My thinking abt aarti's lie!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was watching a movie in which a guy said that for saving himself from his brother,He hid in a cupboard for whole day and that was not fault of his brother but it was fault of his fear.
When i heard that dialogue suddenly aarti's character came in my mind.
Aarti is not telling truth to Yash because of her fear of losing him.She is making excuses to avoid telling him a truth.
I have searched on net abt fear.This is what i think happening with aarti.

Fear is frequently related to the specific behaviors of escape and avoidance.It is worth noting that fear almost always relates to future events, such as worsening of a situation, or continuation of a situation that is unacceptable.

Actually the problem with aarti is that she is not afraid to tell the truth but she is having 'fear' of facing the consequences.This is why she is avoiding to tell the truth to yash.
Now a question is also raised that yash has become so supportive of aarti then why she is afraid?
Well i have read this:
In the real world, fear can be acquired by a frightening traumatic accident.

I have a feeling that this fear is related to aarti's childhood or she has this fear since prashant betrayed her .What i mean to say that aarti has forgotten everything that happened with her but these incidents have raised fear in her and she has not got over it.
One more thing, the thing we far abt, if some people don't fear from that thing.They can't understand our fear even if they try to place themselves at our position.

In the last i want to say that aarti has to confront for her fear.I think so like aarti helped yash in the same way yash will help her overcoming her fear b/c i feel that yash will knw abt the truth from some other personđŸ˜ŗ.

Sorry for long postđŸ˜ŗ!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Interesting post Fatima 👍đŸŧ

I m not sure if its fear in her mind as in fear of loosing Yash ...but I guess its a combination of fear and lost opportunities too .. earlier she did hv the opportunity to tell him the truth when things were not this complicated but she preferred to remain silent and assume that her past is dead ... now that her past is in form of present , she is sort of lost on what to do and how to do it because she really has no reply in case Yash asks her that why did she wait so long to tell him this truth ... ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you're right, that fear or lack of trust could be attributed to her orphan upbringing..while other aspects of her personality developed strongly, this could be the one that was hindered..we'll never really know unless we could be given a peep to what she has to go through in those growing years but the fact that she was alone for most of her life is a big insecurity.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good post on aarti's fear!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you dear, her fear is her begest enemy right now, some people may blame her and say" in her place i would tell" but if the person face what she face i dont think it would be easy to escape that fear, aarti know the feeling of losing her loves ones so her begest fear is losing a new one , and since yash hate lies , and Scindia kick her out many times , she saw yash anger in the past, the Dubey keep rasing this fear by telling her that the truth will end her marriage, so i completly understand aarti, i hope yash help her to face her fear, like she help him in the past
Edited by kholita - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post dear. So true !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post, Fatima.😊

Aarthi's hiding is due to circumstances but for how long. I can even ignore the divorcee truth but I could not justify her for hiding Ansh BMT thing from Yash. Yes, she is scared about losing Yash. I hope she tells that as reason to him and want him to understand her.

Her going for Ansh BMT without Yash's knowledge is equal to underestimating Yash as a father and as a person. Does she not fear of losing Yash after BMT? Sometimes her scenes do not support her. Would like to wait and watch how they proceed things further.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06



I m not sure if its fear in her mind as in fear of loosing Yash ...but I guess its a combination of fear and lost opportunities too .. earlier she did hv the opportunity to tell him the truth when things were not this complicated but she preferred to remain silent and assume that her past is dead ... now that her past is in form of present , she is sort of lost on what to do and how to do it because she really has no reply in case Yash asks her that why did she wait so long to tell him this truth ... ..



@ Fatima Very interesting and insightful post and am agree with you. 👍đŸŧ

@ Jyoti I am also agree with you. Aarti's reason of hiding the truth is a combination of fear and lost opportunities. Even Aarti herself has admitted and we also have witnessed about all those lost opportunities in different episodes and about the reason of fear in her soliloquy in yesterday's episode. But the thing is that I am convinced with the reason of her lost of opportunities behind hiding the truth is only from sangeet ceremony to SR night. And after that I feel it became all about repaying the karz of Dubays by saving them along with herself from the acquisition of cheating a royal and rich family of Bhopal, that a divorcee daughter in law or a divorcee mother got married for their selfish reason despite of knowing that her new in laws are clearly against a divorcee bahu. Now this excuse or reason behind hiding the truth continued till the sports day of Ansh and the return of Aarti to SM after that whole divorce drama by Senior Sindhiyas. Till that time Aarti had nothing to loose from her new relationship only apart from her self respect and Dubeys wish for seeing her happy and giving Ansh a father. Even Aarti was all ready to give up because of that burden of lie which is against her principle of life. But after the whole kidnapping and Ansh's sports day incident when the thing Yash hates lies hit the rock Aarti, here came her first fear of loosing a wonderful father for Ansh and a slightly fear of her own abandonment again also. So she consciously put a no entry board in front of her present and went on a denial mode of having any past which again leaded to hide the truth. Then again after her love realization the fear of loosing Yash as Ansh's father became the fear of loosing her own love Yash ji, so again hide of truth consciously knowing the consequences but tried to avoid it. And it went on and on till Prashant's come back to the picture again since Lalitpur incident. Now Aarti is going on and on giving certain excuses for her reason behind hiding the truth like Dubey's Kasam, their emotional blackmail, Prashant's BMT session, Majboori, not to ruin the happiness of YAsh and SM etc etc. But after all the true fact is her own mere fear of loosing Yash or rejected by yash again and her lack of courage to tell tand accept he web of lies in which directly or indirectly she is also a part. Even she accepted it clearly in yesterday's night scene of the episode. So now it's all about her fear where lost of opportunities are only excuse of just lack of courage and delaying the truth to come out. Only one time Aarti was able to gather her courage to face the consequence but her bad luck Yash just slept like a Kumbhakarna.

I hope it makes some sense.
thank you 🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nice post and interesting
Edited by amouramalika - 13 years ago

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