Arrange Marriages - Page 3

~what is your take on arrange marriages:

bullshit!!!!...im totally against it!!i think luv marriages shud be in the parents minds from the day their children r born..then if they dun find ny1 or if they ask them to luk for a girl/boy...for him/her then it shud be arranged...n even soo they shud give enough tym to the both to know each other b4 makin ny other decision...

~do you think that arraneg marriages work out more than love marriages:

its all upto God...sumtyms they do n sumtyms they dont...its ur fate!i think those luv marriages which dun wotk out werent ment to be..

~would a girl living outside of america wat to marry a guy from india:

i dun know abt india but in pakistan yes sum do...lyk a girl in my class who is 17 got engaged to her cuzin recently n one of the reasons she was happy was that she was gonna move to america...

~should parents force their kidz especially girls in getting an arrange marriage?

No!!!!forcing their kids especially girls can often lead to a very bad ending...my mums cuzins parents forced her(mums cuz) too get married to sum guy who was already married...result...he used to beat her n at the end she went mad(literally she is mad) cuz he came back home one day n got himself another wife.... a girls future depends on this..for men its sumtyms easy...cuz they r most of the tym the dominate one outta the pair..

Such cases are on rapid rise in indian families when wife harasses, tortures and humiliates her husband and other family members. It's a fact in today's India, when the family dispute takes a different turn, and all family members go to jail when wife/ bahu put false and baseless allegations against husband and tell blunt lies. But others sympathies and trust her as a 'Abla Nari', so support her, which she misuses for her hidden selfish ends. There are numerous such cases which are ever increasing in Indian families that are living in India and abroad. More information on sites. More information on sites: http://reportmaritalproblems.blogspot.com, www.saveindianfamily.org, www.mynation.net