Who is really at fault?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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After watching everything come out in the open in yesterday's episode, I have to wonder who really is to blame for the truth taking 18 long years to come out.
Is it SAVITA: She thought Archana was after her son's money and wanted to protect him. As a mother, she did what she thought was best. Even though, she was keeping Ovi and Teju away from their mother, she thought in the long run it was in their best interest. Especially after what happened with Soham and the court case against Manav.
Is it MANAV: He was already feeling betrayed and hurt by Archana after the court case. To top it off, after he repeatedly warned Archana about leaving Soham with Varsha, she went ahead and did what she wanted anyway. That resulted in Soham being presumed dead. He was hurt and grieving for his son. He also wanted to protect his daughters from Archana and thought the best thing was to move to Canada. He told this to Archana and she being Mahaan, decided to give them without a fight. At the last minute, he sent a ticket to Archana with his mother. He could have gone for himself. In all the 18 years, didn't he once think to call her and probably decide on a divorce? What was he waiting for? Is that how much he loved Archana? If he had not received the fake divorce papers, would he still be in Canada pining away?
Is it ARCHANA: She betrayed Manav by taking the chawl people's side in court. She told so many hurtful things about him in the court. She insulted Manav and snatched Soham from Manav's arms and gave him to Varsha at the twins birthday party. These things caused Manav to distrust her and possibly hate her to a point. When he told her that he was taking the twins to Canada because he could not trust her with the daughters, she did not protest. She just gave them up without a fight. What kind of mother soon after losing a son, she just gives away her other children? When Savita brought the custody papers, she could have refused to sign and spoken to Manav for herself. But no, she wanted to prove Manav's point of not caring for her children by just signing away the papers. She did not even think to see them for one last time before they left. It wasn't until Sulochana put some sense in her that she decided at the eleventh hour, to go to the airport. Of course she missed the flight. In all of the 18 years, she did not think for once to try to contact them, Even through Damodar or Aashana. Now when she has the opportunity to reconcile with her children, she again prefers to deprive her daughters of their mother by agreeing to Sachin's ridiculous scheme. Does she really deserve sympathy?
Is it DAMODAR: He claimed last night that he did not want to separate a son {Manav} from his mother{Savita}. No, he preferred to keep a husband away from his wife and children from their mother. He preferred to watch his son suffering for 18 years without his wife. He preferred watching the twins grow up without their mother and hating her also, All that, than to tell Manav the truth. How much pain and suffering could have been avoided. Does he really think that Manav will hate Savita less after 18 years?
Just my 2 cents. Feel free to agree or disagree.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree I think everyone contributes to being at fault savita: for being pure evil and hating archana over unnecessary issues
damodar: for keeping his mouth shut though he knew about all of savitas intentions
Manav: for not seeing anything or believing anything but his mothers evil lies and being to gullible and not understanding his wife enough to know her inside out and know she's not capable of doing any of the things she was accused of
Archana: never defending herself always being treated badly by everyone but still being queen mahaan and letting savita get away with everthing
So overall everyone was at fault in a way some more than others.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post JulieD...You tell me who you put the most blame on????
I have made my own topic on why is Manav walking around being angry at rest of the world but himself and his WIFI???
Manav
Archana
Biggest to blame...No one else can do anything if the marriage was strong..
Sulo & karanjkar problems which you did not list but I am mentioning...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Julie, great post...greates to blame are Archana followed by MAnav...if these 2 people didn't do what you have listed down, we couldn't have had this 18 yrs of separation...people almost, always blame someone else for their misfortune, never once looking at the mirror. This blame game of Savita, is unnecessary, if they were not at fault to begin with...Arman really needs a mirror and see what is their "Rishta"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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JulieD
Suggestion...Can u pls add a catagory abt Sulo and K's faults in this destruction?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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only one person - EKTA 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post Julie

Ks family is completely at fault first

then comes manav who constantly supported Ks

then comes archana she took complete advantage of situation and gave so much importance to maika over sasural

then comes damo, who ill-treated his wife

then ArMan not trusting savita

then comes teju who has investigated to find only one side of the truth
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Savita is the one at fault . Only Savita. For breaking up a family.
For wilfully spreading hatred. For using kids as pawns.
She has not been given the sole right to decide what is good for her son and his children. If she had the guts she would fight her battle upfront. She is a coward who cannot face the truth that her son loves his wife.
Others made mistakes. But that does not absolve her or justify her deeds.My POV of course!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well written post...u jst said what i had in mind 😉

This serial is not working because of itz story line but only because it has some wonderful actors...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think Manav is at fault...
Archana never believed Manav can hate her she always believed he loves her and had trust in their relationship it wan manav who had doubted Archana no matter what the whole world say at the end it is up to you to believe it or not so i think it was and is manav's mistake he should have atleast spoken to archana and if you can't understand the silence between the words spoken by your love you never knew her and how can you love someone you don't even kno...

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