i like it that Anandi is attached to the Singhs

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't understand why anybody would want Anandi to not be as involved with the Singhs as she was before. Its such an old-timey concept to accept your inlaws as your family unit and not be an active part of your parents' lives.

I see a lot of people saying that Anandi's heart is still in BH. Well, of course it is! We always love our parents more than anything! She'll adjust with the Shekhars too, but it will be gradual- just like Choti Anandi took time to adjust... and also like any other girl. Then she'll have equal love for both. I think Sanchi n Ira are entirely unjustified.

If my parents lived really close to my current house, I'd stop by every freaking day, so what's wrong if Anandi behaves normal? Thank God she's doing that finally. Why do some people feel its uncool to the Shekhars- that's such an evil saas wala view. Anandi has two families n so does Shiv! We must move towards feminism and equality- this paraya dhan thinking must go for a toss!

I think Anandi is already more free in some ways with the Shekhars than she was with the Singhs as she never took the latter for granted n rightfully went to her biological parents when she wished. She was submissive there, responding to DS's dominance n is free here, in relation to the bohemian spirit of the Shekhars.

Also, we expect too much from Anandi- we hate that she's idealistic- but we hate when she shows a flaw, too. Guess what seems out of character is actually character progression.

I think CVs are doing a good job with a novel concept where the daughter is linked to both homes just like male counterparts always are. In fact, women are expected to be totally comfy in the new home while men are always treated like guests n never undergo a real adjustment period. I'd love to see that happening.

I think Anandi already loves Shiv. Only she doesn't realize it. I feel this way coz she's free with him, behaves haq se and takes him for granted (in a good way) 😊

I like that the JaGa track is the serious one while AnSh is bubblegum coz its a welcome turntable chain of events. Anandi's character deserves to take a chill pill.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said ... Thank you : )
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey..thank u sooo much for this lovely post...i agree with u 😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A girl loves her maayka more than sasural anyday. With sasural it is more of a duty rather than love.And before anyone calls Singhs her ex-in-laws thats not really true. Bhajo and Khajan may have given birth to her , But Sumi and Bhairon are her parents since she is 8 yrs old. Janam dene waale se paalne wale zyada important hote hain.
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