Mein forum parh rahee thi and read people saying that we dont want Indira to be strong...we want her to be miyian ki jutee, ek ablaa nari jo apne pati ke jutey ke nachi rahey
yeh galat hai
Mein ek less educated aurat hun US mein...all alone with my first husband...usmey aur Indira mein kafi common tings hain... he cared for his family...sent most of his money back home...family wale hamesha aur paisay mangtey the and he used to keep sending them money...and when I said no once, beat me hard and i ended in hospital...phir bhi I had no job and a girl...who would have supported me?
Uska gussa bharta gaya jaisey 2 aur bacchey hogey aur India walon ki bhi burden increased as they had to send their children to convent schools...pehley logon ke samne talkhi sey jawab deta tha...phir pairon kee jutee samajhney laga.
I tolerated everything because my kids were small, koi paisa nahi that... aur mujhe apne family ka tha ki mere maa-baap kya sochein gey...but one day mein samajh gayi that I had to leave ...jab mera larka mujhe marne laga apne papa ki tarah
he was only 8 then...my girls were always very tensed and thought that i did not love them...they thought their papa only loved their cousins in India...crying all time...fighting...became very jealous...sab gandee baatein
that day I decided i will leave and i left ...went to women shelter...and then struggled to get my dignity back...now my kids are grown up..settled...aur meree zindagi mein ek achha inshan aya
Edited by Eliza_D - 13 years ago