Should Purvi have told Archana about Punni?

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paradigm

@paradigm

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Posted: 13 years ago

Now we know that Punni is a vamp and upto no good. But for all Purvi knew she may have been love with Purvi and hiding her relation due to some majboori. When Purvi herself is lying about several important things, I dont see why she has the right to reveal Punni's secrets to Archana

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manny136

@manny136

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Posted: 13 years ago

Considering her secret is like a nuclear bomb compared to punnis past affair resurfacing its kinda hypocritical but her doing can lead to her secret being exposed then go for it yay!

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A HUGE FAN

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Posted: 13 years ago

What Punni is doing is wrong & selfishness. She is only after herself & doesn't care about anyone else.

Purvi, however, is looking out for everyone and thus, is lying, but in good nature.

So, you cannot compare the two!

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-LiveLaughLove-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Purvi and Punni are incomparable in my Pov..

Punni does everything for selfish desires.. Not for the good of others it has to benefit her in some way...

Purvi does stuff for others.. Purvi doesn't want Punni to end up in this type of relationship all her life. She wants the best for her sister, even if Punni could careless. Purvi gets no benefit in bringing Punni's doings up some would say this is hypocritical. But heres the thing life isnt about that.. Purvi knows that she has made mistakes in her life no one was there to stop her from doing so.. i.e. telling Arjun to marry Ovi, the elders did nothing about it... Here Purvi is trying to save Punni from a relationship she feels is not right..

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

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Posted: 13 years ago

I actually don't understand Why Purvi is so against Punni? Punni is an adult and is elder to her. She has her choices and has the right to make those choices, just as it was Purvi choice to sleep with Arjun (basically a one night stand) and give him up the very next day to her step-sister to marry. So, why is Purvi judging others, when she is no saint in my eyes. Besides, Mallik/Mittal is a divorcee, so what is Purvi's problem or why does she need to dictate the terms of 'living' to others, when clearly she doesn't abide by them herself. To me, Purvi is the biggest hypocrite with a multiple personality disorder or something, not to mention a pathological liar, of course, my personal opinion absolutely...

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Pancham101

@Pancham101

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Posted: 13 years ago

Damned if she does and damned if she doesn't 😕

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sur_aur_taal

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Posted: 13 years ago

to some degree i understand why punni is being seen as selfish (family image/society and all) but on the other hand, her marrying mital is not going to affect anyone else's life but her own.

also purvi doesn't even have all the facts and she is going around telling archu about it.

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi
Purvi and Punni are incomparable in my Pov..

Punni does everything for selfish desires.. Not for the good of others it has to benefit her in some way...

Purvi does stuff for others.. Purvi doesn't want Punni to end up in this type of relationship all her life. She wants the best for her sister, even if Punni could careless. Purvi gets no benefit in bringing Punni's doings up some would say this is hypocritical. But heres the thing life isnt about that.. Purvi knows that she has made mistakes in her life no one was there to stop her from doing so.. i.e. telling Arjun to marry Ovi, the elders did nothing about it... Here Purvi is trying to save Punni from a relationship she feels is not right..

regardless of why she is doing what, purvi has no right to intervene in someones life. if she feels that punni and mittal relationship is wrong, then the most common decency allows her to do is go express her concern to punni. when you talk behind people's backs regardless of the intention to an uninvolved third party- its called gossiping. she has no right to talk to archana about punni behind her back. and honestly punni is 32 whereas purvi is 19. she is much more of an independant adult than purvi. purvi has no place trying to 'help' people who dont want it. whether punni marries a man in this forties for money or not is her business. if she does marry mittal, there is no harm in it. she marries a wealthy divorcee who is 10-12 years older and lives a comfortable life and keeps her mother comfy as well. purvi's illegitimate relationship is a lot more gross and toxic in nature than punni's. just cos punni did it for money and she did it for 'love' does not make anything better. purvi's choices will ruin a lot more ppl than punni's ever will. her intentions are inconsequential- action speaks louder than words.

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Pancham101
Damned if she does and damned if she doesn't 😕

no one would hate her for not talking about this. she's damned if she does, not damned if she doesnt. this is strictly non of her business.

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Pancham101

@Pancham101

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

most common decency allows her to do is go express her concern to punni

She did

she has no right to talk to archana about punni behind her back.

Purvi is not trying to score points here or tattle on Punni. This is out of genuine concern. In the event of any untoward happening, the blame will be on Purvi, that she kept such important news to herself. Again not the reason she is telling Archana.

whether punni marries a man in this forties for money or not is her business.

Married is the operative word here...the last time there was no marriage involved. This time too, Mittal is certainly not proposing marriage. The live in part may not be the issue as much as the fact that Mittal is bad news.

purvi's illegitimate relationship is a lot more gross and toxic in nature than punni's.

Punni's relationship with Mittal cannot even be mentioned in the same sentence.

As Arjun and Purvi's.

Edited by Pancham101 - 13 years ago