arjun-ovi - Page 4

Originally posted by: Tweeg

The thing I don't agree with is the message that Ekta is sending out - you only ever get what you want through manipulation. She's pulled this in countless serials where 2 sisters or friends fall for the same guy and the "evil" one always gets him through her scheming. I don't know why she keeps doing this. If she wants to distance 2 lovers to intensify their feelings for each other, then why not explore the relationship through physically distancing them or create some tragedy. This marriage distancing is so old - and probably the most predictable thing (after making the female lead a self-sacrificing, queen of pain and tears) she ever uses.

C'mon Ekta! Get some new material! In fact, go find yourself a husband and learn a thing or two about REAL relationships.

In the meantime, I refuse to watch Arjun and Ovi share screen space.

Originally posted by: archverma10

I think you just said it. Your parents barely knew each other. Ive said it before and I will say it again: now hear me LOUD and CLEAR. And for God's sake keep to the point: Arjun and Ovi did know each other and were friends before. Their previous friendship was not enough to make him fall in love with her...what makes you think they will "learn to like each other and fall in love eventually now?" Before they had a good friendship...now because of her selfishness and betrayal...he has gone from liking her as a friend to hating her...any attempt he is making at being nice is solely because of Purvi's sacrifice and wish...and this is the truth...

Ive noticed you have been brutal towards ARVI...and have kept silent until now. If the mods wish to rebuke me they can feel free...they will face plenty of protests and resistence as I am not abusing or using language that is as nearly as bad as yours. Do NOT make the foolish

mistake of taking me on in an educated and classy debate...based on logic and analysis...you cannot hope to win. Believe me.

Originally posted by: archverma10

I think you just said it. Your parents barely knew each other. Ive said it before and I will say it again: now hear me LOUD and CLEAR. And for God's sake keep to the point: Arjun and Ovi did know each other and were friends before. Their previous friendship was not enough to make him fall in love with her...what makes you think they will "learn to like each other and fall in love eventually now?" Before they had a good friendship...now because of her selfishness and betrayal...he has gone from liking her as a friend to hating her...any attempt he is making at being nice is solely because of Purvi's sacrifice and wish...and this is the truth...

Ive noticed you have been brutal towards ARVI...and have kept silent until now. If the mods wish to rebuke me they can feel free...they will face plenty of protests and resistence as I am not abusing or using language that is as nearly as bad as yours. Do NOT make the foolish

mistake of taking me on in an educated and classy debate...based on logic and analysis...you cannot hope to win. Believe me.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

In this debate of love vs marraige I side with the institution of marraige as it brings stability to society .

I don't believe that 'feelings' should upset one's life . ' Love ' is a feeling and trust me its not eternal at all but very transitory . It 's marraige that is eternal [ at least it was in the generation above me .divorces are rampant today .]

Marriage channelises this transitory emotion that can create chaos in society .

Marraige , then divorce , then remarry is not for me . For me it is no gudda guddi ka khel .

Should one stay in a loveless marrige then ?

My answer to this is at 22 Arjun knows nothing of life or eternal love . What Archana said was correct ...give it time .

I agree with Varsha when she says that there should be divorces when there is domestic abuse etc . But if he is a good proivider , if your in laws are understanding like DK and all he has is a previous love affair ...try and work on it .

India is replete with successful arranged marraiges and I believe that it is an Indian serial they are showing .

If the message of this serial is 'love' is eternal and break a marraige for this eternal feeling , sorry , I don't agree as its the institution of marraige that is / was eternal not at all a human feeling . Infact human feelings change rapidly .

Marraige , as sherma says is the union of 2 families . As i see it , the 2 families r happy .

I also don't agree that it was a 'forced' marraige . Anybody can give you any amounts of deals and temptations to break off will you take them . If it truly was 'love' you will tell your fiancee and you will reject it as a team .

It was accepted willy nilly and if they now go back on it saying 'oh we were foolish and this is now love' it is insulting this great institution .

If force was used ...it was used by Purvi who used her hold on him to make him do her bidding . She did not even catch his eye during his marraige to Ovi ...he was constantly looking at her hoping she will change her mind .

Ovi had given up ...nobody was listening to her . It was Purvi who phoned her after mulling on it .

