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Nazneen

@chickster

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+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#31

Do you like the new bold, confident and expressive new Bani or did you like the quiet, reticient and introverted old Bani?

I like both Bani's. I never considered Bani to be shy in showing or admitting her feelings of love towards Jai. Post June 19th at certain points, Bani is bold, maybe not blatantly so, for example, when she was stuck in the burning house, than afterwards she told Jai that she wasn't scared of dying, but dying before she could tell the person she loved, just how much she loved him, that was as bold as she could get at that pint in time, as she was not sure of the future of her love, but now she is secure enough to express her feelings of love.

Do you think the Bani we are seeing now is the Real Woman who had been hidden behind years of lonliness and serenity? Or do you think that the new Bani is a just a product of temporary emotions and that she will revert back to her old-self when the first flush of love desends down?

I think that the woman we see is the real Bani. A human being has many different faces, and when you first fall in love, as Bani did, she fell in love with the thought that this man, Jai was never going to love her back. But now that she knows, that he does love her, and the night that he spent with her was not considered a mistake on his behalf, she is secure enough to express her love for him. Falling in love gives anyone the power to express their feelings no matter how shy they are.

How do you think Jai is perceiving his Wife now as compared to what he had seen of her till now? Is Jai put off by Bani's openness or is he just pleasantly surprised by her?

I don't think that he is put off by Bani's openess. I haven't seen the indian epi yet, but from the pictures and updates, I think he loves Bani's opennes, especially since he has cleared the air with Pia, he can now get past the guilt that he has been feeling over the last few days and start going ga ga over Bani again.

If Jai and Pia had not had the ONS (Which itself is pretty doubtful!) would Jai's behaviour towards Bani's new self have been any different from what it is now?

I doubt it. Actually, I think he would react more to Bani's openess if Pia 🤢 had nevr been in the equation, I also think that we would have seen a more romantic Jai 😳

Jai fell for Pia because she was just his opposite, vivacious, frank and expressive about her feelings. Bani in a way is very similar to Jai, but now that that she is all that Pia was once upon a time, do you think that aspect will make Jai hesitant or will it attract him more towards Bani?

I don't think that Bani has turned into a Pia, just by expressing the love that she feels for Jai. Pia, has always been selfish in love, where as Bani has always given in love. Yes, she is being more open about her feelings, but at the core, she still thinks like him and understands him, which Pia would never have been able to do. And I don't think that Jai ever loved Pia, he was infatuated, but never in love.

Inspite of Bani always being in Love with Jai, did you ever find Bani to be cold and unresponsive or do you think she is overdoing it now and it behaving out of character with Jai?

I never thought that Bani was cold or unresponsive. She reacted the way anyone in love would. The thing is that Bani & Jai's love isn't typical. Bani fell in love with a man, who always maintained that they never had a chance surviving in a relationship, so she kept her feelings and emotion to herself, but her eyes could never look away from him. But now that she knows that he loves her, she can freely admit her feelings. And personally, I think that it is Jai who is acting out of character not Bani. But I put the blame on Pia 🤢 the churail. I think in todays epi, we finally see the old flirty Jai again.

If you were in Bani's shoes, would your behaviour be consummate with Bani or would it be any different? Do you think Being in Love is a Subjective emotion and every woman reacts differently to it or do you think that Love as much makes everyone behave and react in a more or less same manner?

Everyone behaves differentyly in love, from the first thing that made you fall in love, to the feel of the first touch, that first look, everyone falls in love differently, but our reactions are the same. When you have the uncertainty of first love, and whether you think that the person you love reciprocates your feelings or not, you keep your love to yourself. Its quiet, but always there in a look, a word or a touch. But when the feelings of love are shared and reciprocated, than its like you've grown wings and feel that you can soar as high as possible, and you want to express your love in anyway possible, even in just a look. I really don't think that Bani is acting out of character, she's acting like she's in love, and that exactly how I would act.

