fights at Sing Family

i m really bored with the arguments in Nahar's family. i think they r dragging it too much...
Tara's is totally unbearable, so many of u liked her earlier, but i never liked her from beginning, she had a good role until she was good to saloni, but the way she dresses, & her hair... i never liked her styles, now in this role, i can't stand her at all.
aditi should have given some role to resolve their fights.

I agree. I never liked Tara either, Neither her dress style nor Kaveri's dress style.her nose is too big and so is her lips. She looked best when they showed her first time in the temple and few more times. Her role is aweful. At the moment she is more irritating than jiji.Yes aditi should get role and have her say in the matter. The thing that she is living off her brothers. She can not afford to loose her place in this house. But she will loose any way if jiji have her ways.

from all this fight i learn something and that is with bad people everybody avoid to clashed with as in past when saloni used to make any mistake everybody used to scold her and aditi also was very bad with her now what happen to her why cannot she tell any thing to tara.
how strange

Tara has brijesh at her side and jiji too. tara fighs back and has become very mean. Saloni was alone and Saloni gives in never figts back. Besides nahar tried scolding aditi. At this point aditi knows the game is played by jiji and also jiji supressed her several time during dheer's rendevous with jumma/ Jiji has kind of suppressed everyone at this point except brijesh.
Saloni is taken by everyone bcos she lets them. Some people never learn to fight back till it gets too untolerable. and take the crape from the people they love.

i agree this kind of people very smart by all their mean they use people in their own favour,
but sometimes it very difficult to fight back i still remember when iwas young i used to tell my mom no need to suffer any injustice must tell people on face no need to fear, but now i cannot even fight back sometimes as it is very difficult to fight with lairs,
as i was in same setuation in which nahar saloni was somebody was putting all wrong aligation and they tried to fight but in front of them was strong personality and lair so they had to take defit , and no point argue with this kind of p-eople best thing is to just avoid this kind of people and live your life on your turm with out getting invole with this kind of people as nahar did and doing,
so i learnt that it is very difficult to fight back in some cases

The thing is that these kinds live in your family and you cannot avoid them You have to deal with them day in day out. They change their colors like leopard. Unfortunately you cannot lie and stoop to their level,. and if you have no one to support you including you beloved all you can do is cry and cry and cry then eventually you learn to fight back for your survival.I know this because I have lived like this for years and have finally learned to fight back.

Originally posted by: ramas

The thing is that these kinds live in your family and you cannot avoid them You have to deal with them day in day out. They change their colors like leopard. Unfortunately you cannot lie and stoop to their level,. and if you have no one to support you including you beloved all you can do is cry and cry and cry then eventually you learn to fight back for your survival.I know this because I have lived like this for years and have finally learned to fight back.

i do believe you and lucky my love one is with me but to keep those love one happy have to learn how to avoid and but thoug it is very difficult and sometimes impossible i want my that stregnth back to fight back, i am also like waiting one day they will realise their mistake and understand where they are wrong but still have feeling also that is not going happen ,

Originally posted by: ramas

The thing is that these kinds live in your family and you cannot avoid them You have to deal with them day in day out. They change their colors like leopard. Unfortunately you cannot lie and stoop to their level,. and if you have no one to support you including you beloved all you can do is cry and cry and cry then eventually you learn to fight back for your survival.I know this because I have lived like this for years and have finally learned to fight back.

you are right. there are many such characters in real life too. actually that is the reason i like saath phere to an extend because other that tara compeling urvashi to marry brijesh for a child i have not really found any unbelievable happening. but it is also true that in many villages guys marry more than once to have kids.