Shiv only wants to spend sometime with Anandi, which is natural, as the two didn't get any privacy but have been overwhelmed by all the rituals.
Shiv cares for Anandi and at the same time he is even expressing his excitement about his marriage, which is nice of a guy. It makes the girl feel welcomed and looked after, in an entire new place.
I don't think he hinted that he wants to consummate asap. He just wants to be with his bride, so that he can comfort her and adore her.
Shiv's expectations won't break. He has set them right and will take things slowly with Anandi.
Anandi's behaviour is very natural. She is feeling lost and overwhelmed and it is only natural for her to call her parents. After all they too want to know that she is safe and sound. This is no way will affect her feelings for Shiv.
Edited by Missesha - 13 years ago