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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mein forum parh rahee thi and read people saying that we dont want Indira to be strong...we want her to be miyian ki jutee, ek ablaa nari jo apne pati ke jutey ke nachi rahey

yeh galat hai

Mein ek less educated aurat hun US mein...all alone with my first husband...usmey aur Indira mein kafi common tings hain... he cared for his family...sent most of his money back home...family wale hamesha aur paisay mangtey the and he used to keep sending them money...and when I said no once, beat me hard and i ended in hospital...phir bhi I had no job and a girl...who would have supported me?

Uska gussa bharta gaya jaisey 2 aur bacchey hogey aur India walon ki bhi burden increased as they had to send their children to convent schools...pehley logon ke samne talkhi sey jawab deta tha...phir pairon kee jutee samajhney laga.

I tolerated everything because my kids were small, koi paisa nahi that... aur mujhe apne family ka tha ki mere maa-baap kya sochein gey...but one day mein samajh gayi that I had to leave ...jab mera larka mujhe marne laga apne papa ki tarah

he was only 8 then...my girls were always very tensed and thought that i did not love them...they thought their papa only loved their cousins in India...crying all time...fighting...became very jealous...sab gandee baatein

that day I decided i will leave and i left ...went to women shelter...and then struggled to get my dignity back...now my kids are grown up..settled...aur meree zindagi mein ek achha inshan aya

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Indira ko mein strong samjtee hum...magar usme mujhey apna first husband bhi dikhta hai...

Usey doosron ki izzat karnee chahiye...jab mein shletr mein thee tab therapy bhi thee wahan...aur therapy key hisaab sey Indira is not doing good...jab wo apne mian kee izzat nahi kartee...

izzat lazzmee hai...she should give respect to her husband and logon key samne har baat per usey nichha nahi girana chahiyee...this is what weak person do...a bully...not a strong person

pyaar me ego nahi aaney deney chahiye...jab mian ya biwi roothti hai then dil khol key usey manana chahiye...is se pyaar increase hota hai...rishi did good...per indu ko mehnat karne pareygi



dusrey baat yeh hai ki family complications increase hongee jaisey Indu aur Rishi start their life...kam nahi jaisey log sochtey hai...indu ko apni family ko apney pairon pey chodna chahiye...how will they learn?
itney fasad hongey ki Indu andaza bhi nahi laga sakti...


Agar Indira munna ko kaam karney ka sabak nahi sikhayegi to wo kab sikhey ga?...aur meri ek baat yaad rakhana...ishaan bhi poori tarah sey Indira sey pyaar nahi karega...his parents will always be his parents...Indira usko guide kar saktee hai...but she will never be his mother...aur bahut problems hongee.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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mein chaltee hoon...sorry agar feelings hurt kee...par kuch baatein yahan kahnee the

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