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ProudMom

@ProudMom

Inactive

Posted: 19 years ago

#32

Hi MT
Well my believe is yes this Bani is not the one who I think Jai Walia started to fall for. As many times they have said its their eyes who always expresed thier feelings for each other. Yes Bani is in love and people who have fallen in love knows that love makes you do things that are not in your personality. Same thing is for Bani. I do understand Bani's feelings because she is in love with a man who is not just her husband but also the person who was willing to give his entire life to her. She is in love with a man who spoke to their child saying how the child will be so proud to have her as their mother. She is in love with a man who had so much trust on her, who never doubted her integrity, her motives. His respect for her was way beyond then anyone in his life. The new Bani is not the one who I would prefer to have for Jai Walia. These kind of woman he had(Pia, Roshni). H eneeded a wife loke Bani who understood his needs and wants without uttering any words. I liked the couple before.
On the other hand the husband Jai Walia who was/is in love with his wife has broken all the trust of a woman who has done so much for his sake. Its the guilt he has that holds him from being with his wife. Also he has doubted the person who he had all his trust on -His wife. For him to even think that his wife could be responsible for the killing of their child just shows that he words express a different picture of his feeling for his wife and his believes and actions shows a different picture of his trust, love towards his wife. Even when he approached Pia to clear everyhting he never said that he is in love and would not want or even think about what had occurred between the two. All he said was Bani was part of his life not his LOVE. He clearly had the chance to tell Pia his true feelings for his WIFE but he was too caring for Pia. So I think Jai Walia still needs to relaize what his wife has done for him and how much she has sacrificed and suffered for him. Now I think he needs to not show a thankful feelings towards Bani but he needs to show her the feelings he showed to his friends Tarun, Aditya and Mausi. Right now there is no such feelings Right now he is doing whatever with Bani to make himself feel better/ the GUILT. If he was truly in LOVE with his wife he would have asked millions of questions that he needed the answers for a long time but he choosed the eay way which was to just follow what wife says and will see later. I seriously will doubt if Bani will find ou soon of her husband's deeds. I hope to see better episodes when they return to Mumbai there was no spark in Dubai.Hopefully their return to their home will bring some closure between Mr & Mrs Jai-Bani Walia.

Oops wrote so mush. Sorry if I offended anyone. It was not the intention.

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Raania

@Raania

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#33

Do you like the new bold, confident and expressive new Bani or did you like the quiet, reticient and introverted old Bani?

i like the new bold and confident Bani...she is a lady in love and knows what she wants...i love the fact that she is out there stretching her hands for what she wants...atleast now when Jai will think of making a decision he will know that Bani loves him...his faith and trush in her wasnt wrong. If u love someone for real u will go to any extremes for that person..and Bani is a clear example of that

Do you think the Bani we are seeing now is the Real Woman who had been hidden behind years of lonliness and serenity? Or do you think that the new Bani is a just a product of temporary emotions and that she will revert back to her old-self when the first flush of love desends down?

i think is a little of both....Bani always has acted based on the emotions floating around her...the past few weeks she was in a truama and worry for her husbands life his property ...her guilt of loving a man who (accidently) killed her mum..her love for him and the fact that she would go to any extent for him....and now knowing that there is nothing stopping her and there is nothing to blame him for she can openly express her love for him...openly declare what she feels...i believe Bani will always be the person whose actions will reflect on what she is feeling ...if she is sad she will cry if she is happy she will laugh etc etc...

How do you think Jai is perceiving his Wife now as compared to what he had seen of her till now? Is Jai put off by Bani's openness or is he just pleasantly surprised by her?

he is pleasantly surprised by her...he is seeing a new Bani that he never knew existed and most importantly his seeing the love in her eyes for him which i think his never had before....his reaction of not totally reciprocating her feelings is his guilt of not exactly knowing what he did with Pia...but his most shocked in a pleasant way!!

