My opinion on Shiv,anandi and Ashima

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aspbhargavi

@aspbhargavi

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am silent member of this forum.I have been watching this show from last 2 years.

I have a opinion I want to share with you( I know most of you don't agree with me).I am not bashing anyone.

I love anandi and her character .I know she got a very nice husband Shiv. she will never get anyone better than shiv.

But shiv would have been more happier if he would have married Ashima( as they say you will be more happier with the partner who loves you ).Ashima tried to change for shiv.she knows each everything about Shiv including small things.She is crying for him like anything.She sacrificed her love for Shiv's happiness.

I know in future anandi will love Shiv.But still I think she can never love Shiv the way Ashima does.

Anyway I am a huge Ansh fan.So I want them to communicate better and be happy.

anyone agree with my opinion?

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Jaymaa

@Jaymaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ashima ka love voh jagya aur gauri vala love jesa he. She just attract him.

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

But Shiv does not love Ashima. He clearly stated that. But in A's case , a thinks she can make him happy, but she is not even trying.hopefully we are not made to wait too long for A to start wanting Shiv. Until that time Shiv should give her space. When they go back to Jaitsar they should sleep in separate beds until A is longing for Shiv.

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er_alks

@er_alks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Jan50
But Shiv does not love Ashima. He clearly stated that. But in A's case , a thinks she can make him happy, but she is not even trying.hopefully we are not made to wait too long for A to start wanting Shiv. Until that time Shiv should give her space. When they go back to Jaitsar they should sleep in separate beds until A is longing for Shiv.

Yeah probably shiv should back from getting intimate with A after 2nd night fiasco. They shud go back to their formal frndship status till A starts longing for shiv's love and touch.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

Shiv knows that he does not love Ashima.

Ashima thinks that she loves Shiv. Hers is only infatuation.

Anandi is confused with regard to her feelings for Shiv.

Whether there was Anandi or not Shiv would not have married Ashima.

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

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Posted: 12 years ago

Shiv was clear right frm the beginning tht he dosent love ashima..even if anandi was not in the picture he wld not have married her...ashima's love was always one sided.
Marrying ashima might have made her happy but would it be fair for ashima to marry a guy who didnt love her ?

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aspbhargavi

@aspbhargavi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Thanks for your replies.As I told you even I am a huge Ansh fan.But I am not liking the way the current track is going. Anandi afraid of going into the room( Esp as they showed in the precap). I know it is just TRP drama. The least she could do for Shiv is to talk to him about her feelings

Then I got this thought may be Shiv would have been happier if he married Ashima( As they say a best friend will be always a best partner).and of course if he married ashima then there will no Shiv in the show ( I dont want it either ..ha ha)..

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jack0007

@jack0007

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Posted: 12 years ago

@ aspbhargavi

it is nice that u brought up the topic..

i dont get what many here are trying to say

shiv does not love ashima so he should not marry her..

anandi doesnt love shiv but its ok for shiv to marry her.. what sort of logic is this????/ or is this some sort of gender bias.??.

no matter how much we argue--

love always begins with some infatuation... when this feeling is reciprocated or received well by the other person n with mutual trust n admiration love blooms..

can anyone explain why ashima's feelings for shiv are just infatuation whereas what shiv feels for anandi is true love... ashima didnt bother telling shiv because she knew he liked anandiji..

similarly when shiv felt that anandi still loves jagya he was willing to let her go..

how can u disregard ashima's feelings for shiv as mere physical attraction..she has known shiv for years n knows him very well..its not something that has developed all of a sudden..

@ aspbhargavi

probably shiv would have been happier with aashi..it would have been a compromise for him but he would have gradually fallen in love with her..

similarly shiv is just a compromise for anandi n yes she will gradually fall for him.(thats why i wanted anandi to fall in love with shiv prior to the marriage)

my thoughts-it was probably because of fate that shiv n anandi landed together n aashi n shiv didnot (bhagos death n the forced arranged marriage drama)

Edited by jack0007 - 12 years ago