Is Gouri rit to search job for Jogia? - Page 6

Vasu, u wd not get any reply to ur genuine question, becoz it doesn't even exist in nature. I hv asked these question so many time, tht can anyone suggest any solution, better thn Bhairaw did, even if he was not part of tht conspiracy. But the only reply I got tht, I m not concern Wht he wd hv done😆 good reply na😉 I simply can't understand, how anyone can criticize Bhairaw action, such a noble act, selflessly, without ceremony, without expecting anything in return and even after having so much grudges against Goury , never showed tht he had done any Ahsaan.👏 Wht can anyone expect better thn this from a person, whn her own parents, the main culprits r being defended on the basis of their being poor. Wht a great logic.

well bhairon singh ne bade papa se kaha tha ki bhool ke bhi sacchai gauri aur unke maata pita ke saamne mut laane di jiye ga padhai ke kharche ke baare mein nahi to gauri aur unke maata pita ko bura lagega. bhairon singh ne yeh bhi kaha ki main jaanta hoon ki samaj ke log gauri ko jeene nahi denge pur phir bhi main gauri ko aatm nirbhar banana chahta hoon. kyonki gudiya hoshiyaar hai pur bina paise ke woh padhai nahi kur paayegi .phir baad mein bhairon ne phir bade papa se request ki "yeh padhai ki kharche ki baat mut bataayegi kyonki gareeb insaan gareeb ki maar to jhel leta hai pur aatmsamman pur lagi chot ko nahi jhel paata"

waise mujhe yeh comment post karne mein mujhe jara bhi dilchaspi nahi hai majboori mein likha hai pur yeh comment unlogon ke liye hai jo gauri ki self respect ki baat karte hain ki gauri ki self respect hurt ho gayi bhairon singh ki paise ki madad ki wajah pur bhairon singh ne khud hi gauri aur gauri ki family ki self respect ki baat ki

When it comes to J and G I fail to understand what's right and wrong. These two are such unpredictable individuals and to top it big hypocrites. J due to his confused personality and G due to her selfishness. What may be wrong for some one else to do is right when it comes to them. The logic behind it is still a mystery which I fear to prod into understanding for the sake of my own sanity.

There have been many views put froth so far so I will not repeat the same. But I have a few doubts which I would hope the people wiser than me can answer. I am only asking these questions to reason the logic behind both of their actions:

1. J left A for G since he wanted a modern educated wife who could walk the walk with him and talk the talk with him. Now when he has one why does his ego hurt?

2. G as a kid wanted to study and this whole child marriage episode gave her nightmares. Why did she then chose to live this nightmare every day of her life?

3. If she blames B for being brutal to her, would she be happy living in the haveli all uneducated, as the second wife of J all her life? Would she have any kind of status then? Wouldn't that be living hell for her?

4. After getting the best education and being capable of standing own her own feet what compels her to not behave wisely? Is her upbringing the reason for her weak moral compass?

5. If it is wrong for J to find out if G can get a transfer to Bangalore, is it right for G to take an executive decision on J's behalf that he will not take up the Bangalore job but work in Mumbai it self?

6. She doesn't like anyone making decisions for her then how does she take the liberty to make decisions for J? Is always her discretion right?

7. Would it be wise to look for a job for J given his huge male ego in SNG the same hospital where she will be a senior to him given her qualifications and time served? Wouldn't this hurt his ego on a daily basis? Is this really wise?

8. These two claim to have chosen eachother as life partners as a mature decision as adults but where does their maturity and understanding go when it comes to handling their relationship.

There is no doubt in my mind that although G will be successful in bragging about her being self made and indispensable without anyone, hiding B's help to her and the numerous plotting she did in the past, She will spill the beans of getting the job at SNG for J sooner or later. It is left to see if this truth comes out in one of her episodes of anger or excitement.

This question for our forum members: Why is an action done with no ulterior motive and with only good intentions viewed under a microscope to find its flaws while inhumane actions are dressed with some justification?

i want to ask all the gauri lovers openly