If Jai and Pia had not had the ONS (Which itself is pretty doubtful!) would Jai's behaviour towards Bani's new self have been any different from what it is now?

yes he would have been a more 100% towards her....he would have taken her with open arms not caring about anything...he wouldnt look guilty...right now he showers his affection on her but at the sametime feels upset and guilt for what might have happened between him and Pia.. 🤢 which i doubt has

Jai fell for Pia because she was just his opposite, vivacious, frank and expressive about her feelings. Bani in a way is very similar to Jai, but now that that she is all that Pia was once upon a time, do you think that aspect will make Jai hesitant or will it attract him more towards Bani?

i think not Pia is all of the above but inconsiderate on the fact what the other person is feeling...Bani on the other hand puts herself last ...always thinkin of the other person...Jai has on numerous occassions tried to mend things with Bani and make things work...his actions have made her convinced that this mand feels for her more than he says....its his silent love that has given her the power to openly declare and express her emotions...the difference between Pia and Bani are many and we know it but in this sense its mostly the fact that Bani has given herself to her husband whom she has whole heartedly accepted and surrendered too whereas Pia is regretting the one decision she made of marrying Pushkar and has fallen for the man who would have given her everything she as a girl alwaz desired....If Jai Walia had been another person as PUshkar i dont think she would have fallen for him this way...

Inspite of Bani always being in Love with Jai, did you ever find Bani to be cold and unresponsive or do you think she is overdoing it now and it behaving out of character with Jai?

no i think she is a woman in love..i dont call it over doing..she is trying to make up for all those times they have lost....for all those pain they have been through....for all those times she has indirectly hurt Jai....she knows how much her unborn baby meant to him...she just wants to give al her love to his man...i think Bani is behaving just as a woman in love would do....love for her husband...i believe people in love do stupid things that to them is not stupid so for her its nothing out of character....atleast now we know that she loves Jai to such extent that she would do anything and i mean anything for him....

If you were in Bani's shoes, would your behaviour be consummate with Bani or would it be any different? Do you think Being in Love is a Subjective emotion and every woman reacts differently to it or do you think that Love as much makes everyone behave and react in a more or less same manner?

every person looks at love in a different way...some fall n love as and when it happens unexpectedly just as it happened with Bani...i follow her...how is is possible to fall for the men who caused u so much pain misery hurt u name it...but she did ..its not because she planned it...it just happened...and than there is the type of love that peole go out there looking for like Pia...she has always wanted a rich famous husband, who would shower her with everything and give her all the materialistic pleasures in life....when she saw that PUshkar couldnt give it to her she went out there looking for more....hence she started to compare Pushkar with Jai and she got jealous of her own sister when Jai started to show that affection on Bani....if the Park Road raaz had not come in the picture Bani would have been very happily married to Jai right now and i think very much pregnant.......so i feel what Bani is doing...when u are in love u are blind to everything else and u only think of that one person that matters most in the world...you put that person first and than urself...and Bani has loved Jai so much..

These are my words for Bani to Jai

You're my man, my mighty king,
And I'm the jewel in your crown,
You're the sun so hot and bright,
I'm your light-rays shining down,

You're the sky so vast and blue,
And I'm the white clouds in your chest,
I'm a river clean and pure,
Who in your ocean finds her rest,

You're the mountain huge and high,
I'm the valley green and wide,
You're the body firm and strong,
And I'm a rib bone on your side,

You're an eagle flying high,
I'm your feathers light and brown,
You're my man, my king of kings,
And I'm the jewel in your crown.

- Nima Akbari -

thanks MT for such a lovely discussion...

cheers 😳

Edited by Raania - 19 years ago

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HKK

@Hkaurk22

Rocker

Posted: 19 years ago

#34

Do you like the new bold, confident and expressive new Bani or did you like the quiet, reticient and introverted old Bani?

I think a mix of the two would be something I would like to see. I think the timid Bani was sweet, but this new Bani is just something else. I give the new Bani some credit for fighting to keep the man that she loves and proving her love in everyway possible.

Do you think the Bani we are seeing now is the Real Woman who had been hidden behind years of lonliness and serenity? Or do you think that the new Bani is a just a product of temporary emotions and that she will revert back to her old-self when the first flush of love desends down?

I think that this Bani is the "Real Woman" because she has finally received her chance to open up and let her emotions out. I think that Bani realized if she had kept quiet any longer there was the big chance that she would have lost Jai forever. She had to let him know what her true feelings are, and maybe because she has kept them bottled up for so long, it seems like the woman is going nuts. I think that if Jai lets her know his feelings, she might revert slightly back to the shy and tmid Bani, who is touched so easily.

How do you think Jai is perceiving his Wife now as compared to what he had seen of her till now? Is Jai put off by Bani's openness or is he just pleasantly surprised by her?

