Kokila's character is just Ridiculous

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yessehm

@yessehm

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Can't help but mention that Kokila is just ridiculous. What an excuse for a mother. She just left Kinjal to fend for herself, knowing what Urmila is capable of.

The Modi's can afford to do so much for Kinjal in the way of support, but they have turned their backs on her.

Can't bear this show. It's become pathetic. Everyone is a puppet in Kokila's hands. The less said about he 'Modi men' the better.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

I disagree.. Koki did talk to Kinjal. She tried explaining to her that she needs to stop living in the past and should embrace her present which includes Dhawal. Kinjal is not married to Urmi.. rather she is married to Dhawal and Kinjal has forgotten that.

A year into her marriage and all Kinjal has done is crib. I wonder why she is not pulled up for not even trying. If advising a daughter is wrong,then Kokila is wrong.

Kinjal will not listen to words of love, she will not listen to words of anger.. The final straw is to give her a shock that will make her realize that she is wrong. Koki did just that all though it has made no difference... Obvious by the way Kinjal behaved today.

Being 'Modern' does not mean being disrespectful. Advising a daughter on the worthiness of her husband is not a crime. Unfortunately it looks that way for a lot of people...

The solution of shifting from Urmi's house should come from Dhawal. If the Modis did that, they will be accused of using their money and position to make a puppet out of their Son in law, a title Dhawal does not deserve.😊

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@Javeria_Xx

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Koki is trying to control everyone...!

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Madhu

@MADHU.BARUN

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
I disagree.. Koki did talk to Kinjal. She tried explaining to her that she needs to stop living in the past and should embrace her present which includes Dhawal. Kinjal is not married to Urmi.. rather she is married to Dhawal and Kinjal has forgotten that.
A year into her marriage and all Kinjal has done is crib. I wonder why she is not pulled up for not even trying. If advising a daughter is wrong,then Kokila is wrong.
Kinjal will not listen to words of love, she will not listen to words of anger.. The final straw is to give her a shock that will make her realize that she is wrong. Koki did just that all though it has made no difference... Obvious by the way Kinjal behaved today.

Being 'Modern' does not mean being disrespectful. Advising a daughter on the worthiness of her husband is not a crime. Unfortunately it looks that way for a lot of people...
The solution of shifting from Urmi's house should come from Dhawal. If the Modis did that, they will be accused of using their money and position to make a puppet out of their Son in law, a title Dhawal does not deserve.😊

I would agree with this!!

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

Ok aftr seeing past 2 days episode i would agree with evrything Harini said... few days b4 i had sum kind of sympathy twrds her bt nw nuthing... she deserves it...

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-Eris-

@-Eris-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

I have a love hate relation ship with her. In most arranged indian marriages parents go all the way to make sure there s no problem . But after the umaang kaand everyone has given up on her😕. She would have been treated like a princess in real life .

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with TM. Kokila giving big lectures to kinjal that she should not behave like this, respect MIL etc. But she knows what kind of person urmi is. She always rule those who have respect for her.And she would not leave kinjal if she becomes sidhi sadhi bahu. And when kinjal refused to start a fresh life with dhawal outside urmi's house? She was the one who suggested dhaval to buy another house after marriage. It was because of urmi's kalakari and kokila's lecture she is still staying in hell with urmi.

Why koki is so keen to keep kinjal with urmi? What is wrong if kinjal wish to live alone with dhaval? Kokila always standing against kinjal when she wants to do something like modeling and support all kalakari's of urmi. She has big problem with kinjal's modeling but no problem with kinjal's photo on chaddi and banyan shop. Agree she dont like her daughter as model but looking at condition she must help her to find another appropriate job. But no she dont wants to help her becoz of dhaval's self respect. Now helping others doesnt mean u r insulting them.

I dont like kinjal how she is behaving with dhaval but yes she is giving perfect treatment to urmi. She deserves it. But again even dhaval must understand its high time he must move out of fai's dream land and think about his wife.

Hetal was right when she suggested to find another house in chawl for kinjal. But again great mother refused. Why she wants to kill kinjal on the name of sanskar?

kokila should help kinjal to move out of urmi;s house and even after that kinjal is not behaving well with dhaval than kokila has right to scold kinjal. She herself cant tolerate urmi in modi house for long time and expect from kinjal to live with her life time.

