Tara's character analysis- Q/A - Page 2

good thought....i also feel that people around her shd have acted more sensible and more by Brijesh....cos the mental stability of tara was imbalanced for most of the fact...but still its how ones environment acts to the person will signifies the change in character

From today' (Oct 12) update

[quote=realitybites] Saloni to Tara:You got me into this house, during all troubled times you strengthened me. While Kakisa was scheming you helped me. I am incomplete without you. With folded hands she seeks forgiveness for her mistakes. Tara gets tearful and holds her hands in affirmation. [/quote]

I was talking about this Tara. I am sure this Tara doesn't need to be slapped. She turned like this because of a dominating elder sister. All she needs is someone who can bring her back to normal self. If not counselling then Saloni😊.

Originally posted by: anjali.nair

I know that Tara is one of the hated characters on Saath Phere now. My analysis is based on a different perspective. Please give your views.

Tara was this caring and devoted elder bahu of Singh parivaar. All of us have seen how considerate she was to Saloni when latter was abused by Aditi. She was the one to ask Brijesh and Nahar to help Saloni and family at various crises they had earlier in the show. She was always pleasant. Then what changed her? Have we ever thought about that? In my opinion a person won't become childish and foolish all of a sudden.

1. Is it okay to just blame everything on Tara's childish behavior? Isn't there more to it? No Tara should not be blamed! Granted, her behavior is completely against her character, the way she used to be! But her actions, even if they're not justified, they ARE understandable!

2. Couldn't it be Tara's frustration from not having kids and insecurity that Nahar's waris will get all the property and Brijesh & her could be thrown out later? without even thinking as far as the property, the idea itself that she won't have a baby, someone to be with her, a little girl or boy to talk to, spend time with, play with...i'm sure that's enough to bring her down to such a state....fueled with jiji's remarks and taunts, Tara was bound to reach this emotional state at one point or another.

3. Don't you think that she is mentally incapable now and instead of listening to her foolish plan like marrying Urvahsi, Brijesh should have taken her to a psychiatrist? I agree...I would have loved to see him actually take her to a psychiatrist....but would she have gone?! She would have become even more crazier and instigate Brijesh saying he was trying to make her mad! Not many people in India visit psychiatrists without a second thought.

4. In India sudden changes in behavior is considered stupid and childish and going to a psychiatrist is almost never an option. What is your take on it? It's an unfortunate truth. Even in US or any other countries, people with an unbalanced mental state find it hard to accept that they need psychiatric help. So it's just worse in India. However, counseling for marriage problems and other such things...we see more of those occurences in US and other countries than in India...maybe it's a shame that they can't handle themselves and their families w/out other people's help?!

All of us are entitled to our opinion. It would be good to see various takes on these queries.

great topic Anjali👏

Originally posted by: anjali.nair

From today' (Oct 12) update

[quote=realitybites] Saloni to Tara:You got me into this house, during all troubled times you strengthened me. While Kakisa was scheming you helped me. I am incomplete without you. With folded hands she seeks forgiveness for her mistakes. Tara gets tearful and holds her hands in affirmation. [/quote]

I was talking about this Tara. I am sure this Tara doesn't need to be slapped. She turned like this because of a dominating elder sister. All she needs is someone who can bring her back to normal self. If not counselling then Saloni😊.

Tara to be slapped! 😲 I never said that. 😭 .
I too don't want her to be slapped. Violence is never answer to anything.
I was just answering your questions 😊 .

But Tara is reprehensible for her behr. May be for a month she recites daily " I will not be misled or intigated by anyone. I will trust my fly! 😆

Well i think Tara is just a victim of circumstances. He desire of wanting a child badly has affected her emotionally and mentally that when her sister comes acting as a 'support', she dd not hesitate to depend on it. Her mistake was depending and trusting that false support too much. She allowed herself to be brainwashed by her sister unconsciously. With her sister always following her 24/7, and telling her the reasons why things are happening the way it is, she is not even given the chance to reflect on the things going around her and have her own opinion. Didnt any of u realise tat Urvashi follows her everywhere like a dog. The only difference is Urvashi is a dog with brains and devilish mind. 😉 Tara is now very much affected by the fact that she cant be pregnant (thanks to jiji) 😡 😡 . So she is emotionally depressed. She feels that no one else understands her other than her sis. So she end up being mentally ill like her sister... 😆 😆
I really think she needs to be separated from her sister and have her own opinion and her own say and get professional help to overcome he depression on not being able to have a child.