why 'hate' naitik? - Page 3

Originally posted by: avanti_duggu

[DIV]Hate is the big word.there r thousand of reasons which naitik gave to love him but ab 1-2 episodes se u started hating him.wah that means u never liked him actualy.i m also not liking his actions but that doesnt mean ill start hating him.i still love him for the 100s of episodes in which he was bestest of husband.sorry but i cant start hating him on the basis of 1-2 episodes.few people love comparing with akshara but sorry i never saw''hate akshara" in this forum then why its so easy to say "hate naitik"jabse i hav cum to this forum i hav always felt few members seriously hate naitik and now they hav got the chance.i dont know why but reading few post i felt that few people were waiting for such thing to come so that they can say they hate naitik[:s][/DIV][DIV][BR][/DIV][DIV][B]i would have been very happy if instead of so many 'hate naitik' post someone had opened 'loved akshar' post or is this forum for criticizing only.miscariage ke time pe itne sare loved naitik ke post tou nahi the then ab kyun?[/B][/DIV][DIV][BR][/DIV][DIV]no offence[/DIV][DIV]i m realy sorry if any of my words hurted anyone[/DIV][BR]

truely agree with you.

Originally posted by: ashi_naksh

@topic maker - We are no one to stop you posting your views. Though I don't agree with some parts of your post but I respect it.

I guessed you missed those posts where Akshara was thrashed badly in this forum for what I m still clueless...😆

And if you think this is tit for tat then you are highly mistaken with the views here.

what tit for tat😕

Second you there...

i like ur post nd i dont hate naitik nd i luv him in every situation... I think its neither naitik nor akshara at fault its only antara...

i never ever said i hate him...
i just said i m disappointed wid him n have started disliking his attitude towards akshara😡

Originally posted by: DwarfStars

Second you there...

Even I am really disappointed with Natik for the (absurd) way he is behaving with Akshara these days: overreacting on small issues, not accepting her heartfelt apology, acting like one egoistic man. And the worst of all, is getting instigated by Antara against Akshara. But even Akshara would easily get instigated against Naitik by Bindiya even though she knew how much Naitik cares and loves her.

In my view, he is still a dream husband. Personally, I would count myself amongst the lucky ones to have a spouse like him coz his qualities weigh way more than his shortcomings. No human being is perfect. EVERY being on this earth has his share of limitations: anger, hypocrisy, ego etc and so does he. Cut to his endearing qualities as a husband. The way he stood for Akshara against Baisa, took care of her during the batwara, extended his unconditional support to Akshara during her miscarriage (concealing his own pain just to make her feel better), looked after her during her pregnancy days, consoled and pacified her patiently even when she put harsh allegations on him etc. All these qualities make him a special husband.

PS: I am no where trying to defend Naitik's actions here. His behaviour towards Akshara these days is simply unacceptable. All I am trying to say is that everybody (unintentionally) acts immaturely/stupidly once in a while. So all we need to do right now is get a grip on our fickle minds and not forget the qualities and maturity Naitik has displayed in the past. Give the guy a little time and space, coz I am sure he'll very soon realise his mistake.😊

👏👍🏼i am totally agreedwith ur post😊

but feeling very bad so many bashing post on nk started 😲sorry i shouldnt have come here

Originally posted by: kala_09

but feeling very bad so many bashing post on nk started 😲

aunty no one is bashing him sab ek hi cheez telling in same things the motive is same the double standards

Originally posted by: DwarfStars

Second you there...

Even I am really disappointed with Natik for the (absurd) way he is behaving with Akshara these days: overreacting on small issues, not accepting her heartfelt apology, acting like one egoistic man. And the worst of all, is getting instigated by Antara against Akshara. But even Akshara would easily get instigated against Naitik by Bindiya even though she knew how much Naitik cares and loves her.

In my view, he is still a dream husband. Personally, I would count myself amongst the lucky ones to have a spouse like him coz his qualities weigh way more than his shortcomings. No human being is perfect. EVERY being on this earth has his share of limitations: anger, hypocrisy, ego etc and so does he. Cut to his endearing qualities as a husband. The way he stood for Akshara against Baisa, took care of her during the batwara, extended his unconditional support to Akshara during her miscarriage (concealing his own pain just to make her feel better), looked after her during her pregnancy days, consoled and pacified her patiently even when she put harsh allegations on him etc. All these qualities make him a special husband.

PS: I am no where trying to defend Naitik's actions here. His behaviour towards Akshara these days is simply unacceptable. All I am trying to say is that everybody (unintentionally) acts immaturely/stupidly once in a while. So all we need to do right now is get a grip on our fickle minds and not forget the qualities and maturity Naitik has displayed in the past. Give the guy a little time and space, coz I am sure he'll very soon realise his mistake.😊

this is what i wanted to convey but u were much better than me in expressing it😊

@ avanti_duggu,
none of the members who genuinely love the show and the characters can question naitik's love for akshara. it's just that, when we disagree we do question. same has happened to akshara many times, looks like u have overlooked many such posts.

@ DwarfStar,
great post! love ur insight.
naitik is a great husband n there is no denying that.
won't compare akshara getting instigated with antara instigating naitik though. both the situations are different, according to me atleast.
having miscarried, akshara was not just going through physical stress, but also mental n emotional turmoil. naitik tried too hard to bring her back to her normal self. his intention was all good, but was a little pushy about going out for dinner, movie etc. akshara on the other hand, wanted a bit of space. bindia added fuel to fire, akshara lost her sense of reasoning n the outburst happened. no matter what the situation was, her accusation was grave n unacceptable. guess her agony overpowered her sense of reasoning.

her state of mind was different, lot of pent up frustration caused the outburst. but why naitik is so agitated currently, is beyond my understanding. a squabble, n his anger/ego overshadows his love. worse he informs a third person about what transpired between him n his wife.
hmm...poor execution by cv's .