I think he is totally taken aback. He never expected this out of Bani- to be so bold and aggressive. I think he is mildly amused by it, yet can not do much because he still feels guilty about what happened. He is wondering what brought on this on. I would like to say that I liked the way in today's episode he sat and drank. I can just imagine him letting Bani sleep and him not being able to sleep. Although he loves Bani dearly, he still has a lot to think about with regards to what happened with Pia.

If Jai and Pia had not had the ONS (Which itself is pretty doubtful!) would Jai's behaviour towards Bani's new self have been any different from what it is now?

I think that Jai would be not so shocked. Yes there would be a little surprise in this, but he would have been more accepting and might have reciprocated faster and thought about it less.

Jai fell for Pia because she was just his opposite, vivacious, frank and expressive about her feelings. Bani in a way is very similar to Jai, but now that that she is all that Pia was once upon a time, do you think that aspect will make Jai hesitant or will it attract him more towards Bani?

I think he will be attracted more towards Bani, esp. since he now knows how she feels. For months, even in conversation he would say there is "no love, but there is an understanding" between the two of them. We could all see the love between them, and now, knowing her feelings he is able to have the love he desired his whole life. I think he is also able to distinguish between the love from Pi and the love from Bani. He can see that the love from Bani is genuine and she does care. Pia is able to change her mind every few months, and he sees the superficiality of it. He even said that Bani has become a part of his life.

Inspite of Bani always being in Love with Jai, did you ever find Bani to be cold and unresponsive or do you think she is overdoing it now and it behaving out of character with Jai?

I think that her character has been shown to have blossomed. She was able to break out of her shell and show what her love and thoughts are. I never found her love to be cold and unresponsive, unless it was the divorce fiasco. But other than that, I think that she has just found her love and realized it. She told him and she feels free and thrilled to have done something for herself.

If you were in Bani's shoes, would your behaviour be consummate with Bani or would it be any different? Do you think Being in Love is a Subjective emotion and every woman reacts differently to it or do you think that Love as much makes everyone behave and react in a more or less same manner?

I think I honestly would react the same, but different. Does that make sense?. Some part of me would be curious of why my husband hasn't reacted as I did, but if that was a part of his personality then so be it. I would be absolutely elated to find the love of my life and express my feelings for him. Everyone has their own ideas of love. I would be elated, but I love the idea of being shy and coy in love. When a guy blushes.. its so cute.. when a girl blushes.. its so sweet. The process of falling in love, and being flattered time after time, as Bani was with the necklace and the bangles.. that is exactly how I react. I get very shy and timid, but I love it.

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Trisha

@ranijailall

Inactive

Posted: 19 years ago

#35

I personally like Bani in both avatars....this Bani is another side to the same coin so nothing really changed as such. The only change I see is a WOMAN IN LOVE and not suppressing it in any which way. And I personally think that's how it should be. Displaying her affections and romantic side does not in any which way mean her innate instincts and characteristics change. The Bani we saw at the beginning of the serial was calm and dignified. The Bani we see today is still calm and dignified. The only change is that today's Bani has experience true love in every which way...body, mind, and soul. I've never felt that Bani has ever been cold or unresponsive to Jai. Rather, I feel that she was always more subtle about her expressions. She has never point blank said "I love you" but deep down they both had an "understanding" of what they are and mean to each other.
Secondly, MT dear, please don't compare Bani with Pia in any which way. Bani has always maintained her dignity and grace whereas I've always felt that Pia has always been a "chameli creeper"

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pop77

@pop77

Rocker

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Posted: 19 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: mistletoe
Guys, Thank you so much for the wonderful response!!! 😃 Keep them coming!

On the whole, I like the new Bani a lot, but the way she has been presented leaves much to be desired! I just wish the change had not been so in-your face and sudden.....also, given the kind of situation Jai is undergoing, Bani's change coupled with his surprise and seeming indifference is making the whole thing look a little out of bounds!

Lets wait and see how they handle the Whole Beach-Date Thing...As per RK, Jai seems to melt in front of Bani's wooing, so that should be fun. Hope he doesn't have those comical expression's that he has been carrying since Bani landed in Dubai...It looks as if he is really scared to death of Bani!

