Khushi:The Weakest IPK Character- A Debate - Page 6

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Posted: 13 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Rockerchic



aap bhi na MEji😳

Her weakness is Arnav. for me that makes her so much more beautiful as a character. But the way they are showcasing it, it borderlines definitely on more paagal and less on cute.

ASR and Khuhsi are wonderfully flawed character, that's what made them so appealing. But now they are going over the top withboth the character. Making him say whatever the hell he wants and making her accept everything and anything chucked in her direction.



You're only a strong person if you can understand your weakness and make it your strength.

ASR has 2, Di and Khushi, and I want him to make Khushi his strength.

Khushi's weakness is her unadulterated and undying love for practically everyone but the one person she can turn the world upside down for is Arnav.

Khushi and Arnav are people left to fend for themselves from the day their parents died, now that these two have rightfully found each other, there needs to be a growth not a bloody character assassination.

Where is the woman and where is the man?

Sorry I brought ASR in but only because they both co-exist..

The Halwaii and the Diabetic the Yin-yang, you get the drift..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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At risk of repeating myself time and time again, strongly, vigorously, most emphatically agree.

From a kind hearted, loving and sacrificing but essentially self respecting, principled, fiery, independent, self assured and no nonsense girl, she is reduced to a nonsensical, ridiculous, and imprudent woman who seems to have least regard for herself. The reason for her existence seems to be to constantly please others at the cost to her own dignity and to silently suffer their innumerable atrocities without so much as a grimace.

She used to be a brilliant many splendoured bloom, now she is like a bunch of plastic flowers! A trophy lead! Talk of systematic annihilation of a character!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drwho

At risk of repeating myself time and time again, strongly, vigorously, most emphatically agree.


From a kind hearted, loving and sacrificing but essentially self respecting, principled, fiery, independent, self assured and no nonsense girl, she is reduced to a nonsensical, ridiculous, and imprudent woman who seems to have least regard for herself. The reason for her existence seems to be to constantly please others at the cost to her own dignity and to silently suffer their innumerable atrocities without so much as a grimace.

She used to be a brilliant many splendoured bloom, now she is like a bunch of plastic flowers! A trophy lead! Talk of systematic annihilation of a character!



Hi babyyy! It's been so long since we spoke I read some of your replies elsewhere and I was dropping my Jaw..

My thought process was to see Khushi bloom from a girl to a woman not a show piece... pata nahi kya chalta hai!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: MentalExotica


Hi babyyy! It's been so long since we spoke I read some of your replies elsewhere and I was dropping my Jaw..

My thought process was to see Khushi bloom from a girl to a woman not a show piece... pata nahi kya chalta hai!


Spellbound? or Shell Shocked?😆

I get angry at this helpless Khushi who wants to solve every one else's problems apart from her own and is allowing herself to be walked upon by all and sundry!

She is not blooming at all, if anything, she is withering away to dust in front of our eyes! I want her to realise, if you don't stand up for yourself, no one else will! Firstly I want her to say to Arnav, you oaf, what do you mean Suhaag raat? Didn't you tell me our marriage was only valid for 6 months?

She was able to fight Lavanya's battle for her, why not her own? Even accounting for the fact that she does love the oaf, I dont find her attitude and behaviour palatable.

Anyway, I need to go, got a pile of dictations to do!

Catch you later, happy debating. Ciao.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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my second reply to the same topic !!!!!!
anyways, why strong and self relient khushi is potrayed so docile ?? well, love does these things to some people. As some one already said khushi is over the edge in love with her arnav. So much so that she prefers to forget his shortcomings, his prior brutal attacks on her character/status etc., yes love makes one put their own self interests in the second slot. She is in love, gals.
Dont attack me and blast me for comparing our beautiful arshi to crime, but I was thinking long long back why some wives support their criminal husbands. Ex., their was a case one dgp (not taking names) molested a young girl and his wife who is a lawyer (so convenient for him) supported and fought the case for him !!!! This made me wonder at that time, what bullshit !! the guy is bad, the lady is worse !! But now I am thinking maybe love is indeed blind !! It makes people behave differently as opposed to the normal behaviour !
We can only imagine that eventually (atleast in our dreams) as arnav and khushi live together in a happily married life, arnav will talk with khushi about all their past tu-tu-mai-mai and they both will have a heart heart conversation with tears, apologies and all other emotional effects.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

Yesterday i had this wonderful debate with @Rima on what's redemption and the difference between Redemption and guilt and some other very interesting things. You guys should check out her thread. Its awesome.

Anyway the reason i brought up that thread was because after having a wondeful debate and reading some very nice responses i realised how weak the characterization of Khushi has been.

She was a happy go lucky girl with a will to live to her fullest. She was the girl who made jelabis when things were at their very worst. She was the girl who stood up for what she thought was right. That was the girl i LOVED and related to.

Now we have a fool of a girl who gets treated like a scrap of meat. No fighting spirit and no self respect. What the hell kind of lead is that?

The TRPs didnt go down because the leads lost chemistry nor did it go down because Barun left for his movie. It went down because the CV made a mockery of the female lead.

I want the heart and soul of IPK back. I want Khushi Kumari Gupta.

I want the girl who said Baad mai gaye aap or baad mai gaye aapki naukri.

I want the girl who seldom cried and made me live life a little better.

I dont want this Mother teresa clone without a spine.

Harsh words? Words you strongly disagree with? Leave your thoughts below and lets debate.




Question: Who exactly do you want Kushi to fight right now? She definitely will not and cannot talk back to Dadi...Does she need to fight with arnav now when we see that both are clearly in love and expressing it? She did stand up to him before he forced her back to RM na... Don't bash me please but I dont think Kushi can do anything about Dadi degrading her...and even if she were the old Kushi I don't think she'd talk back to Dadi...
I'm unhappy because I think she should've put up a better fight with ASR...it didnt make sense to forget all about the contract and be swept away by ASR because of a few sweetmeats he gave her... I think they could have taken a little more time to come to this realization of love. As in, they could have given us a longer and more realistic ruthana-manana track...then it would have made sense to get here...Its like all of a sudden she's forgotten all about the contract and her previous stand...

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