Just my POV.

Edited by -ASTHA- - 13 years ago

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ALISHA SHIRODKAR

@PRINCESS_ALISHA

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
I disagree.. Koki did talk to Kinjal. She tried explaining to her that she needs to stop living in the past and should embrace her present which includes Dhawal. Kinjal is not married to Urmi.. rather she is married to Dhawal and Kinjal has forgotten that.
A year into her marriage and all Kinjal has done is crib. I wonder why she is not pulled up for not even trying. If advising a daughter is wrong,then Kokila is wrong.
Kinjal will not listen to words of love, she will not listen to words of anger.. The final straw is to give her a shock that will make her realize that she is wrong. Koki did just that all though it has made no difference... Obvious by the way Kinjal behaved today.

Being 'Modern' does not mean being disrespectful. Advising a daughter on the worthiness of her husband is not a crime. Unfortunately it looks that way for a lot of people...
The solution of shifting from Urmi's house should come from Dhawal. If the Modis did that, they will be accused of using their money and position to make a puppet out of their Son in law, a title Dhawal does not deserve.😊

totally agree with you

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swasthi

@swasthi

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

I disagree with you.

You are missing some important points:

1. Kokila knows her daughter and her will to want to be independent.

2. Kokila knows about Urmila's qualities and what her intentions are of Kinjal. Urmila will always use Kinjal to get back Kokila for Rashi's treatment.

3. This time when the Modi's stayed over at Urmila's home their arguments were heard by the family. There has been water under the bridge and most Urmila's ills with Kinjal was told.

4. Now Kokila has put the ball in Urmila's court by telling Kinjal where she stands with her. This left Urmila would a limb to stand on as she has lost her chance of continuing to use Kinjal for her ploy against Kokila.

Hetal did mention to Kokila of getting a place nearby and paying Dhaval's and Kinjal's rent just so that they are away from the problem. Kokila knows that the problem will not go away, in fact it can spark new problems.

So Kokila knows that Kinjal can fend for herself and that she can stand up to Urmila.

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gauri72

@gauri72

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

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Can't help but mention that Kokila is just ridiculous. What an excuse for a mother. She just left Kinjal to fend for herself, knowing what Urmila is capable of.

The Modi's can afford to do so much for Kinjal in the way of support, but they have turned their backs on her.

Can't bear this show. It's become pathetic. Everyone is a puppet in Kokila's hands. The less said about he 'Modi men' the better.

[/QUOTEmera ek question hai,Kokila janti thi ke Urmila aur Rashi kitne gire hue insaan hai to fir uski shadi vaha kyun ki?majboori me beti ko kue me to nahi dhakel sakte.Agar vo modelling karke independent hona chahti thi to galat kya tha?Urshi ki gandi se gandi kalakari ko maaf karne se to achchha hi tha.Kinjal itni kharab hai nahi lekin ghar me koi uski baat tak nahi sunta.Urshi ki baat suni jaati hai per kinjal to jaise nalayak hai aisa Kokila behave karti hai.Agar Koki ko kinjal se itna hi problem hai to pahle ghar ka kaam, paiso ki bachat aur sanskar sikhaye kyon nahi.vaise to vo Ba, Pati, motabhai aur Motabhabhi sab badon pe hukam chalati hai to fir kinjal ko kyun kuchh bhi nahi sikhaya.Rashi(kk princess) per bharosa hai per kinjal per nahi.Apna pati kuchh kamata nahi hai to saari zindagi apmaan karti rahi, vo bhi sab ke saamne.Aur Dhaval kya kamata hai vo jaane bina beti ko kue me dhakel diya aur jamai ke swabhimaan kitaarif karti hai.abtak usne loan ke paise to chukaye nahi.Zaroori nahi ke achchha ghar aur pati na mile to beti ko kisike bhi gale bandh do.saari zindagi ghar baith sakti hai.

sahi baatr hai itna rich family hai per kinjal ko kabhi support nahi kiya.

@ bold absolutely agree.

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