Marraiges have little or nothing to do with infatuations or these love stories . Infact arrange marraiges and love marriges sail in the same boat after children are born and the honeymoon is over . They simply become 'marraiges' which entail many responsibility .

These eternal love stories then become an indulgent memory of youth when one is alone and the family goes out .😆

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

In this debate of love vs marraige I side with the institution of marraige as it brings stability to society .

I don't believe that 'feelings' should upset one's life . ' Love ' is a feeling and trust me its not eternal at all but very transitory . It 's marraige that is eternal [ at least it was in the generation above me .divorces are rampant today .]

Marriage channelises this transitory emotion that can create chaos in society .

Marraige , then divorce , then remarry is not for me . For me it is no gudda guddi ka khel .

Should one stay in a loveless marrige then ?

My answer to this is at 22 Arjun knows nothing of life or eternal love . What Archana said was correct ...give it time .

I agree with Varsha when she says that there should be divorces when there is domestic abuse etc . But if he is a good proivider , if your in laws are understanding like DK and all he has is a previous love affair ...try and work on it .

India is replete with successful arranged marraiges and I believe that it is an Indian serial they are showing .

If the message of this serial is 'love' is eternal and break a marraige for this eternal feeling , sorry , I don't agree as its the institution of marraige that is / was eternal not at all a human feeling . Infact human feelings change rapidly .

Marraige , as sherma says is the union of 2 families . As i see it , the 2 families r happy .

I also don't agree that it was a 'forced' marraige . Anybody can give you any amounts of deals and temptations to break off will you take them . If it truly was 'love' you will tell your fiancee and you will reject it as a team .

It was accepted willy nilly and if they now go back on it saying 'oh we were foolish and this is now love' it is insulting this great institution .

If force was used ...it was used by Purvi who used her hold on him to make him do her bidding . She did not even catch his eye during his marraige to Ovi ...he was constantly looking at her hoping she will change her mind .

Ovi had given up ...nobody was listening to her . It was Purvi who phoned her after mulling on it .

Marraiges have little or nothing to do with infatuations or these love stories . Infact arrange marraiges and love marriges sail in the same boat after children are born and the honeymoon is over . They simply become 'marraiges' which entail many responsibility .

These eternal love stories then become an indulgent memory of youth when one is alone and the family goes out .😆

Absolutely Kool….arrange marriage work, just fine, even if during the marriage something untoward happened….besides, they say marriages happens after 1000 dialogues and not all interactions are pleasant…India is full of arranged marriages and none have to look for examples of arrange marriages that are successful….

Besides, how was the 'love' between that of Arjun and Puvi was the 'true' and 'eternal' one, it was only 3 month s old….does one realizes true love within that short amount of time, when really that love wasn't truly tested….See, one test and how this so called love just broke apart…so how is this true love and not merely an infatuation….Besides, why are we thinking that this nameless rishta between Arjun and Purvi was Pavitra and Arjun and Ovi who is married and is husband and wife isn't a "pavitra rishta'??

Besides, only first love is true love and love that happens after the first isn't….I don't see how that logic can be true…love can happen more than ones in one life time and besides the so called first love rather maynot be the true one…see how many young people fall in their first love and ends up in a sex trade or something in real life….happens because these young people can't see through the mirrors that are in front of their eye, because of all the colors that this 'first love' (read it as hormones) throws their way…

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Absolutely Kool'.arrange marriage work, just fine, even if during the marriage something untoward happened'.besides, they say marriages happens after 1000 dialogues and not all interactions are pleasant'India is full of arranged marriages and none have to look for examples of arrange marriages that are successful'.

Besides, how was the 'love' between that of Arjun and Puvi was the 'true' and 'eternal' one, it was only 3 month s old'.does one realizes true love within that short amount of time, when really that love wasn't truly tested'.See, one test and how this so called love just broke apart'so how is this true love and not merely an infatuation'.Besides, why are we thinking that this nameless rishta between Arjun and Purvi was Pavitra and Arjun and Ovi who is married and is husband and wife isn't a "pavitra rishta'??

Besides, only first love is true love and love that happens after the first isn't'.I don't see how that logic can be true'love can happen more than ones in one life time and besides the so called first love rather maynot be the true one'see how many young people fall in their first love and ends up in a sex trade or something in real life'.happens because these young people can't see through the mirrors that are in front of their eye, because of all the colors that this 'first love' (read it as hormones) throws their way'