Is it an illegal relation?Help plz

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am not a Hindu.So I do not know what has to be done to make a marriage a valid one.Well there was a serial "Sanjog Se Bani Sangini" few years ago.There the guy fills the girl's Maang with Sindoor in front of God.And they were considered marriage.Even the elders considered it as a marriage.
In the film "Mujh Se Dosti Karoge?" when accidentally Hrithik filled Rani's Maang in the temple even the elders gave a shocked expression as now what will happen as they got married.

So can Khushi and Arnav be considered married?Can they still consider each other husband wife even if the remarriage does not happen?Were they in an illegal relationship all along?
And why did Arnav once tell Khushi,"You are my legally wedded wife."If they are legally wedded then they must have a marriage certificate.But I don't think they have any.But aren't you supposed to have some legal papers of your marriage.

Hindu friends please help me.Are they still married.Can Khushi still wear Sindoor or she will have to wipe it.

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shabi8

@shabi8

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Posted: 12 years ago

no idea i'm not an hindu... i thought the remarrige will takes place in case of redemption to fulfil khushi's dream wedding... but surely not in this weird way😕

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

Any Hindu friend out there?

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AGirlHasNoName

@AGirlHasNoName

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Posted: 12 years ago

Someone made this thread earlier...hopefully this will put a little light on the subject.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3147753/no-pheras-no-marriage-really

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Suhana

@Summer_Rain

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Posted: 12 years ago

we see court marriages happening too everyday where bride groom take no pheras but groom fills bride's mang..its considered they are married...yes arnav and khushi are married...wo kya haina arnav is an raizada and an mallik..they believe in rituals so much that they gave red signal to arnav and khushi's legal marriage aarnav was speaking pratically..they did have register their marriage he did fill her maan the are married but the rasam's are incomplete..perhaps being an hindu di..if old people stresses and believe in rituals its better to have them as each rasam as its own significance..and the couple would be blessed by god as well...but pratically speaking they are married legally..

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...Doctor...

@...Doctor...

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Posted: 12 years ago

No it is not an illegal relationship. If a guy puts sindoor & ties a mangalsutra then they are considered legally married. In fact when people go for a court marriage in India pheras & other rituals are not performed only sindoor & mangalsutra ones are done. So its legal. It is just that Raizadas believe in rituals & thus they want them to complete it. Also pheras & all the other rasms are a major part of Indian wedding so they insisted them to do everything properly!

Hope this helped :)

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Sniktha

@tulip21

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Hey let me try to help me in this...
As per he indian law any marriage is considered to be complete only when all the rituals are done as per their religion... that is what ever type of marriage thy do they have to follow all he rituals as per their religion then only the marriage is complete... a legal marriage is soething which u go to register the marriage ... wihout any rituals and registering as husbad nd wife...
So if a marriage happened acc to any religious way it has to done with all he rituals then only its complete... now a days ppl register their marriage after the ceremony by he time thy will get a consent letter from the pandit saying that they completed all the rituals and the letter will be ubmitted as a proof andmarriage will be registered ...
Im a hindu and from south india...we follow diff rituals and after my marriage th pandit gave a letter and then we went and registered he marriage...so only it becomes legal...
As of he hindi filims and drama the rituals change acc tothe writers wish...
On coming to arnav and khushi...they are married but not in complete way as khushi said...but if arnav has registered their marriage legally then they are married for sure...
But in india till now i have seen so mny ppl who are elder giing so much imp tothe rituals to consider a man and women as married...so the drama is using the thought...

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 12 years ago

So why the stupid Dadi said that they do not have the right to live in the same house?

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archanak

@archanak

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife
So why the stupid Dadi said that they do not have the right to live in the same house?

Pheras are important as those are are the 7 promises that husband and wife make to each other which forms the basis of marriage. But nonetheless sindoor and mangalsutra are the most important.

P.S: Daadi is mad so I don't pay any attention to her😉 She just makes me more and more angry.