Khushi:The Weakest IPK Character- A Debate

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yesterday i had this wonderful debate with @Rima on what's redemption and the difference between Redemption and guilt and some other very interesting things. You guys should check out her thread. Its awesome.

Anyway the reason i brought up that thread was because after having a wondeful debate and reading some very nice responses i realised how weak the characterization of Khushi has been.

She was a happy go lucky girl with a will to live to her fullest. She was the girl who made jelabis when things were at their very worst. She was the girl who stood up for what she thought was right. That was the girl i LOVED and related to.

Now we have a fool of a girl who gets treated like a scrap of meat. No fighting spirit and no self respect. What the hell kind of lead is that?

The TRPs didnt go down because the leads lost chemistry nor did it go down because Barun left for his movie. It went down because the CV made a mockery of the female lead.

I want the heart and soul of IPK back. I want Khushi Kumari Gupta.

I want the girl who said Baad mai gaye aap or baad mai gaye aapki naukri.

I want the girl who seldom cried and made me live life a little better.

I dont want this Mother teresa clone without a spine.

Harsh words? Words you strongly disagree with? Leave your thoughts below and lets debate.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you to a large extent
The trps were much better then right now during the MU & even kidnapping track but now sigh
i fell in love the khushi's character in the beginning as it was a balance of rough, tough & care etc
i think for the story of ASR & Anjali to sell they have twisted Khushi for their convenience - but the audience turned out to be intelligent & the trps went down

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I could not agree more! Khushi was such a STRONG person in the start of the show,and even up to the time of the kidnapping!

Right from get go, we see her giving ASR as good as she got! She didnt sit around being abused by different people! Even after the forced marriage, she CONFRONTED him and asked him for an explanation! Yes she married him to save Payal's wedding from being called off! However, she STILL asked him to give her an explanation! THEN she decided to get her OWN back and start to irritate him till he would chuck her out of the house! THEN she found out about the truth behind the marriage and the kidnapping happened etc!
THIS was the girl who FOOLED Shyam into thinking she was coperating with him! WHERE is that girl NOW? I dont buy the whole "She is in LOVE now" theory! Just because you fall in love, it doesent mean you just automatically become a "Doortmat"!! YES we are all fools in love! (We can see that Anjali IS)!!
But Khushi just being the "Scapegoat" that gets it all heaped on her, is becoming TIRESOME for the audience to watch! What was refreshing about Khushi was that she was NOT like your typical SP "Bahu"!! She was not some "sacrificing do-gooder" without ANY rhym or reason! Existing to take other people's crap! NOW she has been relegated to this "Abala Nari" status... JUST so they can show us the "Anjali-Arnav" "Didi Ki Sautan" storyline!
They could STILL have found a way of doing this, WITHOUT butchering Khushi's charachter! But they didnt know HOW! So they decided to make Anjali "Blind" and fall for Snake again! BUT to facilitate that it was important for MORE MU's of Khushi by the family, and the entrance of DADI!! IF Anjali knew the WHOLE truth as well as the REST of the Raizada's... THEN there would have been no chance of SNAKE doing a number on this DADI HAG!
CV's have totally SCREWED up the storyline to "Inject" this DIDI drama, and in the meantime BUTCHERED Khushi's charchater down to a "Caricature" of her old self! No wonder the TRP is SO low, despite the romance etc!
People want to see Romance AFTER vindication of Khushi! WHEN Khushi gets the RESPECT she DESERVES! NOT while SNAKE not even being there is STILL running the show! There is a LIMIT! We have REACHED that now!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harshitha

I agree with you to a large extent

The trps were much better then right now during the MU & evenkidnappingtrack but now sigh
i fell in love the khushi's character in thebeginningas it was a balance of rough, tough & care etc
i think for the story of ASR & Anjali to sell they have twisted Khushi for theirconvenience - but the audience turned out to be intelligent & the trps went down



These days i cant even feel sorry for her. Because i bearly relate to her Lets play God attitude.

I dont mind focus on Arnav. I love Arnav and Khushi. But why ruin Khushi's character for that?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You got it right...
Now she is the weakest IPK character..
Let me add a bit more from another view...

