Here we go around the Mulberry Bush !!

Here we go around the Mulberry Bush...

I am sure you all have heard of the nursery rhyme, where u go round and round in a circle, until the circle collapses.
After seeing today's episode online, these lines came to my mind...

So, the cycle starts all over again, after a couple of weeks of respite from all the histronics of the D-family daughters. Not that we really moved away from it ever, one was still going on at her husband, but atleast the goody one was having lovey-dovey wifely conversations with her doc husband. Looks like all that came to an end quite quickly. Just one thing hasnt changed, our boy, Arjun's fate - stuck with JLO first, who now upgraded herself to ALO.Now, it is a rewind of the track that we had a few weeks/months ago. Emo blackmail, Sacrifice, Tantrums, Cryfest, Punni's conniving, more and more hysterical outbursts, maybe some slaps thrown in...

So, Ms.Purvi, your days of happy days are done, and you will have to get back on the thyaag and mahaanta train on high speed..It does look like we are heading that way for sure.. Dont know if it is going to be a child swap, child sacrifice to the Princess or what. I hear that she is going to move into D-house with Archana and Ovi, which is going to be a torture for us to watch.. What with, Aai's lectures, tears, Ovi's tantrums and taunts, Purvi with her mahaantha shield taking crap from Ovi, meanwhile ALL lecturing Arjun on how to "take care of Ovi"..Now, it is a 3 against 1 attack on Arjun.. He is bound to get on the crazy train someday...or run away to himalayas for some peace 😊.. I hope he does.. kidding, guys !

Looking at Ms. Ovi's state of mind and her words of today " I have done as much as possible to save my marriage, but I am defeated now,...".So, why doesnt she cut her losses and walk away with some dignity intact? Let us, for argument sake, accept that Arjun will not leave her either for his "vachan" to Purvi, or the child, but what about Ovi? She says "i always see U in Arjun's eyes", so looks like she has accepted the fact that it may never work for her, so what is stopping her to leave him? Not the baby, as we all know. For, she herself says she doesnt care about the baby..If Arjun is a 2-timer, like some claim, what is she? She is a rich girl with a rich daddy, who will go to any lenghts for her, so why not walk out on arjun and have a life of her own. If she does not want the baby, why bring the baby into this world? This is as people claim a "21st century", a woman has the right to choose. She has always done what she wants ..so, who is stopping her now? why bring a baby into this world where the mother itself hates the baby and does not really want her. why subject the poor unborn child to this life later? Why make it sound like Arjun is forcing her to have the baby?

Now, Ms.Purvi, after hearing what Ovi said today, and understanding her paranoia, right or wrong, that is how Ovi is going to be.. so, why does this girl want to interfere in that matter at all? I would suggest to her to leave Ovi alone.. She has a husband and mother to take care of her and let them deal with the Princess themselves... The more concern Purvi shows, the more Ovi will freak out.. Purvi should learn the lesson by now.. if not, the fool she is.. For, she is gonna self-inflict punishment on herself by trying to fix Ovi's affairs..Purvi claims, she has moved on.. so stay moved on.. She doesn't seem to have a sympathetic thought for Arjun, even, after seeing his fate with his wife..All her concern is again misplaced...

BTW, Archanaji, ur other daughter is also pregnant..yet to see u say something about it or asking her welfare atleast once, instead of being on a self-pity mode of "why didnt u think of me.."

Let us leave Arjun alone for now, for he has enough on his hands..

Dr.Onir was right... no one can treat an unwilling patient if they themselves don't care about their situation. No amt of medicines will help.But, that is for regular people. Poor chap, he is still new to this whole D-Family drama 😊.. He doesn't know that all his psychology, Prem Jyotish advices, medical knowledge are not going to cure Ovi's woes... It is a full-on WWF with Purvi that will cure her well and good.😛..Ok, before I get attacked on this, this was intended as a joke !!.

So, more and more nonsense to come in the next few weeks, with Punni's apparently new drama to start, and the nonsense Teju-sunny romance (if you can call it that.). to come.. So, if any of you are waiting for a ARVI re-union, I suggest that you will have to hold ur horses for a good few months... if it is coming, at all...


oops !! Forgot about this !! Isn't more **** supposed to hit the roof, when they all come to know it is Arjun's child Purvi is carrying??? God !! Will probably need Valium then...😊

Jyothi - Perfectly apt nursery rhyme! As it also seems like a bunch of kindergarden children writing this show. Cant even say interns... interns sometimes move out of the box, but kids love to run around in circles right? (At least in my time I did 😆).

Ok, so word!! To the whole write up! I would definitely say arjun is not at fault at all with his current situation. Agreed that some of the mistakes arjun has made before by not letting purvi know about his so called engagement with JLo. But to see more of the current situation, purvi with her mahaan sacrificial act has led arjun in his miserable state. This poor guy is just no where to be called arjun kirlosker anymore. The man has changed so much, the time where he didn't give a damn to anybody playing with his life, now to the point where he has no one to cry on to. Purvi on the other hand really shouldn't even try to interfere in their business. I wouldn't recommend her doing that because then she will only dig a grave for herself. Plus she shouldn't at all forget that she herself is pregnant. JLo never cared nor she will. I think purvi should tell arjun about his child but I guess for that too we would have to wait! I seriously don't want purvi to hear those craps from JLo when they will go to Mumbai. Which I know is pretty much expected. But I do feel that maybe the time that purvi will be in their house. She and arjun can confront about their child soon. Because the calculations if her pregnancy won't be unknown for long. And before that happens, I want arjun to be the first one to know.

