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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

yah I soo wanted it to be a GRAND master plan but unfortunately or fortunately its not.


Anandi will get to see the softer side of her kadak kadak collector...

Its about time Ajee calls Shiv by his first name LOL



Suchi, Anandi is one heck of a Gal...fully loaded with values, morals & principles. A pretty touch kid!!!! The kadak collector can only plot when he is in collector mode as he is guided with his head. But when it is regarding his Ajee tab DIL bolta hai. 😳 DIL da mamla 😛 Today's decision was so heartfelt and touching as it was from the heart.

Thx to this unintentional GRAND MASTER stroke ...Anandi will now carpe diem😳

Just read it on twitter...
Loving you is like eating candy. Its sweet. It has different flavors and filling. And the more I have... The more I want. ( From Ajee to Shiv after seeing the softer side 😆)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: queen-bee



Anonee, I get your POV and completely agree with it!! But this whole calling off the wedding was not so much of a calculated risk. So I wouldn't call it a master stroke. He took the decision from the HEART. He wanted to actually bring J & A together. But God heals & helps those who are pure in heart so it turned out in his favor😳.

Yes there can be several different viewpoints -
However, both of us know that the heart is not where the brain resides - it resides within the skull.
If you meant that it was an emotional decision - I disagree because he carefully went thro the various scenarios - slept thro the problem - and came up with a decision early morning!!!
Of course the CVs have left the viewers draw their own conclusions - we will know what guided his thinking only if they show some FB soliloquy scenes.
Edit @Savz_uniqueblis This is also in answer to your post!
Edited by anonee - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anonee

Yes there can be several different viewpoints -
However, both of us know that the heart is not where the brain resides - it resides within the skull.
If you meant that it was an emotional decision - I disagree because he carefully went thro the various scenarios - slept thro the problem - and came up with a decision early morning!!!
Of course the CVs have left the viewers draw their own conclusions - we will know what guided his thinking only if they show some FB soliloquy scenes.
Edit @Savz_uniqueblis This is also in answer to your post!



I like different view points. These kind of forums thrives on divergent opinions. 😃 Soliloquy FB's will be wonderful and clear the confusion but interpretation has its own charm😳

Sure, I know that brain resides in Skilled SKULL😉. Yet I believe that when someone else has a problem, use your head to help and when you have one, permit your heart to guide you through. That does not mean I take emotional decisions related to me & mine😳.

As far as Shiv is concerned it was never a emotional decision...it was a well thought out decision for the love of the FAMILY...he went to the temple prayed for strength...And he told Gehna he is glad Ajee is not around...
The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved one. Today this is EXACTLY what unfurled on sc for us. Shiv and Anandi are so alike.
I'm not trying to educate and sermonize about Love; I'm just trying to put my point across that Shiv is in LOVE & this decision was a result of his "love" not only for her but for her dear ones too... no calculation no reasoning & absolutely no LOGIC plain blind unadulterated LOVE!!! The brain can argue ...it was a interpretation of his tactlessness. 😳

Couple of years back I had gone to The Indian Military Academy's Chetwood Hall...there I had seen an inscription: "The safety, honour and welfare of your country comes first, always and every time. The honour, welfare and comfort of the men you command, come next. Your own ease, comfort and safety comes last, always and every time." So maybe Shiv would have had some kind of a similar training for his Administrative job😉. Today's act was a Selfless service for the Singhs.
I would again repeat he just followed his Anandi jee path unfailingly!!😳

Edited by queen-bee - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I admire Anandi for her principles and morals. She never tried to hurt a single soul. selflessness do look like helplessness at times but it is not. It takes a lot to be in that situation and yet face it bold rather than sulk in despair and curse unlimited people.


Love your insight Suchi!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Queenbee Super liked your thoughts & words.👍🏼 Muahhh
Now I'm going to use few words from here as they are my thoughts in my post!! Ahhh yeh Ishq ...The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved one. (Even I use this quote a lot as & I absolute believe in this)

Some may call me illogical but I'm completely Dillogical. The purest gold goes through the severest fire for testing & purification. AnSh love is getting perfected in Pain!!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: queen-bee

Suchi, very nice post!! As far as why Shiv could not go and speak with Anandi.....I can present a full paper on this lol. If Anandi is a gal of principle he is no less. He has actually surpassed her today.

S knows very well AJee has moved on ...but he knows she is a FAMILY GAL ...apno ki liye kuch bhi karege. I think unintentionally he has given her a LITMUS TEST. But there was not so much of critical thinking involved, in Shiv's part . It was pure raw emotion & love for FAMILY. He does NOT want to erect a Taj mahal on somebody's broken dreams. He knows Ajee too wont be happy with this. They are like 2 Peas in a POD.

No doubt, Shiv is in LOVE with Anandi but he has accepted DS & the Singhs wholeheartedly. This outburst was coz of that only. He in his wildest dream cannot imagine to hurt DS. Such is his family values.

He has seen Anandi do the same. So maybe for a few sec he thought that maybe DS is right & she surely can get Anandi & J together. He had thought ...mere kuch kahe bina DS had read my mind, when she asked him to marry Ajee on his birthday. It was she who was instrumental in bringing them closer...Anandi was not in LOVE with him. So he thought that maybe DS has seen the sparks and can work her charm around JA & unite them....unko unka BEta mil jayega...Mahanata meter mai he scores FULL points. He sure brought Ajee back from the road to Vatican but coz of too much exposure to Ajee ...today he is himself ready for CANONIZATION.
He goes to the temple takes God's blessings and goes on mission impossible ...It is better to have LOVED & lost than not to have loved at all 😭
With God's blessing & Ajee's love he'll triumph!!

Suchi...
@Queen bee has put down my POV word by word...
I cannot have any thing more to add...
Thank U...@queen bee..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@queen-bee
You have backed-up your POV with nice arguments!👍🏼
Given my personality analysis of Shiv - I still think it was a calculated decision on his part. So let us agree to disagree on the issue!!😆😆
Edited by anonee - 13 years ago

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