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Should Indu marry off rishi as she thinks she is gonna die?

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Shwetha

@-Shwetha-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Really, we don't want rishi to marry shwetha as it is against Inshi fans and HD's TRP will also comes down, if rishi marry shwetha and it also hurt the fans:)

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Earnshaw09

@Earnshaw09

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Hi,nice question.And the answer to it is actually very simple if considered in 'real' life.Although we are rational beings,but when it comes to the matter of hearts,we are ruled by our emotions,no matter how crucial the circumstances are.Lets consider Indira's situation in real life,can anyone be sane enough to share one's love when one is still breathing? My answer is no;no wife,or husband,who are so deeply in love with each other,like Indira and Rishi,can ever share their love with anyone else even if anyone of them is at the death-bed also.

Many might be of the opinion that, Indiras decision to get Rishi married again,when he is still married to her,and when she is still breathing,is right.But to me the question arises:is Indira thinking of such a drastic step in her and Rishi's relationship to really make Rishi happy,or she is doing this for her peace of mind?;that she can die peacefully!Because,when any of our loved ones take leave of this world,they go silently;and when gone,the body perishes,and the soul:well,the soul gets liberated from all bonds.Its the ones,who are left behind,who die everyday with every breath they take.So,when Indira is gone,how can Rishi be happy?Can any other woman take her place in Rishi's heart,who is so madly in love with his wife?

To me this very idea of finding a bride for Rishi,or getting him married to his friend,is absurd.And I would have been of the same opinion had Rishi been in Indira's place,and planning to get her married before he says goodbye.Either way its very unrealistic.

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

@appu, roshni: when you say about selfless love, their would be two opinions there. Some might think that indu is selfless in ensuring that her husband is not alone after she is gone, but there would be others who think it is selfish to marry off rishi, without considering his emotions and his wishes, so that she can be satisfied that he is not alone, and die peacefully.

@raj: rishi is definitely not shown as a person who is defeated by the situation. he is fighting as of now.

@malay: answer to all your questions are a definite NO.

@ranjini: yes you have a point. it is rishi's life and hence he is the one who should decide.

@ anki: balanced and diplomatic as always

@aman: you have a point there. Indu can ask for a promise that he will move ahead in life and marry some one after some point of time when he is ready. In that way she wont take away rishi's right to mourn, take time to move ahead and also choose his own partner instead of choosing by herself.

@shruthi: yes rishi has a right to take his own decisions.

@shwetha: yes TRP's will tank if rishi marries shwetha, and i dont even want to think what will be the forum atmosphere😉

@arpitha: you have done a wonderful analysis of the whole situation. after reading your comments i am bound to think is it a selfless or a selfish decision from indu's side. you have a great point when u say that once you die you are liberated, leaving behind the other person to live which could be an unwanted relationship.

Thank you every one for speaking out your mind on this. One thing i want to add above and all this is, when we love some one, go to any extreme to make them feel loved, do anything to see the smile in their face or bring happiness to their life, or do any sacrifice to attain any of these, i think we are indirectly/directly doing it for ourselves, coz we feel good. Hence i feel whatever we do in life is in this selfish pursuit of feeling good and satisfied (indirectly there is nothing selfless about love 😃)

Edited by dhanya.r - 13 years ago

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aadk

@aadk

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Dhanya di,great analysis indeed!But i differ in my opinion with respect to d last paragraph.I feel dt when ever we see our dear ones in pain,we go to any extent to get dm out of it..v sacrifice and compromise wt mny things just to see a small curve on dr face!D driving force wch leads us to al ds is our selfless love for dm!D feeling of happiness and satisfaction dt v get later is just d after effect of our actions!But dt dosent mean dt v do al ds just to keep ourselvs guilt free and happy!Its nt dt v do al ds so dt v feel gud,its just dt d happiness of our dear ones gives us immense peace and a big reason to smile and v just enjoy dt moment.I feel dt here our selfless intentions bcm more important and d joy wch v gt later is just a result of our actions!D main thing dt drives us hr is our selfless love for our closed one and not d desire to get happineswch is just a by-product of our actions!

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714873

Hibernated

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: iolahardy
Rishi is an individual and like everybody else he has a right to take his own decisions. He is not an empty check box in indiras never ending list of responsibilities which needs to marked 'checked' as soon as possible. to mourn, to remarry, to never marry, etc...whatever be the case...its his right alone to choose.

a spouse thinking of marrying away his/her partner because he/she is soon gonna die should think once...had they been in their partners place would they have married off so easily? if she really cares for him she should make him aware that her days are numbered...and soon he will be all alone. she needs to prepare him for the loneliness...dumping another girl on him is just kiddish...like a kid replacing a friends broken doll with a new one.

completely agreed shru 👍🏼 you said it all

Edited by pari117 - 13 years ago

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