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Posted: 13 years ago
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pradeep left the 12 yrs married life n 3 kids for anushka.he abandoned mona.he insulted her,abused her.he did all this infront of his family,friends,relatives.more than that he is living with anushka in their house.is this tolerable for mona?hw can she ever forgive him?hw can she trust him?hw can she love him?hw can she ever live with such a man in the same society?is this jst anushka's fault?hw can pradeep be accepted back?wt message r they sending to the society?
vineet came as a light in mona's life,that too, at the most darkest phase of her life?i want him to remain as the light of her life simply for the person he is.this is a show.nt a real life story.where will v meet a gem of a person like vineet in real life?its hard.its even harder to meet a mona(the mahan mona)since this is a show they can show the varies dimensions of an extra-marital affair which includes divorce,independent life,re-marriage ,children's issue n of course re-union of the couple.
v don't want to see a forced marriage of moneet at the same time v want to see their re-marriage.y nt?it is such a potential progressive track.r v nt in the 21st century?y should mona remain single wn there is some one who is willing to walk beside her.this is up to cv's.for mona-pradeep reunion,there is no need of an assassination of vineet's character.priority of children is good enough.nt to forget :this is ekta's world where anything n evything is possible.
each relevant tracks lacked the detail n finishing it demanded.another track of moneet is facing the same problem.sad,such a potential progressive track is in vain.🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rtms

pradeep left the 12 yrs married life n 3 kids for anushka.he abandoned mona.he insulted her,abused her.he did all this infront of his family,friends,relatives.more than that he is living with anushka in their house.is this tolerable for mona?hw can she ever forgive him?hw can she trust him?hw can she love him?hw can she ever live with such a man in the same society?is this jst anushka's fault?hw can pradeep be accepted back?wt message r they sending to the society?

vineet came as a light in mona's life,that too, at the most darkest phase of her life?i want him to remain as the light of her life simply for the person he is.this is a show.nt a real life story.where will v meet a gem of a person like vineet in real life?its hard.its even harder to meet a mona(the mahan mona)since this is a show they can show the varies dimensions of an extra-marital affair which includes divorce,independent life,re-marriage ,children's issue n of course re-union of the couple.
v don't want to see a forced marriage of moneet at the same time v want to see their re-marriage.y nt?it is such a potential progressive track.r v nt in the 21st century?y should mona remain single wn there is some one who is willing to walk beside her.this is up to cv's.for mona-pradeep reunion,there is no need of an assassination of vineet's character.priority of children is good enough.nt to forget :this is ekta's world where anything n evything is possible.
each relevant tracks lacked the detail n finishing it demanded.another track of moneet is facing the same problem.sad,such a potential progressive track is in vain.🤢



Totally agree on the part that there is no need to assassinate Vineet or Anushka's character. Keep the story line simple. Let Mona realize the need of love, need of a partner in life. She can decide how much she is willing to go back to her previous relationship or to accept a new person starting afresh. Same is true for pradeep, he may realize his mistake but should not take Mona for granted. His realization and remorse could come from his love for his children or non compatibility with Anushka but not because Anushka is too mean a human being. It is enoughto show the difference intheir thinking, no one has to be shown a bad character. That's all I meant to say.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree with people who have expressed that children being raised under parents who dislike/not love each other have grown up to dislike relaitonships (Barring exceptions).
Although this might sound bad but parents should separate if they are absolutely 100% convinced that they can't live with each other but at the same time they should also be good parents to their kids.
Kids, these days understand and will grow older to understand and respect relationshps PROVIDED their parents guide them properly and explain to them why they got separated.

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