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I have started this topic as I want to express my thoughts on this EK story which I just started following a few weeks back. It relates to our modern era of complex relationships and independent womanhood. In contrast to previous generation where most of the women spent their lifetime dealing with saas bahu saga's and serving their working husbands', today's woman is more expressive about her needs and wishes and also while following cultural traditions raises a voice against inequality in/outside of relationship. One such woman is Mona who took a stand when her husband left her for another woman. She also had a choice but she was the committed one and so far as I know the story she has not gone astray from her character and committments towards her children and extended family. Most of the family respects her for being who she is. However, she is at the roads where she has to start a relationship with someone for whom she has not yet felt romantic interest and also has not yet overcome completely the setback of the broken relationship. And that is because of the three children from her first marriage. For any woman like Mona in the world, the fisrtmost is her children and the maternal instincts and love for her children is so much that at this time in her life, when she feels financially independent and stable, she is unable to love anybody else or is ready to go back to her previous relationship who has started to show signs of remorse.
For those who say ooh aah for Vineet as he has been shown the perfect bachelor fallen in love with Mona, you have to realise that marriage is an intimate relationship, Mona has three children with Pradeep and even though Pradeep is a jerk, Mona is a normal and balanced human being. At this time point her children are her priority and again, no woman like Mona inthe world would keep her family's or her happiness before her kids' happiness. I feel it is perfectly okay for her to rejoin with Pradeep in a relationship if that makes her children happy. Remember she is not the one who is in love with Pradeep, she is till trying to know where she stands and how to move forward alone. Psychologically if there are minor children in the middle of a broken relationship, they get the priority above any other emotion because as a parent, their future and emotional well being is your responsibilty. This applies to both the parents, and that means to Pradeep too. For this Anushka doesn't have to be shown as negative, she doesn't want to deal with pradeep Mona kids is good enough reason for Pradeep to quit that relation for his kids' sake.
Rahiman dhaga pyar ka mat toro chatkaye, toote se phir mile nahi, mile ghandh par jaye- it might take years of counselling for Mona and Pradeep to get over this phase of life, but I root for their union for the childrens sake (and also because Mona is not ready to get in to a new relationship while not being over from teh pain of the previous one). This will be her setback no matter under which complusions she takes this step of second arranged marriage.
Looking forward to the forum's comments -
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