A Learning Experience - Page 3

Originally posted by: cocojatti92

Yup yup
Lets not forget Turkey and China :)
I Honestly hate when people say that we were weak Thats why we converted and because fear of death .
Not true at all
Sufism is amazing it teaches us to be humanist.

Some people always talked bs like fourced convertion.
Ignore them.
Sufi's role in spread of islam in those country are historical fact.If someone want to deny we can't help.
Sufi people was very kind hearted and they love people.
Thats why many non muslim people also has respect for them.

Originally posted by: mijanur

Calling your husband/wife by name or not has nothing to do with religion.
Its a matter of personal choice.

Secondly it is dargah not durga.
Durga is a hindu godess.
And dargah are usally build on tomb of muslim sufi saint.
So pleas don't mix up two things.
It can lead confusion.
There has many school of thought of islam.
They have differ on many things.
Personally i think you can visit dargah to show your respect to sufi saint and can pray for their soule to allah.
But you should never pray for yourself in dargah.
You should ask anything from allah directly.
Going dargah/mazar/darbar is a cultural thing for muslims of indian sub continent.
Asha kari tumi qh bhalo kore enjoy korbe and onek kichu samparke janbe.

soo turee, hav learnt alot of thigs on this forum,

Originally posted by: mijanur

Calling your husband/wife by name or not has nothing to do with religion.
Its a matter of personal choice.

Secondly it is dargah not durga.
Durga is a hindu godess.
And dargah are usally build on tomb of muslim sufi saint.
So pleas don't mix up two things.
It can lead confusion.
There has many school of thought of islam.
They have differ on many things.
Personally i think you can visit dargah to show your respect to sufi saint and can pray for their soule to allah.
But you should never pray for yourself in dargah.
You should ask anything from allah directly.
Going dargah/mazar/darbar is a cultural thing for muslims of indian sub continent.
Asha kari tumi qh bhalo kore enjoy korbe and onek kichu samparke janbe.

Oh thanks for that. I'll keep that in mind, I was confused between Durga and Dargah, so glad u ave me the correct spelling.

U speak Bangla too? Wow... I didn't understand the last part, I'm sylhety so the Bangla accent is different, hence I didn't understand the last part :(

Originally posted by: mijanur

One of my bangladeshi friend told me about this two dargah.
I wish to visit them in future.
Furfura sharif is the most famous dargah for bengali muslim of west bengal.

I've been to both, they're really beautiful. One of them has these huge black fishes and you're meant buy these small bits of food and throw it to them to eat. I was fascinated.

Originally posted by: prettyasjen

Oh thanks for that. I'll keep that in mind, I was confused between Durga and Dargah, so glad u ave me the correct spelling.

U speak Bangla too? Wow... I didn't understand the last part, I'm sylhety so the Bangla accent is different, hence I didn't understand the last part :(

Yes i am a bengali too.
I live in west bengal.
I was saying i hope you will enjoy qubool hai and will learn many more thing.