I wasnt clear enough here maybe, although I did say it in some post. I DO believe that they are married, I have no doubts about that at all..I said I reserve my judgement on Purvi-Onir relationship because I am not exactly sure about the true nature of relationship after the marriage. Is it platonic or real in the true sense. Sometimes it looks like they are husband and wife in the true sense with all the lovey dovey talk as a couple, but sometimes they act more like friends. Some of Onir's dialogues are enigmatic.
I was pretty surprised too that Purvi didnt tell him about her family, but maybe she did it, because she wanted a clean break from them. Imagine the chaos if they knew where she was and how she was.. If she told him about them, she would have to tell him about Ovi too.. So, this actually pretty much rules out the theory that they were friends before... I still believe Onir knows about the baby's father if not the name...Let me see if that belief is shattered too like the rest of mine..😊
As far as her sanskaars, I really have no clue any more of the true nature of these people anymore. All that we believed of them to be is butchered beyond repair, I feel, so dont know what to expect anymore from them. I could never believe that even Arjun would take that step before marriage..but apparently he did... But, yes, Purvi with all her sanskaars of times before, doing it, is more unbelievable .. still to me..even after seeing it all..
About Onir's fate, if and when she leaves him, it would be bad, yes, but nothing like Arjun's fate..For, even she cannot beat that !! If it is going to happen the way you think, Onir does not deserve it on any count for all that he has done for her. I repeat, look at Arjun's fate... So, nothing will surprise me anymore..
About Onir moving to Bombay, how are they going to justify it? He was too busy with his patients to even go there for a day before, and now he is going to shift there? Isnt he supposed to go international somewhere in a few days.. I hope they show some logic to this...
I have read ur changes to the earlier post...The reason we wrote about Ovi was bec this thread was more a reaction to what we saw in yesterday's episode..I just cannot stand her anymore, she just annoys me to no end with her ghostly look and her shrieking.. Someone needs to tell that actress that shrieking is not the only way to show your anger and frustration..It just grates on my nerves, atleast. Her scenes have become so predictable and makes me want to reach for the mute button..😊
Even though I like Onir, I do not want to think about him too much and get attached to this character too..I am still reeling from the other one and after all these debacles, I am still hanging in here for the silly boy...So, I think adding Onir will be too much for my poor heart to take 😊
Originally posted by: sashashyam
No, Jyothi, I am afraid do not buy that old chestnut that Onir and Purvi are not really married. It is of a piece with the other theory that Ovi's baby is not Arjun's - in short an exercise in wishful thinking.
By all means hold your horses on the former if you want to , but as for me, I cannot think of one reason why a true blue Bengali bhadralok with a sterling family reputation would pretend to marry a single mother-to-be and go thru all kinds of sacred functions with her, making a mockery of marriage, and of Durga Maa as well. It is quite simply unbelievable.
Moreover, Purvi has suppressed all the truth about herself, whereas I would have expected her to come clean on everything to Onir. In doing so, she has fallen several steps further down in my estimation. I never believed that she could hide the truth from him so blatantly, but then I never believed that her baby could be Arjun's either. What foolish trust!
All that is now needed is for it to be finally confirmed that she is carrying an illegitimate baby, for that is what it will be, all the gushing by the ArVi groupies notwithstanding, and then she would be right at the bottom as far as I am concerned. Let us not talk, please, of Arjun having been 'as good as' her husband (I am just borrowing your phrase; I know that you meant it in quite a different sense). There is a clear difference, that should have been all the clearer to such a paragon of sanskaars, between one who is your husband, and one who is your boyfriend. To think that she indulged in a fling with him without waiting to get married is just plain disgusting, and nothing anyone can say will change that for me.
I am simply not 'advanced ' enough to take this and rejoice over her carrying 'Arjun ke pyaar ki nishaani' - ugh! When this is finally proclaimed is when I quit PR, and this forum, once and for all.
I do not see Onir moving to Mumbai to treat one patient, unless our sanskaari paragon blackmails him too emotionally into doing so. In any case, as soon as he starts treating Ovi, she will tell him the facts about Arjun and Purvi. So as far as Purvi's relationship with Onir is concerned, it will never be the same again. He may forgive her, for he seems to be gentle, but he will never forget.
Lastly, I do not think she will be doing Onir any great favour by 'not abandoning him'. She does not deserve him, any more than she deserved Arjun earlier. She damages or destroys every man she gets involved with: she ought to go about, like Oliver Twist - with a board proclaiming :BEWARE OF HER, SHE DITCHES'!
I am sorry if I seem too caustic, but the sight of one good man after the other being exploited by this sanskaari character - in Arjun's case because he was a fool, and in Onir's because he did not do the kind of due diligence needed before entering into any relationship, business or personal - just makes me hopping mad. And all this gushing about ArVi getting together again, totally forgetting that their going apart was deliberate on her side and voluntary on his, and disregarding the demolition derby they would leave in their wake now, . makes me feel downright queasy.
The sooner PR shuts down, the better it will be for all of us. But it seems that far from shutting down, there is another major leap planned for next summer!
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