It is just my opinion… not to hurt feelings of any one or against anyone.
As long as Indira is strict, she maintained some discipline and seriousness in the family but now when she is not strict and sharing her love with the members, she is ignored by them.
The general equation 'be good' with others may not suit the great Sharma family. No change in their behavior.
HD is giving a message that 'to be too good always' will not be good.
I guess, It is true.