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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ash_arti

vikram is yet to do anything to sugni according to me.

Just holding her hand or twisting it a bit cant be called sexual abuse according to me but a bit violent.

His words were more powerful than his actions yesterday and both being in love have shared physical closeness in the past too... vikram is yet to cross that torture/violent line yet.


Sugni about to shoot at vicky and marrying adi at gun point is violent for me.


very well said can't agree more !!👏👏👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I Personally do not agree with what Vickram did yesterday I understand his pain and so on but physically abusing another man's wife is a total no no for me at the end of the day Sugni is Adi's wife and regardless of what the situation is Vickram has no right laying his hands on Sugni. They are many other ways to torture her without touching her cause she is not his wife We all know how much pain he is going through but he chose to believe his useless wife over his love so all blame can't be put on Sugni for Vickram's pain.

He did not listen for a second what she had to say instead he started accusing her and calling her filthy names. I know many of you will say Sugni also treat him badly and deserves what she is getting but i am not ignoring that she did and she deserve to be punished but like i said there are many other ways Vickram can take his revenge without physically abusing her. She is not his property anymore she can remain his love but right now she is someone's else wife. Sugni did fire a gun at him Gulabiya also did cut him in the temple he then shot her and now torturing Sugni Adi too slap Amrita and drag Sugni out of the haveli all these are termed as violence and all are wrong.

But Vickram have to realized that loving someone dose not mean you own that person that person have a life and mind of their own when you marry that person you have a higher chance of owning them now only Adi have that chance or right over sugni right now whether we like it or no. Reva i am sure even a blind person wouldn't trust her so i am surprised that Vickram trust her blindly (the same woman he hates so much) without even trying to find out anything i am sorry but i don't see that as true love.

(My POV of course)😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have always said that physical violence is wrong not matter who the perperator is - What TVS did yesterday to Sugni is COMPLETELY WRONG.
Mental abuse is also wrong but he is hurt and angry and like any human being is lashing out. So if he lashes out and says things that hurt then I can understand that but he can do that with 2 feet between them.
I also do not agree with using crude and vulgar language. This is the second time that has happened :
- first time when Amu was giving Adi Sugni piece of her mind she used crude language to describe Sugni and her behaviour
- now TVS has been crude and vulgar
In both cases, this is out of character. It seems that the writers think that everybody becomes crude and vulgar when they are angry. This is not the case.
G has been crude and vulgar a number of times about how Thakurs see women etc but I put that down to her life experiences
Just MPOV. No offence intended
Edited by payal7 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: jonelle

I Personally do not agree with what Vickram did yesterday I understand his pain and so on but physically abusing another man's wife is a total no no for me at the end of the day Sugni is Adi's wife and regardless of what the situation is Vickram has no right laying his hands on Sugni. They are many other ways to torture her without touching her cause she is not his wife We all know how much pain he is going through but he chose to believe his useless wife over his love so all blame can't be put on Sugni for Vickram's pain.


He did not listen for a second what she had to say instead he started accusing her and calling her filthy names. I know many of you will say Sugni also treat him badly and deserves what she is getting but i am not ignoring that she did and she deserve to be punished but like i said there are many other ways Vickram can take his revenge without physically abusing her. She is not his property anymore she can remain his love but right now she is someone's else wife. Sugni did fire a gun at him Gulabiya also did cut him in the temple he then shot her and now torturing Sugni Adi too slap Amrita and drag Sugni out of the haveli all these are termed as violence and all are wrong.

But Vickram have to realized that loving someone dose not mean you own that person that person have a life and mind of their own when you marry that person you have a higher chance of owning them now only Adi have that chance or right over sugni right now whether we like it or no. Reva i am sure even a blind person wouldn't trust her so i am surprised that Vickram trust her blindly (the same woman he hates so much) without even trying to find out anything i am sorry but i don't see that as true love.

(My POV of course)😊

To all this I'll add he also said to Sugni in front of her husband he's a true thakur he'll show her what is a man is(this is a fault language he's insulting both Sugni and Adi)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yesterday was the first time I had watched the show this week and I must say I was really disappointed. I really wish I hadn't watched the show. I should have just gone to bed like I intended! What the HELL is really going on? I really don't want to know. I guess the bold they were promising is finally here 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: venesa

This isnt called haraasing a women
but showing her her right place
he is even doing and giving the same pain she gave it to him
y hadnt u ever seen sugni and gulabiya verbally and physically attacking vikram
then u never raised a question or wrote a post abt how vikram was getting haraased by these women
even when reva tried 2 kill tvs u never raised a question calling harassing a man
but u where supporting reva and all of them saying we must understand them
then its better 2 even try understanding vikram
harassing any gender is the same
why avoiding when a harassment is done by a women on men

sugni like women surely deserve more thn thisharaasment
im vry happy atleast now sugni is gettingthe punishmentshe deserve

so instead of being partial abt gender haraasments
if a women does harassment its her right
but if a man does its crime
wow what a moral lessons

totally agree with u. vikram isn't trying to harass sugni in any way. Women like her need treatment like that so that they can come to their right sense. All of u r just targeting TVS, Sugni, Gulabiya, ADI r all abusers accordng to me. ADI Disrespected his own uncle and cheated him(the uncle that grew him up with love), ADI slapped Amrita for that Sugni. Sugni pointing a gun at TVS, Gulabiya, Sugni emotionally stressing out TVS. Now put all together and tell me who did the most damages!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Violence whether it's physical or emotional is a NO NO in my book...I started watching the show because the concept was something new and a got hooked after the Gulki & Anuj interview at the launch party.

i'm a fan of the show not the characters so i'm not invested in the couples, i know that Vickram is hurt and rightfully so but wasn't he the one that started this whole chain reaction when he lied to Sugni knowing full well that Reva was alive and still wanted to married her?

Yes Sugni did loved V but what's love is there isn't any trust?...Everyone who's saying that Sugni deserves what's happening to her, I would like you to answer this question for me.

If you or a sibling were in love with a man and you find out that he's married but still was going to marry you and lied to you...would you be able to break up a marriage even if it isn't a happy one? Would u still wanna be with that person? And if he treated you the way V did Sugni yesterday, would you say that you deserved it?

I'm sorry but V actions after Reva's entry were all wrong, I can understand that he was in love w/ Sugni but the moment he found out abt his wife being alive, he had no business trying to rush Sugni down the aisle without telling her the truth.

And Sugni as well was wrong for some the things she did but no woman in her right mind would stay with a married man and i don't care if she's a beni (sorry don't know if that's how u write it) but she was never the one to want to follow in her community footsteps...She always had big dreams and before you all call her a gold digger if she was one she would have gladly chosen to be V's mistress.

IMO violence is violence, Adi did slapped Amrita who was been rude and insulting Sugni which is wrong also but Vickram behaviour yesterday was down right awful...No amount of hurt justifies his actions.

Sorry had to comment, gone for good and never coming back here...Bye!!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
@ZETTER I agree fully with you.
No one will accept to marry a man whose wife is alive standing living under the same roof.
I also from the beginning never agree with him after knowing his wife is still aliive why he continued to lie??
He knows Sugni is a bedni she'll easily like and accept to marry a thakur...
i was shocked in the episode Vikram did the chautha of his alive wife though bad he should not.
He should have told Sugni then waited for her decision.

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