The Balancesheet... - Page 8

Very well said!

Originally posted by: ads_x

Just wanted to point out...when Khushi was humiliated publicly at the beginning of this series we sympathised with her...n even though ASR was hot hot hot...we didn't like his character too much...he has slowly grown on us thru the months...we condemned his behaviour then...we called him childish..arrogant..insensitive..etc etc etc. There were times when we didn't believe someone could treat another person like this...

Agreed he has done enough damage to her from the time they met till date but he was always shown to have a big ego. I'm not sure if we notice so does Khushi especially where he is concerned...
It remains a fact though that post marriage he has never embarrassed or humiliated her in front of his or her family or publicly! For whatever it's worth she is his wife n a Raizada bahu. He inflicts hurt on her in private - it doesn't come from the fact that he believes her to be a gold-diggers or low class (he fell in love with her remember) but from the fact that she has deeply hurt him (according to him) by having an affair with another man! She too has been hurt deeply n will be more so in the future but she seems to have swung the other way...of taking their nok-jhok outside!

So my point is if now Khushi is publicly humiliating him & annoying (actually it's a very mild word I'm using) him in private too, y shouldn't we talk bout her character as well??? Didn't we just mention a balancesheet? ;)

he is shown to have a big ego...so why are we so forgiving about it?? and marriage does not breed amnesia...why should she and we forget all that has happend in the past...after all those incidents laid the foundation of their turbulent relationship...and if we talk about the marriage...it is the biggest insult any man can throw in a girl's face..forcing her to marry..yet letting her know at every stage..how hated and unwanted she is...can it get any worse...or more humiliating??

great post !! well written..

Originally posted by: --Krish--

great post !! well written..

i totally and completely agree with you !!

thanks😊

Originally posted by: eveline

he is shown to have a big ego...so why are we so forgiving about it?? and marriage does not breed amnesia...why should she and we forget all that has happend in the past...after all those incidents laid the foundation of their turbulent relationship...and if we talk about the marriage...it is the biggest insult any man can throw in a girl's face..forcing her to marry..yet letting her know at every stage..how hated and unwanted she is...can it get any worse...or more humiliating??

Not doing it in public...really...walking out instead of standing by her..showing ur indifference..when the whole world is furling accusations and insults at her and she is battling it all on her own...posting security guards to stop her from entering his office...calling her low class in front of his office...if thats not humiliating ..what is?? And please remember till that stage khushi never went ballistic..she just tried to get an answer out of him...

Yes...i have mentioned the balancesheet and its all lop sided...khushi's antics are annoying irritating...but his destructive...there is no comparision between the damage he has inflicted on her and her family...and her childish annoying pranks...in all fairness the balance sheet just does not exist..coz the liabilities side is ASR all the way...

Of course ASR has caused more damage...no one is denying that...all we are saying is whenever these characters act out in the form of hurting or humiliating the other person...we condemn it n talk bout it irrespective of the reasons or history behind it...whether it be Khushi or it be ASR...simple! So there is no need ot defend either...they both have their reasons to do the things they have done...of course whether we agree with them or not is a different story! But talk bout them ...we definitely do!

Thank you Eveline, I always enjoy your post dear. You words hit the target perfectly and fair. 👏👏