Great Post Jyothi..

I totally agree with you about Purvi. Ovi has enough people to worry about her and she can get her treatment done in London like she wants.

Love your post, so true everything you said!

So tired of this storyline, it's never going to move forward...

I dislike Ovi very much, I find her spoiled and mannerless. She should at this point just walk away, she herself admitted she can't stop Arjun from thinking of Purvi. So now Purvi is having a talk with Ovi, last time it was with Arjun. Can't she just stay out of it. She made her decision and messed up everyone else's lives. Why is she keeping secrets from onir? Onir or Arjun don't deserve this for loving her. Purvi is the worst of all...

Originally posted by: pujli07

I totally agree with you about Purvi. Ovi has enough people to worry about her and she can get her treatment done in London like she wants.

Why does Purvi want to meddle in her life now. She has moved on and is very happy in her new life. She should think about her child and Onir and live her life.

This so called family of hers is just bad news for her. They will make her life a living hell if she goes back.

I look at it this way, if she was in mumbai with Arjun, the poor girl would be in hell with all this people torturing her and her mom and she would have never been happy especially with Ovi's suicidal self. Imagine if something had happened to Ovi and if her attempt was successful, then purvi and arjun would have never been able to get out of that guilt. Now that she is away from Arjun, and her mom, no matter how much she misses them and may be sad inside, but she is living a happy and stress free life.

ohh and the biggest fact, if she knows she is carrying Arjun's baby then the last thing she wants is to be anywhere near them. come on if she goes to live with them, how long will it take until someone does the calculation regarding her bump.

That is what I mean about Purvi. If you found happiness in life, at last, why cant she be selfish for once, and think of herself, and not about her family and stay away from all this. Ovi and the rest of them are not her responsibility anymore. She should stay with Onir and move on as she intended to. Why does she want to go back to that hellish life, with everyone's taunts and insults? How long can she hide the fact that she is more than 6 months pregnant? If it is Arjun's baby, and they all get to know about it, has she thought of how her life is going to be ? She is just being a fool if she thinks that the family cares anything about her at all.. She is hellbent on following the family motto.. "Pamper and protect Ovi at all costs".. Atleast now, she has a relatively happy life, atleast a content one, which is good for her baby.. Oh well, who can help people who are suckers for punishment... :( Moreover, if her intent is to keep Ovi from further hysterics, then she should stay away from her..

Originally posted by: style14

Great Post Jyothi..

Today ALO's dialog at the end made me laugh.

She say's "I could not save my marriage, I am tried of trying n trying, I have lost " but in the end again gave her favorite dialog " Its all because of you Purvi ". No one can help ALO.

I pity her, today she in a way admitted defeat.

But the Moral of the story: Every thing is Purvi's Fault.

Purvi the great will never leave her Mahaanta, we will see more of that very soon. She will come back to her usual form when she comes back to Mumbai. Purvi will try to sort things out between Arjun and Ovi also Im sure🤢(Stupid CV's wants PR shifted to Mumbai again with a crap story line)

Why does Purvi have to cry while talking to ALO, Purvi actually acts like all of what is happening with ALO's Pregnancy is her fault.

The best solution is to get a divorce but Arjun wont do that because of Mahaan Purvi's Promise and the baby. ALO should just leave him if she feels so horrible but no, she wont do that either, its easier to blame Purvi again and again instead of admitting she was wrong in getting married to a man who loves someone else.

Both the ladies always seem to forget about the one person whose life they have ruined, Arjun. Again I repeat Arjun is not faultless in this whole mess but he has been trying his best.

ALO thinks about herself only and Purvi about her Aai and her family. Arjun is secondary for both of them.

Arjun we all are there with you. In one side he has this psycho wife who's making his life a living hell and on the other side he watches the love of his life pregnant with another mans child(he doesn't know the truth yet which makes it even worse). Arjun you have all our back. Hang in there.

Ovi will never leave Arjun, despite all her complaints against him. She knows pretty well that he loves the baby, and is taunting him at every step by not taking care of the baby, infact, causing harm to the baby. She knows pretty well that this causes pain to him. This is her way of taking revenge on him, in a way... How can he be happy, when she is not, right ! If she leaves him, she knows he will be happy..so she will not.. moreover, leaving him means she was wrong in the first place..That, she will never admit and rather puts the blame all on Purvi..So, in conclusion, it doesnt matter, if Purvi is around or away, it is all her fault anyways.. Whereas, Ovi, herself, is guilt-free and blameless...
As far as Arjun's happiness, no one gives a damn, including himself..else he wouldnt be subjecting himself to this life..

Originally posted by: Suhani10

Love your post, so true everything you said!

So tired of this storyline, it's never going to move forward...

I dislike Ovi very much, I find her spoiled and mannerless. She should at this point just walk away, she herself admitted she can't stop Arjun from thinking of Purvi. So now Purvi is having a talk with Ovi, last time it was with Arjun. Can't she just stay out of it. She made her decision and messed up everyone else's lives. Why is she keeping secrets from onir? Onir or Arjun don't deserve this for loving her. Purvi is the worst of all...

I dont think Purvi is the worst of all,...but I would like her to stay out of it..just for herself and her own good..not for anyone else...For nobody there, Archana, Manav, or anyone else (except Arjun) give a damn for her happiness, especially, if it is at the expense of Ovi's...however wrong Ovi is ...