Thendral Wed Update: 13/06/12 - Page 2

Thanks for the update.

Originally posted by: viswai123

Yep all women folks are being really successful... When it comes to men fixing their better half Nitish is struggling, MM and Lax gave up and one man knew he cannot achieve that in his life time and left the world for good...

Originally posted by: viswai123

Also I am wondering does Deepa know Bhuvana is T's mom. For no reason they all of a sudden showed Anand and Shyamala knew that Bhu is T's mom. If D knows how abt her family. What will be D's mom's reaction when she knows T's mom is Bhu.

I am more eager to see GW /Lav/Lax/Prabha's reaction when they come to know abt T and Bhu relationship.

Originally posted by: vjayam

i dont think anand n shy also know abt T's mom...think anand threatened bhu for breaking a girl's hand and not her daughter's...

except TT, MM n sundari, tps's mom, doubt if anyone else knows yet...waiting for gw, lav and deepa's mom's reaction on knowing...

Originally posted by: maha2us

This is based on yesterday's discussion on Thulasi being selfish or not. The definition, as I could make out for selfishness is , 'Making others do the work for me.' Only children have right to expect parents take care of them and do things for them. I am more upset with Thulasi because she has forced TPS and her mom go to live in Bhuvana's home for her revenge than the Kalyani matter. Going for revenge is like having a double-edged sword in hand which points to both sides. Afterall, how is Thulasi helped in taking revenge?

Yeah nice definition for selfish, all ofc need to learn this, not just learn but need to fix it in mind and need to follow it too...Now-a-days people just read these quotes/definition from some books or from internet sites and just use it just to earn a good name but just follow things right opposite which is a very ugly act. Hope people follow what they preach!!...These definitions shd fine tune people mind and shd make them correct their mistakes atleast after reading it...it shd not be just preaching but following too...U have given a very good definition here...👏

Nice points about revenge too...👍🏼...Revenge happens everywhere, even between blood relations, friends, even to people whom they have not met. THis is really worry some. Again people shd practice but not just stop with preaching!!...Sadly many just take revenge just bcos of their incapability towards something or bcos of jealously and scheming towards others but when they are pointed out, they just dont realise their mistake but turn towards taking revenge. This point is too good too Maha...👏

She is better off showing to the World by studying and becoming a successful engineer and show that she is a woman of substance.

She does go to college and yday episode proved it too...but she is just not a student, but a wife too and got her own responsibilities. When Deepa can help in Ts difficult situation, why not T for TPS? She is not doing it beyond her limit or forgetting her education, she well handles them according to her capability. If at all, thses things mess up her education its absolutely wrong but as far as both doesnt clash, its alright.

And for her useless necessity, she has invloved TPS and her mom. This makes her fully selfish.

Fully Selfish??? Did T send TPS/TPS mom thinking she would get a share of money from Bhu thinking its her mom? She just wanted to make sure Bhu learns her lessons. She is just giving back what Bhu gave to TPS. Bhu stole TPS life and messed up her life and her acts made T without anyone around her. She is just trying to make Bhu get the same piece of treatment by doing this, on how TPS would have sufered when she took over Lakshman and how T suffered w/o anyones support. How can this called be revenge/selfish? Its just giving the taste of her own medicine. People like Bhu/Lakshman shd know their mistake and how much their activies have messed up other's life. If we can enjoy Nitish giving back to GW/Lav to correct them in his own way, why not T/TPS towards Bhuvana?

For TPS also, she would have served better if she just went to another job, do her best and show that she too is a woman of substance and she could do things without the help of a man. How is it going to help her to quarrel with Bhuvana? Taking revenge helps nobody. She could also have left Bhuvana and Laxman at peace.

Its only TPS mom who is quarrelling with Bhu and not TPS...TPS is just a silent observer and takes ownership of her right for which is absolutely having full rights!!...If TPS/TPS mom /T is aginst Prabha too for what B/L did its called revenge. But this is just fighting for their own rights and taking ownership of things which they were denied just bcos of two selfish people.(B/L). Do u really mean B/L shd be in peace for what the did? Are u saying Bhuvana who still wants to take revenge against T, even after knowing its her own flesh blodd shd be left in peace? 😕

Through all this, we see VR giving sound advice to Deepa. He is consistently mentoring her to study well and show herself to be a woman of substance. VR has told Deepa also not to go for any quarrel. As for Kalyani's loan, TA has to take charge because at this time Thulasi can be discounted from taking financial responsibility atleast at present. Even though Thulasi is selfish here also. But Thulasi could definitely have accepted when TA said Kalyani has to be given back the loan and not insist him to give money to GW.

T did not ask TA to pay for her benefits or for her own family, but for TA's mom whom she thinks is much much better than her own mom. It is TA who has to put T is a comfortable situation and comfort her more by atleast getting a bank loan for her education, so that she does not depend on someone always for her education!!...It is actually not wrong in T's part to ask TA to give GW money but at the same time postponing the money to be paid to Kalyani. She shd have atleast made TA pay part of the money is the point here. She shd have explained well about Kalyani's situation which was actually lacking in the scene which let T down, its not that T is selfish here is my point here. A selfish person wantedly skips what they can actually but doesnt do bcos of the grudge towards someone. T doesnt think that way towards Kalyani is the point here. Also T is shown as a person who thinks good for a person even when she was put into problem by the opp end once they repent for their mistakes(MM) or thinking their once upon good deeds(lav). WRT Bhu she doesnt have any, but her anger is just to make sure she realises her mistakes.