Sorry for long post
I have seen in many post that they are simply blaming Shiv for not taking care of his mom feelings, by keeping quite when DS invited them and saying that Anandi not talking any thing and feeling happy for DS idea is not Anandi character, even if you say that she was respectful to elders and doesn't want to talk when two elders are talking and CM knows better about Ira than Anandi all this because Anandi always talks to make situations go smoothly and she didn't think it is not good to interfere when CM was trying to convenience Ira she stopped CM and tried to explain her, which is good, so she never feels it bad to talk when things are not good and if she feels that some is going hurt.
Does anandi and DS does not know that in any family they would like their bahu to perform some rasam and celebrate the big festival with their family, if it is in haveli bahu then they need to be at their home if it is their daughter then they need to come to haveli so they never give any importance to rasam in daughters sasural...DS at least doen't know that they have already planned something for festival and as they are already in jaitsar she might have just invited, but Anandi does know that her current sasuma has plans for festival then why didn't she talk anything about it atleast think for a second when DS invited. Shiv family and his mom has supported Anandi as equally as Singhs family, if some one like Anandi cannot think about Shiv family love and respect for her then there is no meaning of pyarr and relations. She just went for one or two hours to make them happy and then took shiv to her family to enjoy rest of the festival she took all care not to spoil trip to Haveli. see Mahi, sachi and shiv's Dad has taken off from their work to enjoy all occasions where they have Ansh around and get a chance to have some memorable days, but Ansh are least bothered about their Shakers family.
I didn't watch today episode we know the day when DS invited and nandu fight, that Anandi would plan something like this as CM was talking too much about her samjdhari and Jagiyas badapan charcha by loosing the kite fight,
CM would never talk like this if this was Mahi, she is trying to be over good to Anandi, and trying to show Anandi as mahan and to Ira and it is all her mis-understandings
I would not blame Shiv in this situation for not talking about invitation, Shiv is trying hard to impress and anandi and make her marriage succesful. Shiv is trying take care that Anandi is not at all upset, he is always trying to keep Anandi happy, he has seen how Anandi cried when she came to know that Jagiya went away and he has also seen happiness in her when he found Jagiya so he know that Anandi will be happy seeing Singhs family happy and that is the reason he brought Anandi back to jaitsar, just to do anything to make her happy. See it is foolish to talk now, Anandi and we all know when Shiv sudden trip to jaitser was to make Anandi comfortable. Even on that Anandi did not say even one word...let us stay for some more time with your family, looked like she was happy with his idea. Shiv didn't tell his mom about Anandi's insecurities and trying solve it by himself that shows his concern for his family as well because he knows that no one could be happy what is going on in his life and Ansh doesn't have any personal relationship. Then he would not have CM talking about Anandi's samjdhari.
Since Shiv is engaged to Anandi he is behaving like he doesn't have any other important thing to do apart from keeping Anandi, DS and her family happy.
Until today Anandi has not done anything to make singh family happy or taken any steps get close to them it is shiv and his family who has been trying to make her happy and give her importance. After all the goodness, she is the one who support Anandi when every one said she is not a new bahu, Ira is already becoming bad for every one now because she is feeling bad if she would have stopped anandi from going to DS house then she would have been a villan who did not care about anandi her happiness. DS love and Anandi love for singh's family is ok and her concern for Jagiya is good, but Ira feelings for her Son is not good. She only has one son and she does not deserve any thing, what a shame.
Always the girl love for her parents is true and her parents love for her true and she gives importance to their feelings, but boy should not/will not have feelings for his family and his family love for them is not true and they don't deserve it
Edited by jhansijhansi - 12 years ago
