Exactly. Well said. She had moved on with Shiv, even before J was back. She was already getting engaged.
Anandi, under whatever situation maybe, when agreed for the marriage, knew very well that Jagya is in mumbai and Singhs have to be alone after her marriage... she didnot dream that Jagya will be back one day to take care of Singhs... So why create unnecessary drama... She is behaving as she is the mother of Singhs and they can't live without any supervision...
However, broadminded Shekars are, this irresponsible act of hers will definately irk them...