Should Indu marry off rishi?

Hi friends,

Ahhh! Its a really difficult question to answer dhanya di! On one hand,Rishi must be d one who shud decide wht must happen in his lyf.It is he who has gt al d rights to decide abt hs future lyf..so gng by ds thot,i feel Indira must nt force hr decisions on Rishi! But wn i look at d situation frm Indira' pov,i hav gt only praises for hr! Hum unhi par apna hak chalate hai jo hamare sabse kareeb hote hai! So in getting rishi married,her only and only intention is to see hr hubby happy wn she is no mor. Its vry difficult for me to criticise sch a selfless love! So as far as am concernd,i cnt cm to any firm stand as to who is ryt and who is wrong!

Originally posted by: aadk

Ahhh! Its a really difficult question to answer dhanya di! On one hand,Rishi must be d one who shud decide wht must happen in his lyf.It is he who has gt al d rights to decide abt hs future lyf..so gng by ds thot,i feel Indira must nt force hr decisions on Rishi! But wn i look at d situation frm Indira' pov,i hav gt only praises for hr! Hum unhi par apna hak chalate hai jo hamare sabse kareeb hote hai! So in getting rishi married,her only and only intention is to see hr hubby happy wn she is no mor. Its vry difficult for me to criticise sch a selfless love! So as far as am concernd,i cnt cm to any firm stand as to who is ryt and who is wrong!

well --indira might be right in doing this--as rishi is quite defeatist in his nature.
if no love available then he broken--he drinks-he waste his life and he ruin his life.

if you see his past--then you know what i am saying.

so what indira doing is right in her perspective.

frankly--rishi exactly don't know how much life is precious.

so indira actually taking care of his future life right now only.before her death.

Originally posted by: aadk

Ahhh! Its a really difficult question to answer dhanya di! On one hand,Rishi must be d one who shud decide wht must happen in his lyf.It is he who has gt al d rights to decide abt hs future lyf..so gng by ds thot,i feel Indira must nt force hr decisions on Rishi! But wn i look at d situation frm Indira' pov,i hav gt only praises for hr! Hum unhi par apna hak chalate hai jo hamare sabse kareeb hote hai! So in getting rishi married,her only and only intention is to see hr hubby happy wn she is no mor. Its vry difficult for me to criticise sch a selfless love! So as far as am concernd,i cnt cm to any firm stand as to who is ryt and who is wrong!

Forcibly marrying RISHI is not justified.. Just think of the situation if Rishi has BT instead of Indira and Rishi tries to marry her with another man... Will Indira agree ??? Will Indira be happy with another man ??? Will Indira forget Rishi after his death ??? Or will she marry with another man knowing that her beloved husband is gonna die ??? most probably NO... So how can she expect that marrying rishi to shweta is the solution of the problem ??

Note : This is my pov... Anyone needn't agree with me...

i am with 2nd option & agreed with malay fully..she cant force him to get married suddenly..his future life can be decided by himself only..let him think over it whether to marry again or lead life alone..uska zindagi hai.

I think both the options are a yes from me. 😆 Its a very hard question to answer. Rishi would mourn Indu's death and then later (time is subjective and depends on Rishi)should try to move on. That is the nature of life. 😊 I understand Indu's concern and I understand why Rishi will not like to marry. She cant see him alone and grieving and he cant fill in Indu's void with someone else. I am kind of equivocal here. 😆 Sorry.

its a emotional issue indira wants to see rishi happy she thinks she will die😆 but indira should not force marriage on rishi instead she can take a promise after her death rishi will marry shweta so life will move on

Rishi is an individual and like everybody else he has a right to take his own decisions. He is not an empty check box in indiras never ending list of responsibilities which needs to marked 'checked' as soon as possible. to mourn, to remarry, to never marry, etc...whatever be the case...its his right alone to choose.