Waiting for more replies,

Cheers,

MT

i agree with U. i like new bani.actually i always wanted this bani..

specially i like to read bubble,raaga,pari comment is much better than watch KS epi. i waiting todays video for bani-jai beach date..

thank

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Krishna

@kubare

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 19 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Raania

These are my words for Bani to Jai

You're my man, my mighty king,
And I'm the jewel in your crown,
You're the sun so hot and bright,
I'm your light-rays shining down,

You're the sky so vast and blue,
And I'm the white clouds in your chest,
I'm a river clean and pure,
Who in your ocean finds her rest,

You're the mountain huge and high,
I'm the valley green and wide,
You're the body firm and strong,
And I'm a rib bone on your side,

You're an eagle flying high,
I'm your feathers light and brown,
You're my man, my king of kings,
And I'm the jewel in your crown.

- Nima Akbari -

Aww.....such a beautiful poem. 👏It describes Jai and Bani so aptly.😳

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sabsj

@sabsj

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: khattimeeti
MT i have a ? do u really read all that we write? I will post a reply once i am sure ppl read after the first 2 pages...........

of course she does, every bit of all the replies, it's just not possible for her to reply back to all the posts though 😛 so please do go ahead and reply becoz MT sure does put in a lot of effort to come up with these, the least we can do is show our appreciation

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Krishna

@kubare

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 19 years ago

#39

MT, lovely questions as usual. Here are my two cents:

Do you like the new bold, confident and expressive new Bani or did you like the quiet, reticient and introverted old Bani?

I love this Bani more. The old Bani was not always quiet, reticient and intriverted in my opinion. She always, without raising her voice got her point of view across and after the 19th June episode we did see her doing giving such love struck looks to her hubby and doing small things for him.😳 I hope this Bani remains through out the show, saw enough of her shedding tears all the time.😃

This is Bani in love, who is sure of herself and her love.Before Bani was not sure of Jias love for her but now she is. Because of her mothers death and fathers negligence, she had to don on the role of a mother for her sisters, thus was the one giving love always, but now she has found love and is being loved in return.

How do you think Jai is perceiving his Wife now as compared to what he had seen of her till now? Is Jai put off by Bani's openness or is he just pleasantly surprised by her?

Jai seems pleasently suprised by the new Bani, thus seems clueless as to handle her.😆😆😆

If Jai and Pia had not had the ONS (Which itself is pretty doubtful!) would Jai's behaviour towards Bani's new self have been any different from what it is now?

Yes, quiet diffrent, as he would not be guilt ridden and uncomfortable around her as he is now.The guilt is stoping him from responding to Bani's love as with all his emotions.If there was no ONS we would have seen a more expressive and romantic Jai.😉

Bani is not at all like Pai😡😡😡 at all. They may be sisters but they are miles apart in character and personality. Pia is a self centered, selfish human being 😡😡😡where as Bani has always been selfless, caring and giving person.😳 Jai loves Bani because he knows shes diffrent😃 from all the women in fell in love with before, such as Roshni, Pia etc.

Inspite of Bani always being in Love with Jai, did you ever find Bani to be cold and unresponsive or do you think she is overdoing it now and it behaving out of character with Jai?

No, I for one never found her to be cold and unresponsive towards Jai at all. The diffrence is now she is more open with her feelings verbally and physically as before she was not sure of her future with Jai and his feelings for her.😃

Love makes everyone behave diffrenetly but the symptons are same and it does make us do thingsthat we never would do otherwise.

How a person behaves in love differs from person to person, but when you are in a crowded place its so easy to spot a couple in love isn't it, because of the way they behave towards each other, the looks they give, their body language, etc, etc,.😳

Till next time MT,

Take care,

Love,

Krishna.😃

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rose467

@rose467

Inactive

Posted: 19 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: mistletoe

A strong, independent minded and self-respecting individual who ends up living in a benevolent stranger's house, not once losing her sense of uniqueness or pride.

Pride is the most valuable wealth of a human being, be it a man or woman.. I have no reservations.... that is quality of Bani that she stood with her head up in front of Waliawalas...

