this way the CTs too have a message...that friends are friends but some decisions have to be between husband and wife and not give the ever-ready GW MILs a chance to get at you!
and def cant call T as selfish somehow..as she has never intended bad...she is feeling bad that she may have got pregnant..but if thats the case she has already told deepa that she only wants family after studies so that she can bestow on the children everything that she missed..at least if she has a proper maternal or an in-laws place, she need not have worried...but considering so much is on her, lav's preg, her own studies, an uncooperative MIL, one mother in jail and another finding ways to torment her, T's worry, confusion can well be understood...and she saw reason in what deepa said..that if she broaches the topic of preg at home then gw may take adv to create more probs...
of course this still does not justify her not sharing with TA but feel no bad intentions from her side and this time TA shud see that...
p.s. she may not always exhibit her friendly char but TT never think of consequences when help is called for..thats more imp somehow...
Edited by vjayam - 12 years ago