who will read your post seeing the font and its size ..i need magnifying glass for it🤓

Yes , she is a ppl pleaser, she takes all efforts to win the heart of those who r rude to her. "ppl shld like her in the way she looks" .
One point is clear we are not living for others and we can't change our basic attitudes and taste for others. If we does we lose our "identity" .
She chose shiv over jagya that is the only decision she took her on own. Even, behind that I can find her promise to her mom. So, for me she seems like a fake. All the time we can't live for others and we can't take decisions based on their words. She is doing everything to comeout of her insecurities and moreover she has no other options than pleasing them bcoz she has to stay there for the rest of her life.

@vidya - correct. Someone who is not happy in her own life cant make others happy.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

this poll said anandi people pleaser because she has fear of rejection fear of failure .but did ever anandi said in bv that she please people because she has fear of rejection .why to judge anandi on base of assumption .v do not like gauri sanchi but that does not mean v start crictizing them judging them on base of assumption .

Originally posted by: dilipc302

One has to choose Option A, or B, or both?

In our auditing techniques, we call it as 'leading question' which predisposes the respondent to answer in a particular way.

This poll is like 'Chit - mai Jeeta; Pat - Tum hare!'

i find it assumption thats it