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Sorry for the late update, my pc wasn't working so I wasn't able to update. But it surely was a khamaal ka episode.
Aditya As much as we all thought Adi was rude on Friday, I think he changed my perspective for sure today. I am glad that he atleast for now accepts the idea of marriage. He wants to give it a try, but he just doesn't want anything to go wrong in his marriage like it did in his parent's marriage.
Pankhuri
I am happy to know that Pankhuri isn't one of those girls who will stay mum and let anyone take her decisions for her. She will speak up when needed and only say what is necessary. She saw an angle of Aditya that we failed to see.
Harish
He may have failed as a husband, but he surely hasn't failed as a father. He gives his son the right advice at the right time. He doesn't provoke Adi against Avantika like other people do to people they dislike.
Avantika
She knows that Harish is a good human being, but either it is her ego or something else that doesn't let her accept it. I am really excited to see more on this character.
Dadaji
This is the most sensible character in the show. He only speaks up at the right time and he only says minimal things. But whatever he says is so impactful that he doesn't need say more. He is after all experienced and he understands others feelings.
Episode Analysis
Harish realized his mistake and realized how a small thing that he says impacts Adi. Harish is not the kind of person that will blame other people or plant hatred in someone's heart. He knows and understands that if his marriage with Avantika didn't work out it wasn't just Avantika's fault. I don't think that they walked out of their relationship because of their egos or attitudes, but because they didn't want to suffer or make each other suffer in the name of marriage. Mostly they realized that their unhealthy marriage was impacting Adi, they were sensible in walking out of the relationship, but they didn't act maturely afterwards.
The reason why I say Dadaji is the most sensible is because no one else in the Gupta family felt the need to ask Pankhuri what she wants. They didn't discuss anything with her, just told her their decision. But Dadaji knew what Pankhuri felt and talked to her about it. I love the relationship between Dadaji and Pankhuri. They are like best friends, Pankhuri was not at all hesitant to tell Dadaji what she felt about Adi, and that is a very nice thing. But I am glad that the family was able to understand Dadaji and Pankhuri's point of view. What they said about Adi was true and I never really thought about it that way. Adi doesn't want their marriage to be unsuccessful, so he is making all efforts to make it a happy marriage. What he doesn't realize is that marriage is not like a business deal that will be made happy and successful by discussing all points, but by love, understanding and respect.
I am disappointed that Adi and his mom didn't even wait for the Guptas' response before finalizing more meetings with other girls. It is an arranged marriage, the girl is from a small town, so the family will notify you not the girl. Buddhu, yaar kuch toh samjho, now I know why Harish was saying that no one consults him for decisions.
I knew that Govardhan drama was coming, but luckily he isn't imposing his decision on Pankhuri, and is understanding the fact that she likes Aditya. Probably tomorrow there will be more drama from his side, because of the additional ladki dekhna business.
Precap: I hope Pankhuri speaks up tomorrow and their rishta is finalized. I wonder how there meeting will take place tomorrow. Let's wait and find out. Will be back with my analysis tomorrow.
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