yash isnt wrong

Originally posted by: pdaryani

I have been a silent reader so far on this forum.

But being a Mom of 4 year old I can relate to Aarti to some level and had to share my POV with all of you.

Yash is not wrong in his approach, but his timing is not correct. Everyone around Ansh is new. Kids cannot put their fears and other emotions in words. But for a child this age too many changes in life can make it difficult for them. They can get cranky or naughtier as in case of Ansh. Allow them to settle in first before bringing in new changes like change in school. Even if change in school was required immediately, a gradual approach was needed. Take kid for a tour in school to meet his new teacher and friends. Talk to his teacher and let him interact with her before joining school. Ask teacher what kids his age are required to know to better prepare them.

It was good to hear from Yash that he cares for Ansh. But before getting enormous changes in a kids life he should spend more time with all 3 kids together. Take kids out for outings, picnic and other kid friendly places.

The sequence of events should have gone from some fun time with kids then some strong steps taken for their future.

None of the kids are at fault here. Kids this age can get very mean sometimes like Palak and Payal. Reminding them how they would feel if put in such situation can show results later. They both are in comfort of their home giving them a sense of security. Arrival of new Mom has added changes to their life, but still as I said everything else is same.

My heart goes out for Ansh, for whom everything around him has changed except his Mom. He cannot be at his best behavior under such conditions. Gayatri's behavior is making it worst for him. His Mom senses that and has become over protective. But Moms are overprotective.

Well, so much for my first post ever..:)..

Originally posted by: pdaryani

I have been a silent reader so far on this forum.

But being a Mom of 4 year old I can relate to Aarti to some level and had to share my POV with all of you.

Yash is not wrong in his approach, but his timing is not correct. Everyone around Ansh is new. Kids cannot put their fears and other emotions in words. But for a child this age too many changes in life can make it difficult for them. They can get cranky or naughtier as in case of Ansh. Allow them to settle in first before bringing in new changes like change in school. Even if change in school was required immediately, a gradual approach was needed. Take kid for a tour in school to meet his new teacher and friends. Talk to his teacher and let him interact with her before joining school. Ask teacher what kids his age are required to know to better prepare them.

It was good to hear from Yash that he cares for Ansh. But before getting enormous changes in a kids life he should spend more time with all 3 kids together. Take kids out for outings, picnic and other kid friendly places.

The sequence of events should have gone from some fun time with kids then some strong steps taken for their future.

None of the kids are at fault here. Kids this age can get very mean sometimes like Palak and Payal. Reminding them how they would feel if put in such situation can show results later. They both are in comfort of their home giving them a sense of security. Arrival of new Mom has added changes to their life, but still as I said everything else is same.

My heart goes out for Ansh, for whom everything around him has changed except his Mom. He cannot be at his best behavior under such conditions. Gayatri's behavior is making it worst for him. His Mom senses that and has become over protective. But Moms are overprotective.

Well, so much for my first post ever..:)..