why 'hate' naitik? - Page 4

Originally posted by: --manu--

@ avanti_duggu,
none of the members who genuinely love the show and the characters can question naitik's love for akshara. it's just that, when we disagree we do question. same has happened to akshara many times, looks like u have overlooked many such posts.

@ DwarfStar,
great post! love ur insight.
naitik is a great husband n there is no denying that.
won't compare akshara getting instigated with antara instigating naitik though. both the situations are different, according to me atleast.
having miscarried, akshara was not just going through physical stress, but also mental n emotional turmoil. naitik tried too hard to bring her back to her normal self. his intention was all good, but was a little pushy about going out for dinner, movie etc. akshara on the other hand, wanted a bit of space. bindia added fuel to fire, akshara lost her sense of reasoning n the outburst happened. no matter what the situation was, her accusation was grave n unacceptable. guess her agony overpowered her sense of reasoning.

her state of mind was different, lot of pent up frustration caused the outburst. but why naitik is so agitated currently, is beyond my understanding. a squabble, n his anger/ego overshadows his love. worse he informs a third person about what transpired between him n his wife.
hmm...poor execution by cv's .

Originally posted by: avanti_duggu

what tit for tat😕

please dont take me wrong.this was nothing related to you.

few of the words"third rated husband,This shows character if naituk that he can fall for a beautiful woman even after marriage, doke baaz daga baaz husband,makes me feel sick that a husband like him exists in this world,flirts with sneha" etc irked me that i posted this.few members said they hate naitik may be out of frustation thats completely ok.this post was meant to ask that can we realy hate naitik based on 2-3 episodes.i know bashers look for chances and i dont want them to dance thinking that all members hav started hating naitik like them

i m not atall with naitik.please dont get me wrong.naitik is very very wrong this time.like all of u said m also hating naitik actions.i didnt mean to offend any of u.i need to go now .may be i was not able to express what i meant by this post but didnt mean to offend any of u

bye!😊

Originally posted by: DwarfStars

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I beg to differ there...

Agreed...Akshara was going through a traumatic phase: was disturbed, upset, perturbed...all sympathies with her for that. Nevertheless, I wouldn't consider her 'state of mind' reason enough to accuse Naitik of such insensitive blames coz these allegations were put quite a time after her miscarriage.

In my view, Akshara got provoked not because she had lost her sense of reasoning; but because she failed to see how much Naitik did for her. Had she really been thankful enough to Naitik for being her support system, she would have never believed Bindiya's words. Akshara got instigated coz deep down even she believed that Naitik wasn't much affected with her miscarriage. She failed to see Naitik's pain, his agony, she failed to realise Naitik's concern for her, she failed to understand that the intensity of their pain was equal: just that she was expressive of her pain, he wasn't. Had she really believed that Naitik was hurting, she would have never insisted him to attend his friends son's naming ceremony.

Moreover, I don't thing Naitik was being pushy in any way. Yes, Akshara needed more time than Naitik had expected but Naitik was ready to give her that as well. Akshara should have made herself clear and told him that she wanted to spend quality time with him and only him.

Though yes, in the current situation, Naitik's cranky behaviour is simply unacceptable and Akshara shouldn't forgive him easily this time. But even inspite of Anatara's instigation, Naitik did not put any kind of allegations on Akshara.

Just my views.😊

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Originally posted by: --manu--

i completely respect ur views. 😊 my intention was not to blame naitik, it was more of a disapproval on how unconvincingly the track has been handled by cv's so far.
yes, akshara was very wrong in accusing naitik post mc. and as u said, the accusation was made after a certain while of the incident. but i do believe, it was the result of a lot of pet up frustrations. a series of action caused the reaction, in the most undesirable way though.
the feeling of having let the expectations of the family down, constant reminders by g3, bindiya flaunting her pregnancy r few to name.
also, as u said, naitik was never very expressive about his feelings neither on pregnancy nor after mc. infact some of his actions before pregnancy made her believe that he was not ready for a child yet. she had bottled up all these emotions within her. just a jolt was needed, bindiya provided it that swift away naitik .

now, the current track has all of a sudden transformed naitik from the most understanding husband into an insensitive person, whose first love is his ego. quite convenient for the cv's, but equally unconvincing for the views.

coming to some of the point u made,

i will not glorify what akshara said to naitik post mc in any way, but that was the first n last accusation akshara made on naitik . i wish i could say the same about naitik too, but can i ? he has been unfair to akshara 'n' number of times. i ve always found him 'karan ka kacha' who can get carried away under others influence easily . he can trust his servants over his wife for that matter.
how can we ever forget the cold treatment he gave to akshara on their entire wedding, or the way he treated her on first night?
how can we ever forget what he did to her on knowing nandini's love affair? she was humiliated, her upbringing n values were questioned, n was forced out of the house. rashmi's wedding was no different .

if naitik insisted upon going out to bring her back to normal , she asked him to attend ajay /vijay's son's namkaran so that he gets a change , not coz she was indifferent to his feelings/ pain.

yes, all these r not justifications for the grave accusation she made on him. but atleast the cv's were successful in building up the background for her outburst . here they have fallen flat. how can they portray naitik so indifferent all of a sudden without any logical explanation? n that too with in a span of two episode? unacceptable!!

m dislikin (nt hating)his behaviour(nt hm)...n i lub hm...