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Could not stop myself from writing this. But before seeing the episode today I felt that Koki and Jigar were being unfair to Rashi but after watching it.. Honestly, though I feel for Rashi that she was caught in a difficult place, I could not fault the others for the way they reacted.
No one was overtly angry with Rashi and her hardwork was not trampled upon.Koki and Jigar were so worried about Gopi that they questioned her on the need to send Gopi out. Yes. It was not Rashi's mistake. Gopi insisted. We all know that but neither Koki nor Jigar do. To them Gopi listens to Rashi. Rashi being the elder should have thought better. How many times have you blamed yourself for NOT doing the right thing after something happened? Hindsight is always very judgmental.😕
Remember the time Rashi was in the bore well and the time she had the watch in her stomach.. Urmi lashed out then at Koki but when Ahem questioned that, Koki explained that it was alright. Urmi is a mom and she will lash out for her daughter. The same applies to Koki. She is Gopi's mother and she wanted answers.
Was Gopi completely at fault? Yeah for being stupid. I can agree with her offer to help. She was the one who understood just how hard Rashi was working. She wanted to help. But I question her decisions after that. She went without a car. That is alright as it is mentioned multiple times that the market is very near. If Gopi just returned back, it would have been alright. But her decision to go to the temple, even if accepted as a spur of the moment decision becomes worse when she wanted to correct the Mukhut herself.
The locking was not her mistake. Just like Rashi's impulses to lie, Gopi's impulse is to set things right and she was also trapped. Her first words when she realized just how stupid she had been was to worry for the others. I give her that. But I also hope that this is a lesson to Gopi to be a little more vigilant and little less good
At the end of the day both Rashi and Gopi turned out to be victims of circumstances. Rashi more so. As long as Gopi is not found, she will be blamed. Her intention was not to send Gopi anywhere but circumstances say otherwise. Similarly, Gopi's intention was not to be lost and get Rashi into trouble but her nature created the trouble.
I cannot bring myself to fault anyone. Rashi - She was a victim herself. I cannot fault Koki's anger for it stems from being a mother. I cannot fault Gopi other than for making a stupid mistake and wanting to help others all the time. And I cannot fault Jigar either. If he has the right to hug Rashi, he has the right to question her too.
I love this track. It has but shown us how humans act and react to circumstances. That is simply what drama and fiction is about.😊
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