hi
SAAS - BAHU the most common and the topic which is always include and share a big part of every day's discussion .......i observe every time whether i m in one's funeral ...or wedding .....in birthday party or tea party ....i heard aunties , relatives and other women .....doing group discussions .....on this topic .....most comman dialouges are .."meri bahu tu ......itni taiz hai tauba tauba .....Allah bachaye essi auratoon se " OR " meri saas ....arey pata nahi kis mitti ki bani hai ....mujh se itna kaam kerwati hai "
well the scene would be showing some thing else that saas who was complaining about her bahu ........her bahu seems to be very innocent .........and that bahu .....who was complaining abt how she do work all day like maids and after her marriage she even some times forget abt making eyebrow .....or to go parlour for facial as her saaso maa is of old times ....seems to be quite modern ........!
today every channel whether pakistani or indian are showing serials based on saas bahu relations ......where one character is definately villian .......makes plotes against family or particular person .......and to complete them that woman or the heroine also .....even not scared for once while going in jungles , police stations , courts ........or horrible places .................!
but if we see around ...we found families where bahu take her saas as her mother .....and saas take her as her daughter ..respect that lady who left her house for them ...who change herself for entire family ....with she was unaware before her marriiage ....................!
duniya ka dastoor hai beti paida hoti hi paraye ghar ke lia hai ..........well today we see soon after wedding the newly wed bride wanna take her husband away ....she wanna snatch a son from mother ....a brother from sister ................!
WHY?
well i guess ...woman in any form ...with any relation never like to share a man ........mother in law .........saaso maa ........try to degrade bahu becoz after marriage she start feeling that her son is going away from her ...........daughter in law ....bahu .....feels ....her husband is her's only why she should share it with any one ..............or some bahus have no objection with family but they only wanna spend some time with their hubbies which is their right !
well this was my opinion ....what is urs about this thing ...before proceeding i wanna clear somethings ......what ever i write is based on my observation i m unmarried 20 years old gal ...i dont know any thing abt this relation ....i request all married ladies to clear confussion , a factor of fear in our hearts ......which is build due to some ladies and also becoz of serials !
amna😳