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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

@Shubba: I accept certain points I said could be more ideal than the case of real life. But one thing I learn is one way to fix these points in mind and being able to practice is write these points whenever I get the chance.

May be the 'selfish' tag I put to Thulasi is judging her with a too harsh word, indicating how I may be judging myself. Still I have question:

Whatever exercise T is doing on Bhuvana, is it going to set right all the problems, she had faced because of what her odukaali mom did? How is Bhuvana realizing all the problems, she had created on Thulasi by what she did during her childhood days, fix the damaged childhood of Thulasi? Again whatever exercise TPS and her mom do, will it going to fix the damages TPS and Akhil incurred - That is TPS who lived without the support of her husband and akhil who lived without the support of a dad. Whatever is done on Bhuvana and laxman is not going to change anything Thulasi, TPS or Akhil faced. Why then go on this mission? There are many kids who live with parents who abuse them physically and mentally. Will their damaged childhood be set alright when they take revenge on their parents when they become adults?

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: maha2us
@Shubba: I accept certain points I said could be more ideal than the case of real life. But one thing I learn is one way to fix these points in mind and being able to practice is write these points whenever I get the chance.

May be the 'selfish' tag I put to Thulasi is judging her with a too harsh word, indicating how I may be judging myself. Still I have question:

Whatever exercise T is doing on Bhuvana, is it going to set right all the problems, she had faced because of what her odukaali mom did? How is Bhuvana realizing all the problems, she had created on Thulasi by what she did during her childhood days, fix the damaged childhood of Thulasi? Again whatever exercise TPS and her mom do, will it going to fix the damages TPS and Akhil incurred - That is TPS who lived without the support of her husband and akhil who lived without the support of a dad. Whatever is done on Bhuvana and laxman is not going to change anything Thulasi, TPS or Akhil faced. Why then go on this mission? There are many kids who live with parents who abuse them physically and mentally. Will their damaged childhood be set alright when they take revenge on their parents when they become adults?

You got it right here...but the word is what is wrong.(revenge!!)

T/TPS definetely knows they cannot get anything by taking revenge. But both wants to make sure that Lak/Bhu REALISE (not revenge) what they have done and how their life along with their son/dad had turned to be miserable. Lakshman has started to realise how his acts have made TPS/Akshil life miserable. But Bhu has not yet realised and now again she is spoiling Prabha's life too now w/o understanding his own ideas/wishes. Once she realises hopefully T shd not even go by her side. The tag highlighted in red is carried by T more than Bhu who is solely responsible for the same and still doesnt understand her mistakes. GW and many still calls T with such a tag using her mom's name. If T has to get rid of this name, Bhu has to accept that it was 100% her mistake only and that is the best medicine for T for the miseries she has encourted right from her childhood. This is just a medication for her /hurt she got right from her childhood but not that she wants to hurt/harm Bhu.

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JAYASHREE

@vjayam

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: maha2us

. But Thulasi could definitely have accepted when TA said Kalyani has to be given back the loan and not insist him to give money to GW.

P{lease understand that when kalyani gave the loan to T, she never expected it soon. At that time , given the circumstances, Kalyani gave the loan fully understanding that T can pay back only at a much later date and at the first opportunity after TT got back, T has already bought out Kal's issue to TA and even recently TA spoke abt the loan he has applied to repay kalyani...so as far as that is concerned, Kal is def going to be paid back...

even when kal's loan matter was told, you may remember that T also spoke to TA about giving money to gw to look after her and lav's needs...

now with gw demanding 10 K, after incidents of going to PS with the complaint and later going to bank and insulting her sons two times, i think paying her shud be the first criterial..and also the matter of 10K to gw came only after getting the bonus amount of 25K. or else TT wud hv paid gw whatever is possible and the loan to kal is anyway being arranged thru the bank , irrespective of this..

so there is no question of any discrepancy in this issue anywhere...

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

@Shubba: I accept myself using the word 'revenge' is wrong. You are right, when you say T/TPS want Bhu/Lax to realize the sufferings both of them endured along with their son/dad. Also it is true T will forgive Bhuvana also once she accepts her mistakes. As she has forgiven MM already once MM is changed. I still sometimes ask how T/TPS is benefitted by making Bhu realize what she did. But then that question could be asked only to ideal person. T has really suffered a lot because of her odukaali mom and many persons pointed fingers on her.

@Jayashree: Was TA saying he is arranging the loan for Kalyani through the bank? May be I missed this point. Still I would have liked to see somehow T and T not paying anything to GW till GW accepts her mistakes.

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JAYASHREE

@vjayam

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: maha2us

@Jayashree: Was TA saying he is arranging the loan for Kalyani through the bank? May be I missed this point. Still I would have liked to see somehow T and T not paying anything to GW till GW accepts her mistakes.

the attribute u are talking is sudha's. she has already told that she is not ready to pay even a paisa to gw but gw managed to get it in an underhand way...TT's way is more straightforward...

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Esther John

@thendralfan007

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Thanks for the lovely update TTFan👏.

Kanagu, Nit and GP are all stars of today's episode.

I have a feeling that the reason the director is showing Deepa accompanying T to TPS ... is for her to have the experience of how the situation will be like if she were to stay permanently as Bhu's marumagal ... which I hope not ... because the more I see Kanagu vouching his love for Deepa ... the more I like them as a pair ...😍

I have a feeling that though Lax will propose Prabha for Deeps ... Prabha will turn down Deepa as his life partner if he comes to know of her love for Kanagu... and maybe a reformed CP will marry Prabha ... we have to wait and watch ... sighhh😕

Nice to see GP after a long time ... the scene with Lav and GW is now slowly progressing towards their doomsday...

Nice appu for GW!!! losing her bangles and lakhs of money ... ha ha ha😊😃😆 🤣

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Esther John

@thendralfan007

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by vjayam

well kal has transformed mohan, deepa has worked wonders with kanagu, shyamala has turned around anand, nitish in the way of bringing round lav (this one is taking more time...) ...

Originally posted by: maha2us
...what is the case of the lead couple? Can Thulasi change TA to become a more matured person?

Like Maha, I too would like to know:

What are the ways in which T has been successful in transforming or improving TA's character and fortunes is what I would like to really know ????!!!!😲😍

Edited by thendralfan007 - 13 years ago

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Thanks for the update Hema. Nice epi. Good to see GP. Good to see he is also in this scheme with Nit. Appavum pillayum asatthindanga. Gw and co losing 10 lacs, now 10 thousand. Gw is going to be with out bangles, next chain, mookutti and then thodu. Complete mooli. Then Nit will get at Lavanya. Dir should increase the pace of this instead of dragging with too much dialogues.

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Lol! Esther , looks like T is getting transformed to a TA. With her screwed up esoteric

Logic.

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JAYASHREE

@vjayam

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: thendralfan007
Originally posted by vjayam

What are the ways in which T has been successful in transforming or improving TA's character and fortunes is what I would like to really know ????!!!!😲😍

Esther dont you see this is the beauty...

TT have just accepted each other the way they are..their core beings got them together and although their behavior now and then may deviate, they manage to gravitate towards their intrinsic goodness...

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