My opinion on Shiv,anandi and Ashima - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well it is too late to think on those terms. Shiv has to do with what he got into.He chose the bed and he sleeps in it if allowed. Pun intended.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jack0007

@ aspbhargavi

it is nice that u brought up the topic..

i dont get what many here are trying to say
shiv does not love ashima so he should not marry her..
anandi doesnt love shiv but its ok for shiv to marry her.. what sort of logic is this????/ or is this some sort of gender bias.??.

no matter how much we argue--
love always begins with some infatuation... when this feeling is reciprocated or received well by the other person n with mutual trust n admiration love blooms..

can anyone explain why ashima's feelings for shiv are just infatuation whereas what shiv feels for anandi is true love... ashima didnt bother telling shiv because she knew he liked anandiji..
similarly when shiv felt that anandi still loves jagya he was willing to let her go..

how can u disregard ashima's feelings for shiv as mere physical attraction..she has known shiv for years n knows him very well..its not something that has developed all of a sudden..

@ aspbhargavi

probably shiv would have been happier with aashi..it would have been a compromise for him but he would have gradually fallen in love with her..
similarly shiv is just a compromise for anandi n yes she will gradually fall for him.(thats why i wanted anandi to fall in love with shiv prior to the marriage)

my thoughts-it was probably because of fate that shiv n anandi landed together n aashi n shiv didnot (bhagos death n the forced arranged marriage drama)

u sAID IT...AND LET'S NOT FORGET THAT ASHIMA WAS EVEN READY TO CHANGE ACCORDING TO SHIV'S LIKING N SINCE SHE HAD AN ADJUSTING NATURE N SHIV'S FAMILY IS NOT CONSERVATIVE LIKE DADISA'S (THEY NEVER MADE ANANDI DO ANY WORK POST MARRIAGE) THINGS WOULD HAVE WORKED OUT FOR THEM...SHIV NEVER THOUGHT OF ASHIMA AS HIS WIFE AS HE HAD AN INDIAN MINDSET REGARDING HIS WIFE N FOR HIM ASHIMA WAS NOT A GIRL WITH INDIAN MINDSET SO NO ROMANTIC FEELING CAME FOR HIM !!!!

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