A man who is larger than Life, a man who is almost a modern day King, a man with a family ,with a status, with recognition and a man with hatred and anger seething in his Heart, all for her!

a man who is larger than life... yeah... isn't it that was the real problem... did he ever be able to see himself what is happening around... if it is God then He stays up... if a man bigger than a life... he cornered himslef into the King's seat...

Not only was she suddenly plunged into an alien world, she was bound in matrimony to a man who did not love her, who did not care for her and most sadly, did not want her!

the biggest truth ever told she was an unwanted person... that makes the difference between she and pia... she bron from ashes... did you hear that "which born from fire will never become weak in sun hot" i think the baby's death she had the fire in her... a mother, is another world... herself... i didn't surprise she in shock after the abortion...

the thought of seeing Jai with another woman that had not crossed her mind, made her seeth in an emotion to which she had been unaware till now!

Hidden love... unconsciously fell in love with a man... by practice of living long in the darkness will slowly make the darkness light to us" being together even though in such circumstances closed the gap between them without their own awareness... love need no particular reason to be existed.. it exists where it should exists...

It is not wonder that Jai, who has always been surprisingly intuitive about Love, was able to guess what his young wife was going through, but was always in two minds because of the conflicting that was going on in Bani's Life, what his Heart could see his Eyes could not see and hence, inspite of the confidence in his Heart, Jai was always in doubt of 'How' much Bani feels for him, never on 'What' she feels for him!

I don't think their eyes for that matter their heart failed to see each others love... but the situations from both sides were too prominent... bani thought he could never love her since his love was Pia... it was about love and was genuine for that to be counted... from his side... he thought my love for her should not apoil a good future which suits her more... she will be happy with someone more young and suitable to her... then offcourse guilt from PR... but can anyone stop love which occured volunteerily in its due place in the due time... no, that is the answer

Bani on the other hand, inspite of being so mature, responsible and sensitive could never fathom what Jai felt for her! She knew he liked her, she knew he was affectionate and protective towards her, she knew he respected, admired and cherished her as a Wife, but she could never guess what he felt for her as a Woman. Whether he shared the same intensity of Emotions that she had for Jai, whether he felt the same wave of unstoppable Love that she felt for him, whether she took his breath away the way he always did!

the jai walia we saw at first was actually living a life in a curse like in a concentration camp... none knew it untill a roshini bumped into the scene.. the first bit of hope he got by Pia's cat walking into his life... but it did shake him well but unfortunately did the opposite effect... then came bani like an angel... it really saved him out of the self torturing... even at the end permanantly saved from his own guilt... surely they had the same effect on each other.. they couldn't hide it from each other in fact... but words were not formed on the basis of it... heart saw it but then didn't dare to confess to each other... love always hesitate to surface in one's life... rather it always being enjoyed hidden ... the pain of not able to be with is always associated with love... then it is more sweet than the real revealation itself..

a man who called their relationship the coming together of two Souls, could only be so, because he Loved her!

two souls... that is why they couldn't go away... it was out of their own control... between two souls doubt rarely exists but only love..

Now that, Bani knows that Jai has loved her and loved her with all his Heart and Soul, what is to stop her from expressing what she feels? Why should she suppress what has been in her Heart and Mind for the last so many months? Why should she let go of what they can share for what they have lost? When travelling the path of life, and finding love along the way, everything looks new and different. Little do you know it is the same old landscape you used to see all of the time; Love has just given you new eyes.

the eyes are not at all new... she didn't dare or was not ready to accept what eyes saw before... or she was forced to ignore it. love has given a new perspective... it belongs to her now... she feels... she deserve to enjoy it.. she feels again... never want to ignore it.. she decided too

Do you like the new bold, confident and expressive new Bani or did you like the quiet, reticient and introverted old Bani?

i don't think bani's basic character will change totally than the obvious change in her approach to Jai with more confidence (gosh he is already fully covered in honey..😳) but she will be brave... will be stern and straight... won't give anything more than due to those around for sure... (give somethig long due to jiggy and pia once in a while) that change is more applauded by me than a mere liking.

