May be what Parvati meant was Shivji should notice her different look then usual & find out what is missing., this was just to get his attention, I guess that much husbands do notice.😆
That's what even I was wondering. Forget the kids, do wives discuss Shringar with their husbands, even? I thought the husbands were meant to see the end result of the Shringhar - not the process of it. At this rate beauty parlours will go out of business.