Dadisa moha for Anandi

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Posted: 12 years ago
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DS is very sad , remembers Anandi every now and then, calls her back chori kahan hein tu. Quite natural she was her favorite and they share a close tie.
But DS ko thoda mamta mein kaboo rakhna chahiye. When Anandi came from her mother's house, DS did not allow her to visit them because she was scared of the mamta ka dor. Now when it comes to her, she is being so unreasonable. DS being the eldest member and experience of life time should not she show some maturity in controlling her emotion. Or is it jagya's absence she is throwing up as Anandi ka gaam. Anandi is out of her old world and is in new life seems becoming comfortable gradually. DS should relaize that her over mamta should not stand in between Anandi's new life. DS some times behave so irrationaly -( she will make her manmani as asking Anandi to marry jagya knowing she is wrong and then when fails she will make an apologitic face and ask for forgiveness).
She should be some how bring in some sense in her behaviour Sometimes over do the emotion of the character.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I find this totally out of character for DS.

She never threw such fits even for jagya. Jagya just returned recently and disappeared again so soon. But she is missing anandi so much😕. Thats too unbelievable IMO. I think if this behaviour continues then it will have something to do with future track like anandi coming to haveli often to pacify DS and some problems because of that😕 or otherwise something else related to future track. Otherwise DS is not such a weak person, who can't handle emotions. She has endured so much in her life.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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psychology jab kabhi jeisa hona chahiye or jeisa hamare socha ho uske opposite situation ho jae to swabhav me changes aa jate he .DS ki halat bhi abhi aisi he jagya aur anandi dono Nahi he.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

I find this totally out of character for DS.

She never threw such fits even for jagya. Jagya just returned recently and disappeared again so soon. But she is missing anandi so much😕. Thats too unbelievable IMO. I think if this behaviour continues then it will have something to do with future track like anandi coming to haveli often to pacify DS and some problems because of that😕 or otherwise something else related to future track. Otherwise DS is not such a weak person, who can't handle emotions. She has endured so much in her life.




I think she is under the old age trauma, she has lost J and A both. Anandi coming to haveli will be usual. Because shiv has to be back to Jaitser he can not go for an unending wedding leave. And Anandi will come back with him and she can visit Haveli everyday.
But DS and the family says Anandi is their beti so do they make Sugna come back every now and then, then why Anandi. Or is it at heart still An is a bindni for them.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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DS..and A

A took care of her a lot and she is missing her.
She is missing Jagya as well and that selfish loser left her in the time of need.
Anandi knew that they would fall apart after she leaves and thast what happened when jagya left. they are too broken down.
Yes they did take her as a daughter but they raised her as a beendani..so to loose someone whom you thought will always remain with you is very heart breaking.

So I guess instead of coping with the heart break she is just becoming a bit frustrated
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya comeback before gauri come to in haveli with baby ladesar so DS more happy and forget all pains.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think it is out of character for DS to miss A.

DS even when A as a kid went to her parents house for a shrt while she would miss her and act all crancky and scream at everybody

DS and A despite having a turbulent relationship they are very attached to each other.

All the turbulent phases in their relationship were a result of lack of understanding between the two of them. A with her progressive thoughts and DS with her beliefs in old world had a lot of problems reaching an agreement.It took them long time for them to understand each other.

And DS is missing J too.She thought he would be there when A leaves them.But the selfish fellow that he is he only thought of himself and his pain and left them and gone away.

In short she was missing both A and J





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