Posted:
Hi guys...After seeing so many post abashing Anandi and telling her to fasten her process of falling in love or why cannot she fall for a guy like Shiv i have tried through this post to make these members understand my point of view...any contradiction is invited but please be polite in what you have to say and don't repeat any points which makes it to the non-sensible list
I am not supporting Anandi. yes her aloof behaviour in beginning angered me but i never expect her to fall for shiv suddenly.
Anandi has come from a village where most of the her near and dear ones had a Bal Vivah and they were living a good and happy life(let's not include Sugna and Asha as Anandi was too small to understand their unhappiness and Gehna started having a happy life with Basant when Anandi grew up)
So in short she never really saw unhappiness in her surrounding regarding Bal Vivah. When she grew up she realized that because she had a Bal Vivah she was not able to study and had to forcefully do her duties but she never complained because her elders told her this was right and she had her Jagya and his love. Unlike city girls she never came across a situation where she saw divorcee or was never explained any fishy situation like domestic violence but was told to keep quiet and mind her own business. Anandi had her life all planned out like map.She had a complete life and knew that Jagya will stay with her forever. But when Jagya changed his attitude it came as shock for her but lets not forget that she never gave up hope and thought it as just a bad phase and it will soon pass out. Until the last minute she was in a hope that nothing could seperate her and Jagya and she will soon reach and stay with him but Jgaya called and crashed her dreams almost killing her int he shock...though after that she always told people that it wasn't her fault she deep down inside thought that maybe she is not worth for such beautiful thing as love then Shiv came and showed her what she really was and she found it difficult to believe that she can have such nice qualities.She realized that she is actually afraid of love and comittment and Shiv has actually indirectly showed her her real feeling regarding her life and love. No one tried to understand her but Shiv made her feel so special that she thought that this perfection in life is a false hope and she should not give a lift to her hopes...she never thought that a girl who was rejected by Jagya can ever be a object of attraction and respect for someone so educated and talented. When she started getting attracted to Shiv then she felt a anger at herself as getting attracted to Shiv means she is challenging her own opinion that love happens only once and its a human nature that you don't like if you yourself challenge and change your life long belief. Slow and steady wins race and its better to do work slowly and neatly then make hasty decisions. That's what Anandi is doing. If Anandi instantly falls for Shiv then it will stupid and also show that Anandi does not value love and when god forbid if Shiv also goes little wrong in his way she will forget him and fall for another guy...such types of girl are never worthy of love and never realize proper meaning of love like Gauri.
PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I AM WRONG AND HOPE THIS POST BRINGS A LITTLE PATIENCE IN PEOPLE AGAINST ANANDI AND GETS INCALCULATED WITH AT LEAST 10% OF PATINCE WHICH SHIV HAS FOR ANANDI
CID