Do you think the Bani we are seeing now is the Real Woman who had been hidden behind years of lonliness and serenity? Or do you think that the new Bani is a just a product of temporary emotions and that she will revert back to her old-self when the first flush of love desends down?

it is wrong to think it was a first flush of love after all... there was not certain beginning ... for this love... she becomes like this after going through so much and after seeing so much in both of them... the realisation..

(BTW- i remember the list u gave once yaar, MT...

A Marriage

An Engagement

An Elopment

A realization

An Acknowledgement

A Final confession

As long as ks is going i don't where to fit these but there is something in it... what is the realization, what is the acknowledgement.... and still confession is baki😕 right?)

How do you think Jai is perceiving his Wife now as compared to what he had seen of her till now? Is Jai put off by Bani's openness or is he just pleasantly surprised by her?

he is getting used to with the active marriage....😉 not a dummy one... food for soul.. love to live.. smile to sleep... and necessary is being together.. don't waste a minute bani and offcourse beware of so many sray dogs around walia mansion... bani knows what is marriage looks like... she can bring it to him.. she can make it feel he is married... he can have a family his own... he is no more in a concentration camp of a curse.. after all he won't feel any more old... it may surprise him... take him to a rollercoaster of emotions... but ultimately he will be a complete man with that chirping bird around him waking him up every time he go weak... i am sure if destiny the ks creatives have something for them left...

If Jai and Pia had not had the ONS (Which itself is pretty doubtful!) would Jai's behaviour towards Bani's new self have been any different from what it is now?

he always knew there is reasons behind her... so if the ONS were not there he could have enjoyed it in its fullest... may be at first he may be the old roaring iron.. but he had the heart to see that she came all the way fasting to break it with him... he was the one who never felt someone cared for him, other than bani.. isn't it a honor for him to know that...

Jai fell for Pia because she was just his opposite, vivacious, frank and expressive about her feelings. Bani in a way is very similar to Jai, but now that that she is all that Pia was once upon a time, do you think that aspect will make Jai hesitant or will it attract him more towards Bani?

i don't think that is a comparison at all... her change is a pleasant one but not like Pia a thoughtless act... bani's plus point is she can think and see the hidden things.. the changes are way too surprising for Jai but it will be giving more lightness to his heart... (do u thnk he can take his eyes from that two diamonds glaring from her face.. LOL😉) I can just see his blushing though many a time in a day😉

Inspite of Bani always being in Love with Jai, did you ever find Bani to be cold and unresponsive or do you think she is overdoing it now and it behaving out of character with Jai?

(arrey, yeh tun kyom poocha? yeah wow creatives ka problem hai😡) i feel it awkward at times i don't deny it. she was reasonable to jai... she knew what he likes and what didn't like.. she tried to do thing in line with his likes. now the marriage is official... real... it is active to... now she is actively doing the duty of a wife rather than a formal service from a wife-employee... after all why she should she blush and keep her eyes down to give a cup of water to wash his face in the bathroom😆 isn't it a big saving for us....😳 (big loss too)

If you were in Bani's shoes, would your behaviour be consummate with Bani or would it be any different? Do you think Being in Love is a Subjective emotion and every woman reacts differently to it or do you think that Love as much makes everyone behave and react in a more or less same manner?

one woman's success is to bring out a rhythm in the marriage... it may take time... men are most likely difficult at time... their ego is too much to begin with... then the only medicine for ego is patience and smile.. i think it is not so difficult to bring a man to tie you dori with your behavings... be truthful to you in commitment providing the human rights😉 are preserved...satisfactorily... love will not be in the same manner for everyone... the way it express is different.. when a man hide his worry behind a shouting a woman hide her worry behind sollen face... but being used to be with each other tht is the way it is... a man like jai is better be with bani than that over exposed pia or roshini... i still remember a seen where Bani in a light orange saree and jai in talk with someone locked with eyes that she had to turn her away her face and walk from there... that guy is not ready to even blink his eyes... yeah... he likes to talk with eyes... and she is equally capable of interpreting that handicapped(😳😆) language of communication. it is different being in different relationships...

Loads of Love (I have killed this word by using it so many times in my post)

MT

PS: On a personal note, I remember behaving like a total goof-ball in Love! Its embarssing to even think of it now!😆 dont ever try to say it and insult urself... (ohhh OMG what will be that banker's condition then? 😆 )

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