Hello I am a new TVD and Delena fan 😊...just started watchin tvd on netflix when I was sick for a few weeks and man did I get hooked!...the biggest reason why is Delena...Damon and Elena's chemistry is to die for and if the writers are thinking about going with the book ending (I have never read the books but from what I have heard they fired main writer to get a stelena ending) they really shouldn have picked Smolderhalder to play Damon...that guy is so yum! and soo popular!
Honestly I dont get this whole sire bond thing because the whole time they have been going on about how those hybrids are "grateful" to klaus and thats why they are sired to him. So why would elena be sired to damon? she never wanted to be a vampire right?
I watched all the episode of season 4 again and I am very sure that elena is not sired to damon. Caroline's (writer's) logic doesn make any sense at all! Elena picked the red dress after Damon liked it because he remembered what she wore last year. Elena went along with Damon when he told her to relax because she knew he would look into it and she didn really relax because as soon as she saw jeremy she went after him.
After she turned its been very clear that the only person who accepts her for who she is and doesn want to change her in some way or the other is Damon. As far as the sleeping with him a day after the breakup is concerned, they would have done it in that motel in 3x19 if jeremy hadn interrupted 😆 because lets face it Stelena has been over for a long time now.
I think the only thing this being sired is going to resolve is to make elena admit to what she wants insteads of taking the safe route and doing what she thinks she should want, which is why she had picked stefan in the first place.