well not just movies i must say also dramas nowadays are trying to make imp issues very minor (pointers in the direction of ekta serials ofcourse)
basically the main thingim talking abt is sleeping with ur lover b4 marriage...marriage is a VERY sacred and holy ritual in our asian culture..its seen as a life time commitment..where a wife and a husband truly becum each other's..and sleeping with sum guy before marriage shown a MILLION ZILLION times in ekta serials is not as forgivable or "its-ok!!" type as ekta shows..her shows make it luk as is its sum mistake its ok every1 angry at beginning but later on every1's happy again no regret no nuthing...thats not how our desi culture is..and its not at all ok to do such a thing..but the way she shows these sitatuations it makes them luk like ok it happens not a sin..:S
also the way marriages are seen as a kid's game in dramas nowadays...kabhi duhsmani ke liye shaadi to kabhi dosti ke liye kabhi sacrifice ke tor pe kabhi samjhota..a girl (kripa/kashish..many others) marrying three or more times as if its its not marriage but just turning pages of a book..in real life in OUR culture marrying twice or thrice or more times is not as much appropriate or acceptable (un rare circumstances it may be) but marriage is seen as a life time commitment...it may not end up to be such sumtimes but however still its not appropriate at all for ekta to show marriage as a game ke ek larki shaadi kar rahi hai har baar naye bande se for a heck of diff reasons..there are other things that can be dun for finding out sum1's killer than marrying sum guy (hint: KASHISH-ALUWALIA) ....
so basically this is not our culture these things are not seen as common and everyday situations..but indramas they sound as well they're sumthing u wud experience every other day: sleeping before marriage..one shaadi..talaak..doosri shaadi for dushmani..falling inluv..leaving the house..teesri shaadi for samjhota..leaving the guy cuz ur sis likes him..chauthi for finding out ur sis killer..and all thsoe diff reasons8-)
nyways thats wht i think dunno wht u guys wud think of my reasons 😳
Edited by twinklystar_hp - 19 years ago
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