If you see some other show's leads... They portrait the female lead more stronger with dignity and at least with some consistency in the character..

What we have? When khushi char came she was full of life with her strong personality, her morals, fighting spirits along with other nice features...

But after marriage CVs intentionally ruined this character/role .. feeling pity for sanaya a lot..
That is the only reason Sanaya is not being even nominated for the main lead category any more.. Its the reality.. CVs made the strongest character of IPK the weakest one...
If you just went through all the characters of IPK she has the most inconsistent role to play..

As she already mentioned somewhere for khushi they dont even need to think as she can do anything

No this is not the way A lead character supposed to be...
They have ruined it.. I dont know whether they can again put it all together back or not..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post and exactly my thought. KKG is the backbone of IPK and the CVs ruined her character completely. I started watching this soap for Khushi ONLY because I had the impression( from the promos ofcourse) that this story is about this free spirited, righteous,brave girl and the man of her dream. Later the CVs decided to turn this beautiful M & B story into DKS and butchered Khushis character.
I agree this is the reason for TRP drop. It's difficult to watch her constantly getting humiliated, used, abused by people around her. It's gets annoying after some time. Yeah of course she loves Arnav but not to forget she has tremendous self respect( well she did have it till feb this year)and she cannot/should not accept injustice towards her. Enough of other people hating her and making her suffer. It's high time for Khushi to initiate hatred from her side. It's high time for her to be happy, cherished and loved by her loved ones for a change. Not because she needs it but she deserves it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I completely agree with you, She's not the same anymore I blame all of this on LM leave to tell you the truth the show has lost it's charm ever since the Holli episode. Even ASR character is ruined. The only person that is true to there character is Shyam.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes...as of now it is...She always told these small lies, and always tried to play God. She always felt that she knew best for everyone...but we were ok with it...but now its getting on my nerves...she is still lying and still feeling that she knows best for everyone...but something is missing...People say why doesnt she stand up to dadi etc...but she has never stood up to elders...she always obeys them...the only person she fought with and stood up to was ASR...so she continues to listen to whatever anyone says, and then feels bad and cries...
Now that ASR is being nice to her, she cant stand up to him either...so the character is lost.
Something has to be done ...and fast!!!!
The other plus aout her was her sunny disposition and constant smile...so I guess if they bring that back it will work...but I guess with the TRP Daadi...it will be a lot of tears 😭
But RC...all ur topics...are potential closed posts 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well! I feel the apposite of what you stated.
Skipping hindi parts agree with your post to some extend not fully.
I don't agree with you on Khushi the weakest character. Well, I believe Anjali was and is the weakest of them all. Khushi is nothing close to being weakest she is the strongest of them all sometimes even stronger than ASR!



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Posted: 13 years ago
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for God's sake peole... it was a hate track back then and we have a love track right now...

Tell me something, do u see ASR glaring at her everytime they meet ?????????? nahi na... coz ASR has become Arnav now...

Why do u guys argue for the same sern and fighter spirit wali khushi we had back then... true we all loved her wen she challenged ASR and gave him d taste of his own medicine... but that was a year back, we had the hate track going back then... but now its all about love, a love they have both acknowledged.

Also talking about khushi's weakness in the recent times... do u remember her shouting at anyone but Arnav and Shyam, its like since the very begining she is shown to be very accomodative of everyone, remember wen earlier buaji or mami or La treated her badly... she would simply smile at it or ignore it completely... it was just ASR who got on her nerves and that ASR for now is history (though I have a feeling he'll return soon)... so do u really expect her to lash out on dadi now, so if u think she is weak then she has been so althrough.

Further Khushi's past has been kept as a secret in the show untill now, it seems like its our cv's trump card and they'd show it wen the right time comes... and then we'll get a fiery or a regretful khushi, depending on the revelation...

Yes they are highly flawed characters I agree...but then its becoz of these flaws that the show is still on air...once the friction is lost, game over and personally i don't want it to be now...u know beautiful stories are not made in utopias, in fact Plato wouldn't even allow artists in his version of utopia...

Just stating my opinion...

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