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amyIPKKND

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

yaar i think cvs ko re marriage a bahan chahyay tha and they just used phera rubbish

Edited by amyIPKKND - 13 years ago

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Aisha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

CVs have did a bad job by introducing this angle.A black stigma is put on AShi's relationship.They are being considered as a couple having illicit relationship.For a remarriage it was not necessary to show that their marriage is null.Re marriage should have taken place to fulfill Khushi's dreams.

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livelytanu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

well no marriage, eithr temple wedding or propr wedding is legalised unless marriage is registerd under law. Dats what I know. Live in relationshp is now legalised in India. I hope dat helps, its cnfusing.

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aadhirai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

its legal only
its just because dadi being so orthodox wants them to complete all the rasams

but most of people around me consider this as legal marriage only

so what lets enjoy the colorful remarriage

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k_k_a

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

I guess it's in the way we look at it.

If you see their perceptions:
Arnav's -
They are married. Come on, it's legal!

Khushi's -
They are half married, due to her belief in the Hindu system. It still needs something more to be completed, before she goes with him anywhere he takes her. Because, he's the only man for her.

Nani/Dadi/Di/Hindu Society -
They are not married by Vedic customs, hence their marriage is NOT recognized as there was no Pandit/Priest to marry them.

Love's -
Any man and woman who are one at heart, no matter how physically they are - live in/marital relation/long distance etc. - they ARE married. As long as they are true to their LOVE.

God's -
I don't think God is really bothered about whether there was a Pandit or a Society or whether it was done by Hindu way or Islam way or Christian way or any other religious way. All God is bothered about is whether it was done in His presence. And since God is present everywhere, He will acknowledge this marriage.

My way -
Khushi and Arnav are married, whether it was with mangalsutra or a ring or signature in a legal document. They are married whether it was consummated or not, because in their hearts they want to be together.

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k_k_a

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Oh, and by the way, I am a very very very traditional Hindu (that is, I practice this way of living in my daily life, much like the Raizadas 😉 ), but I firmly believe religion has nothing to do with God or Love. And that neither God, nor Love (which is only another name for the infinite God), can be really bound by society or religion or law.

In Arnav-and-Khushi's case also,
Can you really separate people who are one at heart by any of the above reasons? Nope, these are only to satisfy people, family, society, law of the country, etc...

Example from ancient Hindu scriptures, Radha and Krishna were not married, nor did they have any kind of physical relationship, but they were both one at heart. This was something unique as Krishna was married to many wives, but none can claim to hold the position in his heart that Radha and other Gopis (milkmaids) held. Radha and Krishna symbolize eternal love that is not tainted by anything impure!! Including lust... 😳😉😛

Edited by khushi_ka_arnav - 13 years ago

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Aisha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

But as Khushi was saying that their marriage is incomplete.How can a marriage be incomplete.Either it is complete or it is not even a marriage.

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k_k_a

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife
But as Khushi was saying that their marriage is incomplete.How can a marriage be incomplete.Either it is complete or it is not even a marriage.

Ok... tricky! 😛 How do I put this? Errr...

Modern society and law is satisfied by just registration. Many people marry without any religious ceremony, just by signing on papers. So, in the eyes of the law Arnav n Khushi ARE married, so it's not illegal at all.

It's more like these two people are married in secret, but the age-old traditional society doesn't recognize as it didn't have a witness in the form of a priest, nor were the rituals completed.
Only mangalsutra and sindoor (two aspects of the very long & elaborate Hindu marriage system) were involved. Khushi gives importance to these as she was brought up in that way, but Arnav gives value only to the legal aspect and now, his heart. ❤️

So you see why Khushi is confused. She wants it to be okay even from the traditional aspect and social recognition as Arnav's wife. It's like a thorn in her heart that she loves him so much but is not able to push that nagging thing away that they were not married like her sister was - with the society's acceptance.

It's like they exchanged rings but did not say "I do".

But, Khushi and Arnav's relationship is definitely not like what Dadi says. It's not a life of an immoral woman... Dadi, come on! 😡 grrr... Arnav married her, by some half-way method known only to him 😉... it's not a live-in thing or illegal one!

Many tribes all over the world follow their own ways of marriage. I've heard of this very very simple one where if the girl shakes the guy's hand over fire, they are married, and can just go ahead n you know consummate... 😉 In another one (I think it's a gypsy tradition), you just need to kidnap the woman and declare that she's yours so that nobody else ever thinks of sniffing near her! I find these so romantic... 😳☺️😳

Dadi and Nani, and even Khushi to some extent, will never be able to accept these as marriages, if they ever knew about it...

Reference to another post:
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/62125632

Edited by khushi_ka_arnav - 13 years ago

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namshish

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

I it illegal govt recognises either court marriage or acc to Hindu marriage act a proper wedding with all the rituals ... So it is illigal

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Jayshree

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

I think it is a legal marriage because Arnav used the words legally wedded wife a couple of episodes back. When he brought La to stay @ RM they used the words live in to describe that relationship. Lavanya wasnt known & neither did Arnav acknowledge her as Mrs Lavanya Singh Raizada. Yesterday when Dadi questioned the relationship Arnav mentioned that Khushi is Mrs Khushi Kumari Gupta Singh Raizada. The only way he can make this claim is if he legally registered the marriage.

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