Is Gouri rit to search job for Jogia?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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A lot of discussion is going on, if Gouri is rit in searching job for Jogia. My opinion is nothing wrong in it😆 but my confusion is only with the changing logic. The same things become rit for one person ,but wrong for another😉 when Bhairaw helped Gouri anonymously with good intention ,it hurt her SELF RESPECT, and he is being portrayed as if he has done some crime by helping her, and people even started hating him, but st the same time Gouri is being portrayed as GREAT UNDERSTANDING wife, who is very much concern with her husband welfare😉 there was also logic that as Bhairaw told BP not to tell anything abt his help to Gouri ,as it cd hurt her , so he knew it but still helped ,so he is a demon.😆, here to the ANTARYAMI MUMMY told that she sd hide it to her Kuwanr sa , as it can hurt his big male ego, so she also knew tht , her help will be taken wrongly by her TRUE LOVE😆 so how now it can be great job, when Bhairaw hep was a demon job, a sin.
There is also difference between these help , helping a husband is not a big deal, as it finally effect ur own personal and financial life. It also concern to ur own social status. But on the other hand helping a third person, without any interest and even anonymously, is something is applaudable.👏 Bhairaw hd no interest in helping Gouri. The logic tht he was buying their fault by helping her is rubbish , becoz first of all he was not participant in tht fault and secondly , even if he was doing for the same reason, thn in normal society is praisable. Realizing the mistake done and doing something to correct it and tht also without showing off ,is excellent quality and praise worthy thn always blaming others for even ur own fault.😉

On more point tht Gouri started being concern with her husband job only to stop him from going to Bangalore . Anyway I don't find any mistake if she is searching or helping Jogia to find a job. But knowing the character of both these LOSER , they take everything in negative way, they don't deserve any help. It's just wast of ur time, money and energy. Negative people always think negatively and these two r full of negativity. So they don't deserve any help and it's better to leave them on their hals😆 there is not end of their negativity. They will always find the reason to blame others and fight. Earlier it was JAGO vs Singh family, now it's between themselves . Tomorrow only the venue, reason , people will be changed but their negativity and fight will be always same, without change over. THE WORLD WILL BE CHANGED ,BUT THEY WILL BE SAME, NEGATIVE, SELFISH, LOSER AND MANIPULATIVE😆

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NoOne12 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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But Ankit honestly would men like their wives finding job for them? It could hurt the relationship? I liked your points on Bhairon, good thinking!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree ankit..but how can you forget that gauri n her mummy are considered as antaryaami bhagwans here by some people. We ourselves have done jagran for them and have a mandir where we donated chappals. So whatever they do is always right😉

If the same thing is done by common mortals like bhairav then it is considered as wrong but if it is done by Doctor mata gauri n her mom then it is correct😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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gauri is not telling him that she is the one who arranged for his interview.. which is good. But her nature will not prevent her from spilling the beans.

She is completely opposite of Anandi as in , she will not keep this a secret for very long. If she honestly wanted to help Jagya then she should stop bickering and fighting for small things. realize that her words are hurting his ego and like her mother said, male ego is HUGE.


But , she won't do any of that. She is short tempered and it won't be hard for her to tell him, in the moment of heat, that she was the one who got him the job in the first place.

anywayzzz the point is ,.. I am GLAD these two losers are sticking with each other and nothing bothering Anandi and her family. Let them live how ever they want to live and annoy how much ever crap they wanna annoy of each other. They totally deserve each other and I am glad , she puts down jagya and I HOPE jagya feels like a LOSER in front of her and gets jealous when he sees Gauri and dr. Khana together.

At the same time I hope they reconcile with each other every time they fight cause I cannot stand to see Jug head returning back to jetsar with a runny nose for his Dadi sa to clean.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

But Ankit honestly would men like their wives finding job for them? It could hurt the relationship? I liked your points on Bhairon, good thinking!

Darling i faced the same situation at my home..but my husband was NOT jobless or nikaama like jagat. But he was fed up of his boss and wanted a change. I had sent across his resume/CV to many of my friends n colleagues but my husband NEVER took it as an offense as i did this only after discussing with him and taking his permission to do so and not by hiding from him..😛


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ya rules are change according to gaury mata, al the words are diffren meaning in her dictionary soon gaury will going to releaser her own dictionary with different meaning of word self respect.🤪

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Posted: 13 years ago
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A very huge difference is there between throwing money and helping to find a job. Especially considering the circumstances. As wife Gauri is right to help Jogia as thats what husband and wife relation is all about being with each other in sukh and dukh but Bhairav brought up the girl for years on his own money after his family became the reason for the other's grief. Im not sure where you see the connection between the two😆 Both are vastly different cases. Jogia will be earning his own money through his own hard work if he does the job.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes anku!ji as usual right on target topic...
i agree with @ash..yep male has a not big but ziant size ego...and they never like the help of womens specially their wife for the jobs thing...but if we sit and talk and discuss with them the matter and all and show them undrestanding then what her husband did i am shure other huby also would do same...their ego is not about serching for job their ego goes crushing ke have so much power to work against them by not talking to them and keeping things hidden from them and then it is like aur naa janay kitne baotun mai she might be hiding things from us and more prob. and if we sit and sahre and ask them they feel like they have upper hand and they wont do anything before asking them and taking their permision and it boost their ego and they agree to us...lolzzz...so funny
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I m always in favor of discussing all the matter in family life and not keep secret knowing the nature of ur partner. That's why I told ,this loser couple don't know how to live a family life. Gouri knowing the nature of Jogia, always ignored it and never missed any chance to humiliate him. On the other hand Jogia , always behaved as immature person. And that's why I always keep myself away from the discussion ,who is rit, becoz for me, both r always wrong, if their intention is good , it's application is wrong. So there is no solution of their problem. When Jogia asked for Gouri transfer, his intention was not bad, but it's application was wrong. Same way, when Gouri is searching for his job, may be with good intention or may be just to stop him from going to Banglore, but again her action can't be rit knowing the nature of Jogia. There is big comunication gap, lack of understanding and immaturity in their personal life. And above all, these both r by nature never realize their own mistake and blame others and till the time people don't realize their mistake, they can't work on it .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: payalibm

yes anku!ji as usual right on target topic...

i agree with @ash..yep male has a not big but ziant size ego...and they never like the help of womens specially their wife for the jobs thing...but if we sit and talk and discuss with them the matter and all and show them undrestanding then what her husband did i am shure other huby also would do same...their ego is not about serching for job their ego goes crushing ke have so much power to work against them by not talking to them and keeping things hidden from them and then it is like aur naa janay kitne baotun mai she might be hiding things from us and more prob. and if we sit and sahre and ask them they feel like they have upper hand and they wont do anything before asking them and taking their permision and it boost their ego and they agree to us...lolzzz...so funny

Thanks Payal👏 and you are right too we need to pamper men to make them understand and accept our point of view..😉

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